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When you talk to someone you never met and they say they want to marry you they love you,doesn't that mean their just trying to get in the usa then when they do,probably won't have anything to do with you,am I right or am I just exagerating?

My husband cheated,I forgave but he still seeing this girl who is only 22 years younger than he is,he's now 41 and she is 19,we divorced and the courts told my ex,he has to ask the courts for visitation,I know he can't get a lawyer(he has no job plus is not paying any child support when it was ordered last july 2005 and now it's may 2006)so,I letmy ex see my son,my son needs his dad.Well, at first I was staying with my son for his visit with his dad and his grandma but I started to just take him to his grandma's and just drop him off for his visit,now tonight he went to see his dad & grandma,after I picked him up,he started crying,my son told me(after he calmed down)he called his dad by name just one time,I asked him what did his dad do,he said he put him in the corner after he yelled at him for calling him by his first name my son is only 5,when he hears his friends call me by my first name sometimes he does to but,I just will say, who,then he'll tell me sorry mommy,am I right or dad?

I limp sometimes when it starts hurting,sometimes my feet and ankles swell,when I sitting down in bare feet,a sharp pain shoots in the side then it goes away.I have no medical insurance but when I did,I went to the doctor about it and he said,"quit drinking so much water"I told him I just drink what your suppost to(8 8ounces of water a day) but,still he say's I'm drinking to much,can this be true?