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on the nurse will administer morphine interveinously every 3-4 hours to make the death more peaceful. Is that even true. (it sounds good; but do they do that?)

Another question does the person feel he is dying or not?

Example: If you feel someone is trying to make you FEEL guilty? Call it on them by saying."Are you trying to make me feel guilty?"

Or...if you feel they are trying to make you feel bad...say "what are you trying to do to me?'

or if you feel someone is trying to SCARE you....say.."are you trying to scare me?"

Just to catch them off guard.And to see what they say.

But that is wrong. Is it best to call it on them...and say.."are you trying to make me feel guilty?"

or just "let that person go?"

Also, how many times would you ALLOW someone to make you feel guilty before you let them go???

I had no idea she did this. She would love to embarrass someone. (people were not laughing).

She would say..."remember such and such, but she would add to the story something bad).

The girl would say.."No i do not remember such a thing. Why are you saying this?

She would never answer just laughed...Do you think she figured it out? She lost potential friends???

Finally we all let her go. (If you hung around her enough you would think she adds to the story to make others look bad in front of people).

either a Yes or NO. (really personal). And you say.."No." YOu are just standing around. They just LOOK at you as if they EXPECT more. So you just KEEP eye contact by say nothing for about 10 seconds. Then you look away with a straight face.

Why are they staring? YOu said no. That should be it.

people just NOT tell about the fight if one of you has "let go of the friendship." If they did tell people,

wouldn't that be re-living the bad time?

Question: Would you tell people about a bad fight you had? or just move on?

(Hey it could be both of their faults). So why tell?

about that." or "that was a very painful time so i don't re-live it." And you are not looking at the person.

If someone doesn't ACCEPT that and is pushy, should you let that person go?

For instance at work or at a friend's house. (where you see something totally wrong, but are not allowed to say, "that is wrong." or "that is unfair.)"

Cuz you would either get fired or if it is unfair. That still is policy.

What is best to do to "let it go?"

was mean." or not???

Some parents i know would tell you to leave.(And i would just leave).

But my parents always told us to STICK UP for ourselves and others.

(But is this NOT one of those times???).

her "for something minor" right in front of me.

Did i have a right to say.."that sounds like abuse to me." The Mom got angry at me and told me to leave YELLING.

My family told us to SPEAK up if something isn't right. And that wasn't right.

The poor girl did look like she had been abused.

Now i am forbidden over to her house. (i know abuse is going on).

What can i do to help my friend? Her MOm is really harming her.

using that as a excuse?"

This really did happen to a friend of mine. She was shocked by that question.(I thought it was rude).

Next time if there is one...How could she respond back? (She did look at her SHOCKED and said..."I do not know." They moved on.

moved on about???? My husband had died years ago. I never bring it up...but sometimes someone that doesn't know will ask. Were you married? and I say yes. Then they will ask, "what happened?"

I brief it. But sometimes people ask some INTRUSIVE questions.

I have tried...."I do not want to talk about it anymore." They are not listening. I am talking loud enough for them to hear.

But they seem to be PUSHY.

WHAT is a good line to use when you want to move on and they won't??? They keep asking.

So you tell him over the phone.."so and so I would rather be friends." He tries to argue the case.

So you repeat yourself...He still is trying to convince you.

Finally, the 3rd time...you say.."I just want to be friends."

That tell the guy you are not interested...I feel the guy is pushy..

Should the person tell him.."I have told u 3 times and i feel you are pushy." or not???

area? Or just ACT BUSY...or just "avoid all eye contact" with her? She has no idea she starts trouble and is a pain in the a--.

She is not aware of her behavior.

What is best in a work environment?

so hostile?"

Should you call it on others if they are being aggressive or mean or yelling?

Such as "why are you yelling?'

hurtful or just plain abusive to say:

"I can't believe you are talking to me like that."

or.."I do not appreciate you talking to me like that."

or "please do not talk to me like that."

What is acceptable to say??? Either of these?? Cuz i know you have to stick up for yourself.

not live by each other.

Now do you "let people go" if you had sent them a Christmas card or whatever kind of card and never heard from them afterwards?

Cuz this is getting kind of ridiculous. I know i am doing all the sending but no response.

someone's house with other friends???

This actually happened with some friends and she got up and started "yelling at him."

Then they left.

I thought why would he tell that kind of stuff to us? That was personal and private. What is wrong with him? By the way he is over 35! We were all telling him..."hey that is private." But he wasn't listening. I thought WOW!

My boss knew and wanted me to have it later like in 6 weeks so she can have someone trained.

I am like (what?). I told her the doctor has the surgery scheduled for such and such date.

But i was SHOCKED to have her TRY to get the date changed.

I do not feel they are suppose. Also has this ever happened to you??? (I stuck to the date. I had to. Doctor's orders). Why is she ACTING this way??? She knows i have to have it.

I had heard if someone has to go out on a disability, they the company has to deal with it and let the person do what they have to do.

Let's say someone is over 40 and is looking for a companion? Or is it the guy expects the woman to hold her own even if she does not make good money?

I know now a days people do things differently.

Or is it up to the couple?