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Ok I have spoken to my sister about this and my mum about this and they all seem to say the same thing! Now me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and throughout those years we have always had a very active sexual relationship! We wouldn't have sex all the time but when we could we would, but nowadays it's like trying to get blood out of a stone when it comes to that! He keeps telling me that I cant ask for sex and that it's gonna happen but most of the time when he's in the mood we will have sex and he will be asking. Also earlier today we were talking about sex and he said well sex is basically for creating babies, it doesn't bother me. Am I crazy here?? Am I over analysing?? We haven't had opportunities to have sex and now were on holiday and it's just the two of us, he hasn't touched me once! I've tried dressing sexy but he just goes to sleep and pays no attention, it's gotten so bad that I just masterbate now more than I did when we were first going out! I mean what the hell? Am I just not enough for him? Has he lost interest?? What should I do? I mean I have said before I dont feel comfortable doing it when were in his parents house but were not in his parents! Aaaaah heeeelllppp

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for two and half years, already hes getting tired of me. He wont have sex with me, he wont compliment me! I could stand in front of him naked and he wont even blink twice! I could be wearing the nicest outfit and have the nicest hair and he wont bat an eyelid! Im just so frustrated! Im not saying compliment me 24/7 but see am making an effort and say I look nice! He never does and when I say something he says he doesnt care about all that, he doesnt feel he needs to disrespect someone hes with and cares about with a dog act such as sex, and that when I make an effort he thinks am bein fake.

I guess what Im trying to say is, was I wrong to overreact??

The question say it all, i waited three weeks for a provisional and sent the application away just to have found out they spelled my name wrong! How long will it take for it to come back if i send it away? And do i need to or can my driving instructor just see that i have it and take me anyway, and a can send it away after hes seen it? Will he need my driver number? Please let me know soon because im wantin to call the dvla tomorow

As the title indicates, im feeling really lost! I dont know why, and i guess it doesnt matter why! I've tried everything! Going for a walk, surrounding myself with possitive people, possitive thinking, prayer, everything and everything has lead to me coming up short :-( i cant figure out why! Why life is doing this to me! I have everything i've always wanted! Everything ive dreamt about and if i dont have something, i'm on the road to getting it!

People in my church say the answer is god! I need god in my life, well i've tried having god, but i cant have him and lead the life that i do! Sacrifices need to be made! Im more than happy to make them if it means i will be ok, but if i will just feel the same then i dont think theyre worth making! I'm ofcourse talking about sex before marriage and masterbation. Those are the two no no's that are keeping me from god and i dont know how to stop! Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years now, and the thought of just stopping till we get married sounds absurd! I dont even know if he will be ok with it :-( and if he is, will i be hurt that hes ok with it? I dont know!

I'm trying sooo hard to make my life better! To make myself feel better but i keep running into a wall! Just when things are goin great, something goes wrong and am back to square one! Am sorry this is so long! Perhaps someone can help me out, give me their email address aswell as some kind of inkling as to what am supposed to do! I really need help! Thanks in advance! :-(

This is a really serious thing thats been affecting me for a while now and I just cant seem to make it budge! Ok so...... most recently, ive found myself constantly searching. For everything. I dont mean searching in a healthy way, I mean as in I want it right away but not knowing why! My most recent obsession? A car! I find myself on the internet looking at different cars and dreaming about having them! I dont want to wait I want it right now, but I dont know why!

My boyfriend is always telling me to be patient and trust that everything will fall into place and I guess I just dont want to leave all the control to life, I want to dictate every moment. Not long ago I was obsessing over a laptop, and a while before that? A house, a family anything! I dont know whats wrong with me, its affecting me really badly and making me miserable can anyone relate or tell me whats going on and try and help me understand?

Thanks, and sorry if its confusing

Does anyone know any good places to eat out in glasgow? Me and my boyfriend are always on the lookout for new places to eat and I would love some suggestions? Somewhere with good value for money and good food

Thanks

How can i get my cat to do the toilet outside?? Shes been doing it inside since she was a kitten and shes never wanted to do it outside but i think it would be better, and cheaper for her to do it outside, help??

Well basically my boyfriend doesn't seem to be very interested in having sex with me anymore. Like we can have sex maybe once a month if am lucky and this will only need to be when we go away to a hotel because he lives with his mum and dad, and he doesn't want them to hear but he never seemed to mind before.

Another thing is the fact that I will try and make plans for our future and he will just say things like well things could change and all this! Isn't he meant to be wanting to plan our future together? I don't know I just feel like he's not the same guy I met a year ago :(

heeelpp a really don't know whether am overheating here :-(

Ok so I didn't want to make the title of this question too long, so, does anyone know whether I would have to buy a sim free phone to use my pay monthly sim on it, or could I go pay as you go! See the only thing is, pay as you go is a lot cheaper than sim free! I lost my phone yesterday and I'm looking for a good phone to use while my contract is still going, i want it to be good so that when my contract is up, I can just go on a sim only plan?

ok so I keep having sexual dreams about other guys and it really unsettles me, mostly because a have a boyfriend and I cheated on him before but we got back together, but now I find myself thinking about sex with other guys and stuff and I always worry that its like this because im.going to cheat on him again! He even has these dreams about me being with other guys! Whats goin on, like right now me and him arent having sex but that doesnt matter to us toomuch I just want to know whats going on with me :-( xxx

Ok, heres my issue, whenever me and my boyfriend are having sex, it feels amazing but then i can never have an orgasm or if i do i dont know what one feels like so then he has to finger me, to get me off and thats the only time i can ***! I also dont really feel anything when hes going down on me, just a few quick sensations then thats it! Is there something wrong with me? Girls can u share ur pearls of wisdom? I really wanna experience sex to the best possible heights! And guys if u could chime in a few things we could try that would be great!

Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and about six months into us going out, we had sex for the first time, its always been the same kinda thing, he would be on top and i would lie there and enjoy the ride :-o but recently ive started to think maybe i outta take things up a notch and maybe do something other than lie there? Someone help, hes my first and a dont know what to do when were gettin more intimate :/

I can give him good head and stuff like that but, when it comes to sex he takes over, i feel as if he would benefit more from me being more proactive?

A guys opinion would be good, so that i know what u all like but i can take a girls opinion too, preferrably someone with good ideas.... Thanks

Hi I just got this new kitten and I was feeding her, but she stopped for a little bit and started scratching on the floor, at first I thought she needed to pee but then she stepped out the cat litter when I put her in? Any idea what she wants? It was almost like she was trying to dig something up?

Anyone know anyone who's selling kittens in the Coatbridge or Glasgow area? Or if u have any kittens u wanna sell me and my boyfriend are on the market for a kitten, we will pay from 50 to 100 pounds for one, we prefer it to be a girl but if you only have boys then that will do just fine :) thanks

Ok, about five months ago I cheated on my boyfriend with one of the guys from my college, and I've felt awful ever since! Av not been able to move on with anything and it's starting to affect my relationship :( I feel like I should be feeling at least ok because everything's fine with me and my boyfriend now but all I feel is blatant guilt. I am in the same class as this guy and every single day I see him all I can think is, ur an asshole! But why's he the asshole when I was the one with the boyfriend and should have known better, I don't have any friends in college now, and it's all my own fault :( everyone thinks am a lying ***** and they just don't wanna speak to me anymore, a cant help but think what if, what if I hadn't went to that party, what If I hadnt cheated? But it just tortures me even more! I feel like a complete scumbag and I don't know what to do

Why can't I let this go!! :(

Ok so heres the breakdown, me and my biyfriend have been together for eight months now and during these months we've always had the same kind of rough sex, its always started with like tenderness, the kissing and touching and then when we get into it, its all one speed, like really really fast and hard, dont get me wrong I love it and everything but, I feel like we need to learn to be more tender with eachother...... U know as in say we love eachother and stuff, but I dont know how to let him know without hurting his feelings.

And another thing, after we've had sex almost everytime, we'll snap back to normal, whereas I always saw me being with someone that us having sex would be a sign of our love, now am afraid its becoming routine :-( what do I do :-(

Does anyone know where I can find a shop that does engraving?, I was thinking about getting a watch for my boyfriends birthday, and a late kind of valentines present and I didnt know where to find places that does engraving :-( also if thats not possible, is it possible to get a locket but for guys? Like some kind of man knecklace so that I can take one of my many pictures of him and me together and put it in it and have written on it, happy birthday 2012 pol? And just a side note I live in scotland so if u could point me towards websites then I guess thats better than nothing

Whenever me and my boyfriend are fooling around and he goes to, finger me, I always end up bleeding quite a lot and its gotten to the point where its really getting to me and getting between us, I wanna be able to do stuff with him without the bleeding but everytime ive bled and its really annoying because we always have to stop and then theres always the question of what is wrong with me that that keeps happening. Should I see a doctor or is there something we can do.

He has quite long nails though, but it doesnt hurt when he fingers me, it actually feels really good but this feeling is replaced with dread as we realised ive bled all over the bed :-( please help :(

Ok so for his christmas i booked myself and my boyfriend into a hotel for a night, it was really supposed to be something that we did together as a way of reconecting with eachother, but it went kind of wrong. In the middle of the night he kind of pointed out that he didnt like the way i tasted when he went down on me, but when i told him i was a little upset by this he said that i was taking things the wrong way and that i was overeacting, i dont think i was at all i mean how are you supposed to react when your boyfriend says that, i always though he liked doing that but now it seems to be like he does it out of duty and doesnt really enjoy it :( i dont know whether am overreacting or wether am dignified in feeling this way :( please help, its got me really down

Ok so av planned a night with me and my boyfriend in a hotel room for his christmas present, now i dont know what to do with him, i know we're going to have sex i just dont know how to act and what to say, if maybe someone can come up with an in depth explanation then that would be great thanks