CurvyDiva

I have a problem shaving my female area. I get bumps, sores, ingrown hairs and infected spots (like pimples) .... IS there any way to stop this?? its not exactly attractive!

So, heres the deal. my bf and i have been dating for about 2 months. i was straight out of another relationship (a 2 and 1/3 year one) and my ex wasnt treating me right. my current bf, whos been my bestfriend for years and i actually dated years ago, and me got really close and i entered a relationship with him soon after my breakup because he treated me so well.

ive been so excited, but im really pissed off right now. a few weeks back, while taking pictures with his phone, a message from one of the girls he used to sleep with (who by the way, was one of my bestfriends in highschool... AFTER we ******* dated) messages him and i see them semi- speaking innappropriately. i wanted to end the relationship but i figured id give him another try.... especially bc i didnt want to tell him i saw her text which envoked me to go into the conversation...

THEN. he finally admits to me that hes lied about his sex life and been sleeping with multiple women- after weve had sex. he told me he hadnt been.. so he just put my health at risk. that was strike two.

this morning, came strike three. he left for work and said i could go onto his computer. im used to my own where im the only one whos ever logged into facebook. not thinking, i clicked the messages that popped up as "new" on the chat line, before the page loaded. it was from his cousin, but the other was from a girl he used to sleep with. i realized at that point that it was his fb, not mine, so i went to log off. then , i got really nervous, and decided to just see who he had been messaging.. of course, it was a **** ton of girls. i went to the names i knew he had said he slept with, and clicked them. he was fuckiing talking to a girl about how they used to be and and how hes so confused and angry....

so i got pissed and looked through all of his messages, many of which saying he wants to meet up with the girls...

and did i mention NONE of his friends know we have been dating for two months?

Do i have the right to be angry, despite that i passed the line by going through his fb?

how in the hell could i even tell him im mad and want to break up, when i cant get the nerve to tell him why...

My ex and I were together for 2 and1/3 years. We broke up', thinking maybe we d work stuff out if we werent together. He hasnt tried, and I m tired of being the only one--

My best friend, a male, is now in the picture. He has REALLY stepped up when I was in these uncharted times (not in the wayof taking advantage)... We were spending alot of platonic time together. BUT we had dated in the past so we are very very close and comfortable about everything.

Now, I'm falling for him. Totally unexpected, but he's everything I want and need. His career is farming (which I totally love)... He's got his life on track. And is the sweetest man in the world. Totally in love with me (I know he has been for years), totally respectful.

Didnt expect this would happen, particularly so soon. But I am SO happy.

How wrong is that? Considering I m terrified my ex, whos a fantastic person, too, will find out and think I was cheating despite that I wasnt...

Help me narrow them down, please!!!!!!!!

Draison Liam/ Draison Liam Connor

Carson Xavier

Elijah James

Jesse James

Everett Miles

Kaiden Michael James

Ethan

Maddox Xavier

Logan

Evan

Hudson

Hunter

Seth

... my middle name faves arent important... just narrowing first names!

Hadley Olivia & Hailey Raine

OR

Bentley Grace and Rian {Ryan} Faith

OR

Paisley Grace and Payton Hope

:) Middle names are still touchy... So many options... pay more focus to the first name sets! Thanks :)

Hailey & Hadley

Bentley & Rian

Paisley & Payton

Theres a cute- looking hotel posted on my discount site right now on sale for 69$ per room (Sea Crest Beach Hotel)...

I was originially looking for somewhere for me and my best friend to go this Christmas to party, explore and have fun...

HOWEVER, this doesn't see to fit, based on the description... However, it looks like the kind of place I could take my significant other or mother for a couple days to just relax and enjoy what the description describes as a quaint town..

Is it worth travelling 1050 km for it?!

I asked this earlier, but I guess it was too lengthly, as only 1 person replied..

I was with my man for 2 and 1/3 year, we broke up not because of a lack of love, but because we are in TOTALLY different parts of our lives (weve grown older together- we were highschool sweethearts) ... with ultimately different life goals.

My bestfriend, a male, has loved me for a very long time, and accidently told me a long while ago... Because I am so close to him, he has really stepped in since. Because we had dated years back, NOTHING is awkward between us, which is great. He gives me the attention I need and my past relationship lacked it.

Now I'm sort of seeing him, and thinking about answering "yes" to his question to be in a relationship with him, one that many people around me feel would be wonderful (my gosh, my mother loves that boy)... BUT,

The catch is I have only been away from my relationship (thats been failing for a while now) for a month. I dont want my ex to think I was cheating (I wasnt), and I know I should be single for a while, and find myself (I was YOUNG when I started dating my ex).... PLUS, i will be going away for work for 5 months........ but my bestfriend makes me so happy and I can see a long- lasting thing there...

Its been almost a month since my relationship of 2 and 1/3 years broke up... It was unfortunate, but I felt it was time... and my ex must have thought so to because he left when i said we needed some time (i was referring to my big move for my job in two months.... hoping the distance might pull us together) ... But i guess thats not how it was supposed to be.

Now, my bestfriend (who I dated a long while ago) who has been in love with me for years has really been stepping up to the plate. he is the greatest, and treats me SO very, very well... and its certainly the polar to my ex who spent no time or attention on me.

I have been wanting to try things with my bestfriend, and I feel like I am ready to.

I have gotten over my relationship so quick because i know in my heart its gone... we were too different to work things out... and it was anticipated..

now, i want to know how long people think is a healthy time to wait before starting a relationship with my bestfriend...

or if i should just go for it, and just try to ensure my ex that it wasnt a cheating thing.,

My mother loves my best friend, and told me last nigght shed love if I dated him...and I know id love it too...

So how long is too short of a time!?

The man I am with's dad is named after the famous John Wayne, and he is named after a character named Nick (its his middle name!) who is like a hero.

He likes different names, as do I, however he threw this out there (something I would have NEVER thought Id like, but I love it!) : Jesse James, the famous outlaw!

Lillie is his last name, so, Jesse James Lillie ... What do you think?!?!

So, I am a culinary student and for my English class, we have to pitch an invention for our pitch- proposal work. It won't go anywhere other than the class, and bc of that most people are doing stupid STUPID ideas. Well, I want to do something great!... So that I'm comfortable pitching it and not feeling like an idiot!

Any ideas? Ive thought of so many things, but then I google it and its real! UGH!

Help me pleeease, its worth like 20% of my course to pitch it.. the idea is just the foundation!

well, my bofyriend and i- or should i say exboyfriend and i- were talking the other night. about problems in our relationship. we fight alot, and we decided we should likely try being apart.... but even though i slightly meant trying it now, i was more referring to my 5- month leave for work (im 19 and heading off to do my summer coop to enter into my second year of my program) ... he said he'd leave. we dont usually take it so far, so although affected, i didnt put much thought into it. he was serious though. and today, on valentines day, two days after our talk, moved out of our rented room (living in my uncles home) ... and i am sure you think its just immature kids, but we are certainly not. weve been together for a very long time. im talking years, literally. ive lived with him for over a year and a half. and today, he moved back in with his parents.

we love eachother, but know we need to change things and work some things out but he wont put effort in, leading to my frustration, and the viscious cycle continues of fighting.

so now i dont know what to do. and i dont know what i want. he said he d stay, but we already 'announced' we had seperated. my uncle and his mom had a disagreement, and shes cut me from the phone bill (we were on a family plan)... leaving me to pay a ton of fees ... so much for an awesome mother in law... not to mention we cant contact one another for free (him and i) ..

ugh. i just dont know what to do. i had to walk the love of my life, the man i was certain since i was a young teen, that i was going to marry. and he just up and left..

and its worrysome bc those traits i dont like... lack of effort (School, job...me... life)and addiction to gaming... is just gunna revert and worsen at his mommy and daddys..... ugh.

what would you do. i cry every time i am alone. every time i see him (i seriously am dreading seeing him at school... the rare chance i do) .... he knows how i feel and loves me (even said lets date but not live together- ya, like thatd work since id never see you and we dont text) .... ugh..

ive been depressed before (abused child, abandoned, etc), and havent felt normal lately (one of the things i am working thru)... and im so scared im gunna sink deep into depression again.

worsened, my ex bf from before has waited patiently for this to happen, he realized he loved me alonggggtime ago, and hasnt given up... is my bestfriend and tho he respects boundries, i know hes gunna swoop in... and honestly, he makes me feel more lloved..

but i love my bf and i just dont wanna **** my life over...

well, my bofyriend and i- or should i say exboyfriend and i- were talking the other night. about problems in our relationship. we fight alot, and we decided we should likely try being apart.... but even though i slightly meant trying it now, i was more referring to my 5- month leave for work (im 19 and heading off to do my summer coop to enter into my second year of my program) ... he said he'd leave. we dont usually take it so far, so although affected, i didnt put much thought into it. he was serious though. and today, on valentines day, two days after our talk, moved out of our rented room (living in my uncles home) ... and i am sure you think its just immature kids, but we are certainly not. weve been together for a very long time. im talking years, literally. ive lived with him for over a year and a half. and today, he moved back in with his parents.

we love eachother, but know we need to change things and work some things out but he wont put effort in, leading to my frustration, and the viscious cycle continues of fighting.

so now i dont know what to do. and i dont know what i want. he said he d stay, but we already 'announced' we had seperated. my uncle and his mom had a disagreement, and shes cut me from the phone bill (we were on a family plan)... leaving me to pay a ton of fees ... so much for an awesome mother in law... not to mention we cant contact one another for free (him and i) ..

ugh. i just dont know what to do. i had to walk the love of my life, the man i was certain since i was a young teen, that i was going to marry. and he just up and left..

and its worrysome bc those traits i dont like... lack of effort (School, job...me... life)and addiction to gaming... is just gunna revert and worsen at his mommy and daddys..... ugh.

what would you do. i cry every time i am alone. every time i see him (i seriously am dreading seeing him at school... the rare chance i do) .... he knows how i feel and loves me (even said lets date but not live together- ya, like thatd work since id never see you and we dont text) .... ugh..

ive been depressed before (abused child, abandoned, etc), and havent felt normal lately (one of the things i am working thru)... and im so scared im gunna sink deep into depression again.

worsened, my ex bf from before has waited patiently for this to happen, he realized he loved me alonggggtime ago, and hasnt given up... is my bestfriend and tho he respects boundries, i know hes gunna swoop in... and honestly, he makes me feel more lloved..

but i love my bf and i just dont wanna **** my life over...

ive been with my boyfriend for over two years. i planned on marrying him, and despite that i knew theres been problems and i believe that sometimes you have to just do whats best for you, i cant help but feel destroyed. it was mutual, i brought up some facts. and we agreed to end it. but i wish he would fight for me, not with me. i love him. and i know he loves me. but its not enough

and i know this is stupid and how do you answer it.... but i just dont know what to do. hes moving out. and im broken inside.

i have decided on some names for the future, and im curious as to what everyone thinks goes together best! OR which you think are BEST.. (thats fine if you dont like them... im not asking you if you do.. hehe.. so dont give me alternatives, k cool?); i want any combos, or if you like them all together, let me know which!

Females:

Emilia Cherice

Arielle Ivy

Paisley Jade

Elisia Grace

Hadley Olivia

Hailey Raine

Males:

Draison Liam

Elijah James

Carson Xavier

Hunter Everett

Hudson Miles

Maddox Ryder

As the title says, I am wondering about short shorts for plus size ladies. I am, of course, and although I am VERY comfortable in my own skin, I am by NO means about to subject myself to a cruel world haha :) ; In my opinion, I dont like it on my own body and I wanted to know any tricks others have... I LOVE high cut shorts and short shirts, and have the body for that part... :) would love if we can all share!

As the title says, I am wondering about short shorts for plus size ladies. I am, of course, and although I am VERY comfortable in my own skin, I am by NO means about to subject myself to a cruel world haha :) ; They ARENT attractive on my body, in my opinion, and I wanted to know any tricks others have... I LOVE high cut shorts and short shirts, and have the body for that part... :) would love if we can all share!

I don't mean to be conceded, but I truly don't know what to ask for. I buy everything I want that I can afford, and by working hard for my money I've learned the true worth of the dollar... so it's hard for me to ask for anything...

I see stuff I want, but then I forget about it!

Any ideas for a 19 year old girl to ask for? I have an ipod, a blackberry, camera, tv, etc. I sell Avon, so I don't need makeup or anything.

I have most of my stuff for my home... my mom has been buying me stuff for my house since I was 9... Ive never been a real kid... so I don't need much for my house.

I am studying to be a chef, so I am a student, but I am not living in dorm.

Any ideas?!?! Random is okay.. lol, just ANYTHING teens/ young women want!

I LOVE shirley temples... mmmm.

I am celebrating my 19th bday a week late! And, I wanna make some yummy drinks up! Grenadine is the only thing I am uncertain about- I was in the liquor store today and didnt see anything... but I was super overwhelmed.

Can I get it at the LCBO?

Grocery store?

...specifically, in London ON if you know!

So, I have a few names in my mind. Im not expecting. I just think its fun to, well, dream! Using my boyfriend of two years name. We both think its fun to dream; im not just being creepy haha

Last name: Trudgen (True'd-jenn)

Put in order what you like :) Be kind, remember I do love these names... so dont destroy me hahaha;

Arielle Emilia- Cherice ( "Airy-elle", not "Are-ee-ul"l or "Airy-ull" )

OR

Arielle Ivy

&

Emilia Cherice (My absolute bestfriend since childhood through to adulthood is Emily, but I love "Emilia" ... But, my daughter would go as Lia :] )

Paisley Grace

OR

Paisley Jade

... I also love the name Gracie for a girl

Sophie Clairice

Addison Olivia

My boyfriend currently loves: Elisiah ( he thinks Alicia ... but that looks like the other spelling for Aleisha...lol... help if you know a way to write it!)

Hailey Raine

or... something after Hailey?

&&&&

If I have twins (high chance) it would be:

Hailey and Hadley :) or the arielle/ emilia names..

LITTLE BOYS...

Draison Liam

OR

Draison Liam Connor (bf isnt a fan of draison as much as i am, but ive wanted a baby draison since i was about 5 years old lol)

Carson Xavier (bf loves Carson, I like the way Xavier sounds with it, bf is iffy on it)

Oakley James (above- mentioned Emily hates it! ugh)

Kaiden Michael James ( I love this; but his cousin thats about 7 years younger than us is named it)

Elijah James (obvs I like the name James... If you have a good alternative, lemmee know :)

... I also love the names Ethan, Aiden, and Braxton

... This is the end to my babbling lol

I am going to Cambridge on Monday and I cant think of any outlets other than bluenotes and suzy sheer... help!