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My ex boyfriend left me for another woman in 2014 while i was pregnant with his child. Went through too much stuff with him. Including physical abuse. And ihad to find out by him callin me her name. I kinda knew it before he called me her name but i dunno it still hurt. Cuz i was pregnant and he just left me like i was trash. He done so many hurtful things. He even called me while i was in labor sayin horrible things to me. My sons now a yr old his dad my ex hasnt seen him once in person. Hes got his new girl pregnant and theyre using the name me and him originally picked out. He was engaged to this girl 3 days after the birth of my son. I call him mine because im doin this alone. No help from him at all. How can he just forget we exist? How can he not feel guilt or remorse? I dont talk to him. Hes tried seein his baby but i wont let him cuz i dont trust him. Its got me feelin worthless. I went thru hell with him all for nothin. All i have is his baby to care for. And a bunch of bad memories. I love my son ill never regret him. Ill do all i can for him despite his hateful sperm donor. But i just dont understand how can someone just forget about their child.

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Im wondering what to do. My ex boyfriend was awful to me while we were dating. He continued his physical emotional an mental abuse all up thru my pregnancy until i was 5 months along. He hit me. Yelled. Called me names. Caused drama. Even left scars on me. I was workin he was not. He got expedited back to AR and i seen this as my way out. I worked from 4 mos along up until i had our child and went back to work a week later after delivery. No joke i really did. I hadprovided everything for baby he provided nothin but put downs and drama. He harrassed me thru my labor. Ive since blocked him from mine and babys life. He has never seen his son and i plan to keep it that way as i now am living on my own payin rent bills childcare everything with no help at all. My question is with this background and his actions and with me providing everything does he have a chance to get custody? Im not doin anything illegal nor do i drink. Hes already gotta new gf and is engaged to b married in a different state. Im in MS hes in AR. i really feel hes unfit to be a dad just by how he done me while i was pregnant. I want to know if i should take legal action now before he tries to.

I dont want my abusive ex boyfriend involved at all in our childs life. He beat me while i was pregnant and varbally abused me to the point of no return til i seen my chance to run and run away. I denied him any access at all during labor and after delivery. All he knows is that the babys fine. He has contributed nothing at all. I worked since four months along and have gotten everything. I made a friend at work who has this awesome opportunity to relocate. Bigger town more oppportunity. Just needing help deciding whtether to leave and disappear for good without tellin him or his family anything else about this child. He harassed me during labor along with his mother. Called me to tell me im stupid and im f-n crazy this that. He admitted not wantin to be a father to me. I dont feel hes to be trusted so i want him completely outtamy life.

Hes beat on me since he found out i was pregnant. it stopped when he left back to arkansas the physical abuse stopped but the verbal continued til about a month ago. havent gotta call since the 28th of november. hes been facebookin me continuing his crap. tellin me ima n***** lover cuz i had a tat done by a black guy whos nothin of a n***** at all. I had him blocked for a while til i turned 35 weeks preg. I thought mayb no contact wud make him realize he will not be apart of our lives if he keeps on. its like he doesnt care at all. and he calls me pathetic and pitiful but ive been workin since i was 4 months preg and ive bought everything for my son. hes bought nothin. sept for a tattoo of what was gonna be this childs name. but now i dont even wanna name this baby that. Y wud i wanna name an innocent baby after a boy like him..hes beggin me not to change it. and hes lyin to all his people bout how bad i am to him. which im not kind in my words to him anymore..i used to be..but since i seen he will say jus watever he wants to me ive been throwin it rite back at him. i dont even want him in the delivery room as he has humiliated me so much i kno ill jus b uncomfortable with him there. hes been nothin but abusive and hasnt contributed anything at all besides hurtful words and playing games. like tellin me one day hed call me after i got off work and hasnt once called since the 28th of nov. im right in my actions. its my responsibility to protect this child. i jus need support:/

i know it sounds weird to wonder how to get over some1 who treated me so badly,but its hard because after 2 years of constant scrutiny and demeaning comments and humiliation and physical abuse i wonder how could it all have been a lie? how could someone be so conniving that they do these hateful things and not see its damaging effects. how could he just hate me so much to do this? didnt he ever love me at all? or at least like me? an if he did ever love/like me how could he jus keep stringin me along? this guys really just broke me. it hurts knowin he doesnt care bout his unborn son. im 8 months along and ive suffered abuse at his hands this whole pregnancy. he even spit on me twice. wen he done that i lost all love for him. im gonna be gettin a restraining order for me an this innocent baby. i dont want any of his family to ever see this child cuz they all act like he does an treat their wives/gfs the same. an the women of his family just are whorish bein passed around from man to man in that family. an they all do drugs ive witnessed it. the children of that family suffer the worst. theyre abused and neglected yelled at made to feel stupid just as the women are. im not kiddin yall its that bad. so my childs not gonna b subjected to that life. i dont want anything from my sperm donor ive got the best he coulda given wen i got pregnant. so im leavin him off the birth certificate too. he wont ever pay anything to get his rights. im gonna act as if i immaculately concepted

last night arguin with my babys deddy..he asked me why i acted like i do like bein mad an feelin left alone this whole pregnancy i told him its because of everything from wen he started bein an abusive asshole..he said if i held onto that i shoulda took that advice then an got the **** out.. cuz there was 1 mornin he was screaming an hollering for me to get up an get out that he didn want me there.and then wen he asked if we please couldnt break up i told him no i cant stay with him he said "ur ****** a$$ shoulda thought about that before you got knocked up" i immediately hung up. he was laughin at me. how wud u feel? im never answering his calls again. im done with his abuse an hes not gonna b let into this childs life.

so recently ive been thinkin of the last time my bf hit me..im now 6 months pregnant was 5 months at the time. He got so mad he hit me in my face and gashed my eye open (on top of alotta other cruel things to do to ur own pregnant gf) afterwards he was worried bout what people wud think. i suggested a made up lie and he went with it. told his sister the lie we made up wen she asked wat happend. why wud he hit me? this isnt the 1st time hes hit me since i been preg. he also doesnt hesitate to let me know its my fault. i can understand him bein frustrated with my pregnant hormones but im pregnant i need support i need understanding i need care and love. what would drive a man so mad as to do what hes done and blame me? i still think it is my fault. i kno he chooses to do of his own free will tho.

we've been dating for a year and a half now and it's been one thing after another with him. He is jealous easily which is understandable because i can be too sometimes. Here lately though, i havent cared at all who he talks to, what he does, who he sees i dont care about any of it because for the whole time that we have been together it's been alot of hell. he's yelled and called me names and hit me several times. i've left and he always talks his way back into my heart. this past friday though i think ive had it. ive been being very mean to him. reminding him constantly of what he has done and how mean he has been because this last time he went really too far. i'm 4 months pregnant with his child and he said "he would ruin that baby's life" if i hit him back after he repeatedly slapped my face, choked me, punched me in the head, threw me in the floor and poured a whole bottle of cold water on me. i dont understand why i feel like i should still want to make this work. i really dont want to be with him, but i take into consideration of his rough upbringing. i just cant bring myself to let an innocent child be born to a father that will hit me belittle me and then tell me to stop being a titty baby because it didnt hurt. every time he gets mad at me i end up toting bruises and getting my feelings hurt by the stuff he says. so i guess my question is why do i have a part of me still wanting to be his girlfriend after a yr and a half of puttin up with being hit and belittled?