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My bf was supposed to come over tonight after work, and he's almost an hour and a half late. When should I have reasonably expected notification he was running late?

(To be honest, this is just for the argument afterwards)

Ok, I'm not above asking a guy out on a date, but sometimes I hear mixed opinions from the guys' side. Some guys don't like that the girl becomes the pursuer.

That being said, if it does work and the guy agrees, is the girl expected to pay the same way that girls look for a guy to pay on the first date?

Opinions on both girls asking guys and who pays welcome

I was in a 5 month relationship recently. He was 21, and I was his first gf. He was reserved, I think he was afraid of what his friends would think (he's the naive one of the group, and he didn't want to be treated like a baby once they figured out he was dating). Therefore, he never told his friends.

He was sweet when we were alone, never pushy or anything. Besides his own insecurities, he was prince charming.

He broke up with me a week after a close family friend killed himself. Besides that, it was sweet, he stayed for 3 hours cuddling with me and trying to make me feel better.

He said it was because he wasn't feeling the connection he was looking for. He said that he wanted to have deeper conversations. I feel like he was looking for the things that he was in the longer relationships of his friends, things that only come with time.

Do you think it could work, that he could see that only time will bring the things he wants? I don't know another girl who would go 5 months with a guy and him not tell his friends.

I know it was alot on my part, but he was sweet and scared, not conniving. I had hopes that if I was patient and caring, he would become comfortable with being a boyfriend, not the silly best friend to all of his girlfriends.

My bf and I have been going out since Nov, meaning that our first date was in Nov. We just finally put it on facebook, and someone asked me how long it has been a relationship. We've always been exclusive, so, what's the difference?

If I go to Victoria's Secret, will someone help me find the right size bra?

My 'boytoy' (not officially a bf) and i have been seeing each other for a little over three months. We both go to the same college and are three years apart. I think i might be his first serious, if not first overall girlfriend.

Several months ago, I asked him what this relationship was. He defined it as 'seeing each other'. Which didn't really help me, but i didn't want to badger him. I know we're exclusive, and he's not a 'playa' at all.

In public, I notice that he either doesn't give me any affection, or if he does, it feels like he's hiding it. We are in a club together, we met through it, and i think that he's scared of merging two parts of his life, because if the relationship goes sour, then he needs to deal with another major part of his life being affected. It doesn't bother me so much about him not letting other people know so much as why he doesn't let others know. If its the reason i listed, then I understand, but if its because he's ashamed of me or something, then I don't really feel comfortable about that.

When we're alone, he's amazing and makes me feel like a cherished princess. Recently when I asked him what his favorite part was, he replied 'giving you pleasure'. Was that just trying to flatter me? We haven't had sex yet, and we're both virgins.

The past couple weeks, he has been planning an event that has been taking all of his free time and has been making him incredibly stressed. I went to check on him yesterday to see how he was holding up and he looked like a wreck. He didn't even look happy to see me.

Is he unhappy to be with me, or is everything I'm seeing a result of first gf jitters and stress?

I'm going to a swing dance next week, and I plan to wear a halter dress. Is there a type of bra I can wear so the straps don't show?

Swing dancing is rather active, and I don't think a strapless will work. I can't pause to fix it either. Is there some sort of halter-like bra?

What is the french verb 'to move in' like to move into a new house?

It could be small or extravagant.

Foreplay preferred.

It could be small or extravagant

I feel I am unique among my crowd with 'I love you'. I don't view it as a 'stage' of a relationship or anything. I don't think it means less to me, it just means that I have different types of love for different types of people. I can understand and respect that it means more to others though.

I was thinking of breaking out the 'L word' to my bf soon. There's this problem that I've found when people say love: it pushes the other person to say it, if they feel it or not.

Disclaimer: I know this is a stupid thing to think of in advance and plan to such detail, but its a thing...

I was thinking of telling him followed by a kiss, but stopping him if he tries to say it to me. Then tell him that I don't want him to say it now, but when he feels it instead of just responding to me.

This isn't mean/rude, right?

My family and I went to a really nice restaurant for my mom's birthday yesterday, and my dad was idly looking over the bill again today and realized that they forgot to charge us for a $200 bottle of wine we had. We did nothing wrong, it just wasn't on the bill. We live like an hour away from the place, and my dad doesn't know the exact bottle he had, so they could say it was up to a $4000 bottle of the same brand.

Are we obligated to do something? Call, go over with a check? My dad thought that we should just go again sometime and request the same guy, then include the money in the tip. Is that a good solution? The bill itself was really expensive, so it wasn't like a $50 meal with a $200 bottle of wine.

Should we, and if so, how should we fix this?

besides sleeping with my mouth closed (i don't consciously choose to sleep with mine open), what are some ways to prevent morning breath?

I'm in a dance group a school, and we wanted to make a mix cd of swing dancing songs for our group. Is there a cheap (free) way I can upload songs online and make available to other people, or is there a service that I can send the playlist and order about 200 cds of it?

I'm a straight gay rights activist, and was a strong activist in high school. I ran my GSA there, and I participated in the day of silence for 4 years.

I don't say that's so gay, and i wouldn't ever call someone a fag.

I have many friends who are gay, and personally am hurt when I hear those phrases.

When I went to college, I felt rejected by the LGBT community there. I go to an incredible liberal college. I feel like straights aren't welcome and the clubs are really for gay people to sit in the corner and hook-up. I feel slightly out of place when entire meetings are on sharing your coming out story and you feel like the white kid at the black support group. Should I just give up on feeling included in a group that isn't for me but I support and live my life as an accepting individual, or do I have the right to expect to be included in a community that I sacrifice for? Do I have the right to not be called a breeder by people that I support?

Is this just a minority phenomenon where the group congregates from everyone else and eventually turn the hate placed on them outwards?

Last time I made out with my bf, he asked me what I liked the best. I told him that I didn't know, because it was all so good.

I asked him the same thing, and he told me 'giving you pleasure'

Does that mean that I don't do enough for him, or am I over reacting to him being cute?

I have been seeing my bf for 3 months. I think i'm his first serious girlfriend. Is it too soon to use the l-word?

I personally don't have as strong of an emotion to saying I love someone. I don't generally view it as a stage of the relationship. Not that I'm a cold-hearted *****, i just won't cry if someone says the word. On the other hand, I understand that love is a more selective thing for others. How soon is too soon?

I'm looking for a couple of new things to do while kissing my bf

any suggestions?

I just was curious, do you think that women fantasize about someone touching them, and men fantasize about touching a woman? Not that this is the entirety of the fantasy, but do you think its a majority.

Like men are obsessed with playing with and touching breasts. Not all women are just waiting to give a bj...

just curious

I don't really get turned on by my boyfriend doing anything to my breasts. Honestly, my nipples feel more numb than the rest of my body instead of feeling more sensitive. My bf kissed/licked/sucked them, and i couldn't really feel anything specific. I got 5 hickeys, and had no idea.

I get pleasure from having been trained that my breasts are an intimate part of my body, but I receive less pleasure there from anywhere else on my body.

Any one else experience this?

Since breasts are such a big turn on for my bf, should I still let him play with them if they don't do anything for me? He doesn't obsess in the sense that he won't touch me anywhere else, so I don't feel like if I don't say anything that the rest of me will be ignored.