Preg With #2

Hi I read online that sex during pregnancy is fine aslong as there has not been a history of miscarriage. Forgive me for being/acting dumb but does this mean more than one miscarriage?

I had one back in 09 since had a baby he's now 2.5 and I am pregnant again. Am I allowed to have sex? I'm worried that if I do have sex I will cause a miscarriage.

Thank you for any answers you can give me.

My husband used my acount y'day to post but I still didn't really get the answer I (not him) needed.

We are not TTC but not preventing so there is no stress. I don't eel stressed and neither does he.

Anyway, my husband is adiment he is very much attracted to me. Been married nearly 3 months, thing is we are kissing and what not before sex and nothing, not hard on, nothing. I have started using my hands on him (if you know what i mean) nothing. I HAVE to give him a little oral to get him hard enough to have sex. Once I have got him hard we can then have sex.

Happening now for arround 18months. He also can't have sex everyday, it just wont get up.

What I am asking is, is it normal to only get hard by oral? I used to enjoy giving him oral now I don't it's became a chore, i don't tell him that and i also act like i really enjoy it just to ge thim hard enough for sex. SORRY FOR TMI BUT, i have rubbed him against myself and that hasnt got him hard either.

Hes 21 and i am 21.

Hi, so here goes.

I have trouble getting and erection before sex. I thought that the thought that "Im about to have sex, or the sights of my naked girlfriend) would get me hard. It doesn't. She needs to perform oral sex on me to get me hard before we can have sex.

Is this normal? Her touching me with her hands doesn't get me hard either just oral sex.

So litterally I have to have oral or no sex. I find her immensly attractive that's why this is so confusing. She is everything to me and just gorgeous. She's everything I want so why can't I do this?

I am 22 years old and this problem started maybe 1 year ago/

Thanks for any info what so ever.

Hi, so here goes.

I have trouble getting and erection before sex. I thought that the thought that "Im about to have sex, or the sights of my naked girlfriend) would get me hard. It doesn't. She needs to perform oral sex on me to get me hard before we can have sex.

Is this normal? Her touching me with her hands doesn't get me hard either just oral sex.

So litterally I have to have oral or no sex. I find her immensly attractive that's why this is so confusing. She is everything to me and just gorgeous. She's everything I want so why can't I do this?

I am 22 years old and this problem started maybe 1 year ago/

Thanks for any info what so ever.

So for 5 months my periods have been like this;

26

25

24

22

^^^ days.

So this month do I test on day 22? Or wait I'm unsure.

Hiya, first month of TTC.

My period is due in 3 days. I am like clockwork and have been since I first ever started my periods.

For the past few days I have had mentral like cramps coming and going, today when I wiped down below I had a very small amount of light pink/maybe brownish mucous on the tissue.

What could this be? I have never experienced it before./

Thank you

Here is my answers:

1st: 8 months

2nd: 3 months

TTC #3 - but still on first month of trying.

Ok, so I know most people will click on this question to answer: "you can only get pregnant 14 days after your period starts", so let me just add something. I have got pregnant twice now by having sex a few days before my period starts. (Maybe I have weird cycles, I don't know). I know when I concieved as it was the only times I had sex.

HERE'S THE QUESTION:

If I did get pregnant 2 days before my period started this time when can I test? I had sex 15 days ago, period started 13days ago.

I didn't test with the others just found out later on with both.

Thank you.

Hi, I know you ovulate around 14 days after the start of your period.

But.... not everyone are the same. Has anyone you know or yourself gotten pregnant by having unprotected sex the last day of your period.

Sorry for TMI but, I can see a tiny bit of brown as I wipe so I would take that as it's my last day of my cycle.

I had sex this evening so could I get pregnant?

Warm Regards

Right for a while I was making myself sick after I ate bad things and then it got to tea, then I would do it after any meal, then any drink and now I am trying to stop it's really hard physologically to stop doing it.

But tonight I ate and thought I am not going to make myself sick and everytime I burp sick comes up, do you think I should go to the doctor about it? I'm wondering if I have damaged my stomach as I have been doing it but not this bad since my son was born. 19 months ago.

I don't want to everytime I eat something my stomach think that I should bring it up. But like I am telling you now and am worried about it by I know as soon as I have finished writing I am going to go and do it to get rid of my tea. But I can't stop trust me and the thing is I have been eating so healthy so I shouldn;'t need to make myself sick but I still do. Even when I had peppers and dry pasta for tea. So that's what is making me think it is all in my head because naturally I should be thinking I have dieted today and won't need to make myself sick. Sorry for going on. Just no one knows I do it. xxxxx

Hi, is there anything you have to do after you have got married to legally change your name?

Or can I just ring around my bill company's and change my driving license to my new name and it be recognised as my new real name?

Thanks.

Hi,

I have read online that getting married before the age of 25 is a mistake and shouldn't be done.

This has made me angry because I am due to get married in 3 months time and I am 21 years old.

I am mature for my age I admit that, me and my fiance have a 19 month old son together and have been together 6 years. (Not on and off) We have never ever split during this 6 years.

My argument is I think there is nothing wrong with my situation and believe we are much better off getting married than some people. I have a cousen who got married at 30 and divorced by 33.

Hi.

I have 4 guests over for the register office seeing as they are babies (under 1) I have asked the register office if they can be sat on parents laps and that way I will still be able to get everyone to fit in.

Do you think they will allow this?

A bigger room is out of the question it is over 200 pound more.

But I have no one I can not invite, everyone are so excited :(

I have made an appointment for Feb for me and the fiance to go to the register office, once we go there what is the waiting time we are expected to wait before we can get married?

I'd like to get married asap with time to buy dress ofcourse, is there a minimun wait?

Thanks

You know when you say, goodness she is facesty! Not fiesty by the way.

My mum said the woman on 'King of Queens' the programme is a really facestey woman :S

But when I looked it up to find out the definition I couldn't get the spelling right.

Hi I have started to feel really down lately and I think it is my 15 month old that is doing it.

I do have a partner but he works 7:30-19:30 6 days a week and I find it hard looking after him and doing everything else and I mean everything down to picking my partners dirty underwear up off of the floor! We live in a 1 bedroom flat, and most of the house is riddled with damp so we are all living in just the front room so thats making me depressed to. He doesn't earn enough for anything bigger, council won't do anything and housing benefit we get a small amount but I have had nowhere say they will accept it since my son was 3 months old.

Anyway...

My son screams nearly all day, he has to be on me or he cries, he refuses to eat unless he does it himself, nothing is simple to do with him and I have looked after other kids and they don't seem to be this bad. It is the clingyness I can't bare. I love my son more than anything in this entire world but he is starting to get me down now, I don't know anyone around our area so I don't have people I can socialise with and because of our money situation I cannot go anywhere that will cost. Not even just the bust fair.

What can I do about him being like this? and I would think of like one day a week child care but I can't afford it either.

Im desperate for any answers, please anything you can think of. I feel tired all the time about our situation *sigh*

Hi keeping this as short as possible.

In Feb our tenancy is up and as much as I like the fact we have somewhere to live right now, This 1 bed flat is full of damp and it has caused me to get skins rashes that I am being treated for. We cannot use theb edroom where it is so bad so all 3 of use are living and sleeping in the living room.

My partner (as I am a stay at home mum) in January is going to loose 20 hours at work which will leave him only 20. I am trying my best to find somehwere else for us but no where accepts housing benefit and we are going to need it after Feb until my partner gets another job.

I have been to the council and they tell us we will stay in band 5 (the lowest) there are like 300+ people above us on properties each time. It is causing so much extra stress as all I can think about it is I am going to be homeless in Feb.

I have looked everywhere and no one will accepted housing benefit. Also I cannot afford a deposit and months rent and our council said they no longer get funding for a scheme they used to do which allowed people to borrow off of them with no interest for a place.

What can I do? Please any help would be so great. My husband and I are just feeling really run down about it now.

Hi keeping this as short as possible.

In Feb our tenancy is up and as much as I like the fact we have somewhere to live right now, This 1 bed flat is full of damp and it has caused me to get skins rashes that I am being treated for. We cannot use theb edroom where it is so bad so all 3 of use are living and sleeping in the living room.

My partner (as I am a stay at home mum) in January is going to loose 20 hours at work which will leave him only 20. I am trying my best to find somehwere else for us but no where accepts housing benefit and we are going to need it after Feb until my partner gets another job.

I have been to the council and they tell us we will stay in band 5 (the lowest) there are like 300+ people above us on properties each time. It is causing so much extra stress as all I can think about it is I am going to be homeless in Feb.

I have looked everywhere and no one will accepted housing benefit. Also I cannot afford a deposit and months rent and our council said they no longer get funding for a scheme they used to do which allowed people to borrow off of them with no interest for a place.

What can I do? Please any help would be so great. My husband and I are just feeling really run down about it now.

Ok, so I am 22 years old. I am feeling 'depressed' inot sure why but its been happening on and off for years. Tonight I haven't felt so down I hav e pills and a glass of water next to me but cannot face doing anything as deep down I want to live. Tomorrow I could wake up like most days and just wanna have fun and party. But I never do party because by the time it comes to it I'm depressed again. I'm fed up with mixed emotions all the time. Shall I go to the doctors? I haven't yet cause I think its just me getting down cause my partner works all day (12) hours and I ha ve to bring up our 1 year old. Sorry for being brief any help I'll appriciate loads. Thanks x

Hi, I am due to go to the estate agents on Monday, And I have no idea when I am suppose to fill out my HB forms. Or how to fill them out as there is info that I cant fill in it says your landlord needs to sign it, How will I give it to my soon to be landlord? I don't know who he/she is.

ALSO, It says on there I need proof of address, For example a utility bill or something but i haven't moved in yet and when i do wouldnt i of had to been in the property for a month or so to even get something posted with my new address on? So the landlord would be waiting at least a month for my rent to be paid.

Ugh im just finding it all to confusing. Thanks for any help guys