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I crave a social lifestyle. I'm going for a business degree but my true "calling" in life is to make music. I want to make house/trap/DJ type music as it's a rising piece of culture and I just love the feel of it. If I join a frat I don't know if it will waste my time since I'll only ever want to party, and I'll have to do my degree along with it, AND have a job. I need to know what my best choice is... If you have been or are in a fraternity your input would be very much appreciated. Thank you.

I wanna make a cd for a little someone. I know a lot of good love songs, but I just want something that when they listen to it, they can fall asleep to it. Kind of like "Slow Dancing In A Burning Room" by John Mayer. Even if the songs aren't too calm, any decent love songs are welcomed!

So I met this girl when I was a sophomore in highschool, she was a freshman. Now I'm going off to college and she'll be a senior. I can't fathom her perfections in words, I know it sounds gay but she really is something else. Here's the problem. She's classy and has her ways with words. She's flirty, she's very modest in her words, and she gets with a lot of guys. I can't count on my hand how many people she's made out with when she's drunk. Apparently when we were both drunk we made out but I can't remember it. Neither can she. Now one thing that separates me from the other guys she's been with is that I won't just hookup with her, I need to know more than that. It's as if she's amazed I'm not taking advantage of my "time" she's giving me. All of her friends have said that yes she is interested in me but are warning me "she's not that type of girl to just date". She texts me when I ignore her for too long, but if I text her for too long she drifts off. This turns into a vicious cycle. I think she's just afraid, she's told me how she feels, and she knows not to mess with my emotions. How do I change all this and show her that she shouldn't be afraid? It's so hard for me, I've had girls, but when I'm in her presence, I just feel like nothing can change my happiness, it's a different feeling. If you're reading this I bet you have a person that makes you melt. That's the person she is. But she makes me melt even harder. How do I get her???

When a lot of girls call you cute, I have been called other things like hot but cute is the main one, and I hate it. Why am I called that? I'm 6'3, 185 pounds, 17 yrs old.

I'm 16 turning 17 in a week and today during a practice I got 353 pounds for my dead lift. I'm 6'3 and weigh 188 pounds. My other friend who is a lot bigger got 423.

As a guy, I'm considering buying this 2005 Nissan 350Z. I had one comment to me made that the car looks "feminine". I would just like some input. http://www.seriouswheels.com/pics-mno/Nissan-350Z-...

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I'm going to make this as short as possible, but it won't be. There's a girl I like who is in the grade below me (I'm in 11th grade) at my school, and I see her a lot at parties. She's had her fair share of making out with guys and she always regrets it, she is NOT a bad girl and does NOT have a bad reputation whatsoever. She dresses nicely and so on. One day, I was drunk at a party I never knew she was at. She saw me, I was on the couch and I smiled and she sat on my lap. I literally said "You are so beautiful but I'm so scared to talk to you at school because I don't want to mess anything up, and I'm saying it now because I want you to know you're amazing and I won't ever say that to you when I'm normal". She said she wanted to talk and I was cute and sweet.

Now here's where it gets screwed up. About a week beforehand I didn't know but she just got over a nasty breakup with a guy that used her. She was sad and I never knew it. I texted her and she thought I was rushing things so she stopped talking and told her friends she just wants to be friends for now.

I went to another party, she was there, she knew I was head over heels for her. She got drunk, I tried to help her, she blatantly made out with a guy right in front of me. I just about killed him. Thank God I was sober, I left and nothing happened. Apparently she was crying after the party and wanted to talk to me but I refused. Now she's always staring at me in the hallways and tries to see me when I practice after school along with her friends. I can't tell if she's just going to be some girl that is going to cheat on me all the time or if she's committed at all. I have never kissed a girl because I have been waiting for the right one, but that does not at all mean I've had girls 'offer' some things to me... What should I do? I don't want to date some insecure girl that goes around, but I'm confused because she genuinely likes me more than other guys

Thankyou for your time too, I really really appreciate it.

I'm going to make this as short as possible, but it won't be. There's a girl I like who is in the grade below me (I'm in 11th grade) at my school, and I see her a lot at parties. She's had her fair share of making out with guys and she always regrets it, she is NOT a bad girl and does NOT have a bad reputation whatsoever. She dresses nicely and so on. One day, I was drunk at a party I never knew she was at. She saw me, I was on the couch and I smiled and she sat on my lap. I literally said "You are so beautiful but I'm so scared to talk to you at school because I don't want to mess anything up, and I'm saying it now because I want you to know you're amazing and I won't ever say that to you when I'm normal". She said she wanted to talk and I was cute and sweet.

Now here's where it gets screwed up. About a week beforehand I didn't know but she just got over a nasty breakup with a guy that used her. She was sad and I never knew it. I texted her and she thought I was rushing things so she stopped talking and told her friends she just wants to be friends for now.

I went to another party, she was there, she knew I was head over heels for her. She got drunk, I tried to help her, she blatantly made out with a guy right in front of me. I just about killed him. Thank God I was sober, I left and nothing happened. Apparently she was crying after the party and wanted to talk to me but I refused. Now she's always staring at me in the hallways and tries to see me when I practice after school along with her friends. I can't tell if she's just going to be some girl that is going to cheat on me all the time or if she's committed at all. I have never kissed a girl because I have been waiting for the right one, but that does not at all mean I've had girls 'offer' some things to me... What should I do? I don't want to date some insecure girl that goes around. I don't know if I can change her :(

Thankyou for your time too, I really really appreciate it.

It's a movie about possession that my friend was talking about and it sounded pretty creepy. The weirdest part he talked about was when the possessed girl said something along the lines of "I'm going to count to three" then each time she counted she broke her finger one at a time. What's the name of this movie?

Whenever I sit in church, this always gets to me. If being overweight/indulged in food is one of the seven deadly sins, then why are there so many fat priests in America? Are they in a state of mortal sin for being so? I had to get that off my chest, it puzzles the hell out of me.

The lyrics aren't exact, and this is from memory, but the voice kind of sounds like the lead singer from Coldplay:

Will you look me in the eyyyeeee

Will you catch me when/if I faaallllllll

One of the biggest risks I've taken was that I tried to fix my password after spelling it incorrectly, I didn't backspace it all the way. I'm a badass.

Okay, so there was this girl that I like at a party (I'm in American High School), I'm gonna make the story short. I was drunk. She was drunk. She's a sophomore. I'm a junior. She went upstairs with a sober senior. They went into the bathroom, made out, and possibly more. My friend saw that I was pissed off, so he told me to get some air outside. I went outside, got pissed off, then sat down in the snow and cried. I'll make it short. I wanted to fight him for taking advantage of her but he was kicked out. She left, I got help. Now it's the next day. What the hell do I do? I'm usually funny when I get drunk but this time it just got to me. Help.

Okay, I'm in high school and I like this girl that's a grade below me. She went to a party last night, I went to, and I've only talked to her a few times, but those times went really well. I drank a lot, that's the bad part. She went and hooked up with a 12th grader in a bathroom upstairs, and then they got a little more intimate, she was extremely drunk and he was sober. I was standing outside the door with my hands on my head and so my friend noticed and told me to go outside, so I got outside, got pissed off, then basically cried in the snow for an hour or maybe more. A lot of people came out and helped, first they thought it was me just being funny (I'm not a depressed drunk), so they laughed, then they realized how serious it really was and helped. The guy that hooked up with the girl I like got kicked out. Now I have no idea what to do, she hardly knew that I REALLY liked her so I thought I looked like a p*ssy for crying over somebody I hardly know. Anyway, now she knows, so what do I do? I'm a little pathetic. This is the first time I've been emotional when having alcohol. I'm really stuck on what to do.

Okay, I'm in high school and I like this girl that's a grade below me. She went to a party last night, I went to, and I've only talked to her a few times, but those times went really well. I drank a lot, that's the bad part. She went and hooked up with a 12th grader in a bathroom upstairs, and then they got a little more intimate, she was extremely drunk and he was sober. I was standing outside the door with my hands on my head so my friend said to go outside, so I got outside, got pissed off, then basically cried in the snow for an hour or maybe more. A lot of people came out and helped, first they thought it was me just being funny (I'm not a depressed drunk), so they laughed, then they realized how serious it really was and helped. The guy that hooked up with the girl I like got kicked out. Now I have no idea what to do, she hardly knew that I REALLY liked her so I thought I looked like a p*ssy for crying over somebody I hardly know. Anyway, now she knows, so what do I do? I'm a little pathetic. This is the first time I've been emotional when having alcohol. I'm really stuck on what to do.

Are you waiting or have you already experienced an amazing day in which you achieved something or the person you loved, loved you back?

Not for me. Not yet..

I'm talking about dating for the first time with somebody you really care about. I'm just wondering because I've never felt it, is it a hard decision to date somebody or is it just something you don't even think about? Spending the rest of your life with somebody makes me too picky and I feel selfish for it. Even though I'm sixteen I feel as if I've missed too many chances because I'm a coward when it comes to dating girls, and because of that I have no experience but I want to, I just don't know how because there's this one girl that likes me but she has some dating experience, so the only thing I don't want to do is let her down or make her feel like she's dating an idiot