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He is 16, and on medication. He has completely lost his desire to most everything. He lies to me, he is mean to his brothers. He goes out of his way to provoke anger in us. So far he has wrecked my car, ran away, cusses and screams at our family, he dose these things with little or, sometimes no remorse. He is not on drugs and is tested.These are just a few examples of what has happened. He has been hospitalized, see's a counselor, a doctor and, goes to group therapy weekly. He refuses most days to do his work at school, I make him go. I guess to just take their space and time! He wont even get a bagging job at the local market! None of us, me included know what to do any more with him. HELP! If anyone has gone through this and found something that motivated your teen son to do well, please share.

Which one worked for you? How much did you loose? How long did it take you?

I have found out recently that 7 years ago my son was sexualy abused by an 11 year old girl (he was 7 at the time). The girl is now 18 and he is 14. I am at a complete loss, as to what to do!!? I am AGRY...file charges? My son says NO WAY...he wont give a statement! She is still known by my x-husband and his family. The two familys are close friends.

Help.