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I had been seeing this guy on/off for 20years. We both had girls from other people then rekindled things when our girls were @ 6yr/7yrs. 

We were seeing each other for a few months things were going well.

Then one night (we had been drinking & some cocaine was involved), kids were not around btw.

He seemed strange saying he wanted us to have a threesome, I was like “no would you like to see me with another man” just flipping it on him, he shrugs. Then he said he wasn’t attracted to me & that we don’t love each other. I was..in such pain those words I opened my mouth in shock, he then went on “there I’ve said it” and I literally curled into a ball & feel asleep.

Woke up he was on top on me doing it, I told him to stop. We slept.

I Woke up the next day & couldn’t wait to leave. Got dressed & couldn’t find the key so he had to get up & open the door for me. We have each other a hug which was not what I wanted. I got the hell out of there, got home & was in floods of tears. Straight away I deleted him, called my mum & we both agreed well yeah that’s it,

DONE for good now. 

Got on with life lucky a holiday came within the next month. Then after 4months he texts me “you ok”, I ignored it, another few months same message then altogether 10months after the awful ordeal a message on WhatsApp “u ok babe”. I have never replayed & block a call I got months ago also. Why in the hell would he do this, why would you want to bother someone you apparently don’t love & find attractive?

I don't need judging comments as I'm already in bits over this situation & won't go into the details as will make the question too long. I have a regular 28day cycle, lmp on 1/5/12 my ovulation date seems to be on the 15/5/12 I had sex with my bf on 13/5 + 14/5 & with a drunken mistake on 17/5 or 18/5, my 8wk scan put my date as on 15/5 (8wk+2day) my 13wk scan put me as (13wk+4days) putting it back a day!!. These dates making me fall pregnant on 14-15/5, could this all be wrong & I fell preg on 17/5 or 18/5, who would u say was the father!?, expert/songrapher opinion wud also be greatly valued!, thanks in advance. Now 25wks preg & very stressed! :(

I don't need judging comments as I'm already in bits over this situation & won't go into the details as will make the question too long. I have a regular 28day cycle, my ovulation date seems to be on the 15/5/12 I had sex with my bf on 13/5 + 14/5 & with a drunken mistake on 17/5 or 18/5, my 8wk scan put my date as on 15/5 (8wk+2day) my 13wk scan put me as (13wk+4days) putting it back a day!!. These dates making me fall pregnant on 14-15/5, could this all be wrong & I fell preg on 17/5 or 18/5, who would u say was the father!?, expert/songrapher opinion wud also be greatly valued!, thanks in advance. Now 25wks preg & very stressed! :(

Most women appareantly have a 28day cycle. I have a period for 7days, do you know what my cycle is!?, I have an idea but have been confused lately & would like to see if my prediction is right by your answers!, thanks in advance for answers.

And u don't, u actually maybe hate it!.

What woul u say!?

Funniest answer wins!!...

What wud it be...

U can say money but abit obvious!!??

How much a person earns!!. Was out wid my ex the other day and he asked me and I just thought "wats it got 2 do wid u" I don't ask him 4 fiancial help or anything!!.

Anyway wud like to hear ur thought's on this!.

I have recently received a dvd that I really want to watch, I put it in my dvd player and it's not working!, I think it has something to do with it being mono?, what can I do to watch a mono dvd on my current dolbey player?, I don't ever understand the difference's. Do I have to buy a mono dvd player or is there a simpler solution.

What would your top say (can be anything) but you would have to wear it around that day, so how brave are u?, would it describe u or something else please say your reason for your headline.

That is out of production now, can be from any decade & can be anything.

As I find books are usually better with your own imagination.

Knowing what you know now would you have voted differently?.

What does that mean, the people's faces I can see are some of my friends. Does it mean they have recently looked at my picture's, I think that but would like confirmation if so. Or does it mean something else?, does anyone know. It's when i'm in my profile.

I have known this guy for years it's always been an on/off relationship mainly due to me & my issues.

I know i'll prob have a few people having a go at me but since I met this guy I have never felt good enough as I think he's such a looker & why does he want me. I am not bad looking I have always been told I am good looking but when it comes to him I think I'm not & he could do better but every time we split the only positive I can think of is "well at least I wont have the pressure" but he always keeps coming back. this time around add on a few years of age (late twenties now) I'm even fussier & wont see him unless I look a certain way, well he couldn't take my forced gaps & has gone again! I am devastated but couldn't help my behaviour any advice?.

Ive known this guy for @ 10yrs we've had an up/down relationship over the years with break up's etc. Then at one stage he just stopped kissing me like during you no.... we have recently started up again & he's still continuing it, I know i'm not a bad kisser as I have been told i'm good. It's really starting to bother me now I cannot continue sleeping with someone who doesn't kiss me. Any advice on how to deal with this dilemma & guy's why would he do this?, what would be your reason for this strange pact he's given himself. I may have to end it again if this continues, i'm not a street walker.

Ive known this guy for @ 10yrs we've had an up/down relationship over the years with break up's etc. Then at one stage he just stopped kissing me like during you no.... we have recently started up again & he's still continuing it, I know i'm not a bad kisser as I have been told i'm good. It's really starting to bother me now I cannot continue sleeping with someone who doesn't kiss me. Any advice on how to deal with this dilemma & guy's why would he do this?, what would be your reason for this strange pact he's given himself. I may have to end it again if this continues, i'm not a street walker.

I really need to do it as it's got to the point I am now so resentful & feel unappreciated. My last pay rise was over a year ago & it was only £500.00 more per year, I have been here 2yrs 4mths now so I think/know it's now time. I reckon my boss has been using psychology on me by all the recession excuses the business isn't taking as much as however many years ago etc those type of comments he will say every now & then. I don't care anymore I work hard I want a pay rise he's a dentist I see the takings.From the info ive given do you see my point!?,& What's the best way to go about asking for one.

I have started seeing ex I have know for 10yrs, we have had an on/off relationship. Anyway the main point I haven't seen him for awhile now as he wants to start coming round my house & I feel I have not done enough to up-date it since he last came @4yrs ago. I went to his house a couple of times now he is always trying to come to mine. This weekend he did it and I was like "no" he starting to sound quite upset practically begging me to let him come but I had to keep saying no cause i'm embarrassed with the lack of my changes. I plan to quickly get some flooring etc done next week when I get paid but by the conversation recently it sounds like my time has run out. What a stupid reason to for a relationship to end but I can't help it & wont risk him coming as it is & looking down on me. Any advice.