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I went to bed around 3:30 am after watching YouTube videos about aliens,  reincarnations and all that good stuff. About an hour into my sleep, I had a dream where I was walking down a hall alongside a few people and there was a beautiful lightskin curly haired girl by the double doors with a couple young kids with her. She was trying to hug random people and they kept dodging/juking her out and I tried to do the same but she caught me with the back of my collats and slammed me down onto the ground. The two little kids then started chocking me out to the point where I couldn't physically breath, not just in my dream but in real life to. At this point, I was pretty much awake but not breathing. My body wouldnt move even though my eyes were open, then someone in my head scream "let him go!" twice. Then I was able to breath and move.  I've had a couple sleep paralysis incidents before but this one came with a drram. I also heard voices in this one and it coincidentally happend after watching those YouTube videos. What could this mean? 

So I'm 22, in the military and been single my whole life and never slept with anyone before too. Most my friends are either married, in a serious relationship or have a kid. And I really dont fancy that except for the fact I kinda want to have a kid, but the normal way is dating around-finding "the one"-getting married then have a kid. The thought of doing that is just exhausting.

I know that I'm too selfish with my space and time, I'm so content with how my life is right now.

I've had alot of female friends in highschool and college. I've known a few who had a thing for me and who were pretty clear about it. And sometimes I think to myself "damn I should've asked her out and stuff" but then what, what if it works out and being with someone feels like a lot of work. Usually guys approach females and and stuff but its the opposite with me. I find myself being close with some girls I didn't even mean to be friends with. Then when I get the feeling that theyre into me I just distance myself cause I get weirded out/repulsed by the idea of dating them and going on to sharing my life with them. And before you say that "I might be gay", I'm not gay. I dont fancy being in a relationship with other men either lol

I have considered the thought that I might be an asexual but the definition of an asexual doeant really fit me, I still like females, both physically and in romantic ways. Plus i watch porn like every guy so i dont think I'm asexual

I cant figure out what my problem is

I'm an A1C in tech school. I was just handed an LOC for being late to formation twice. First one was when I was late to final form before heading to class, and the other one was "late" to formation before marching to class.

They put a "warning" on my 2nd 341 that was pulled by the student leaders, and an "LOC" on the first offence. Why is that? Shouldn't I have had the warning on the first one and an LOC on the 2nd one? Anyways.. my school house is the most strict on base. My civilian instructor and another civilian instructor pulled me out of class and had me sing that I was counseled. I explained that I wasn't late to the firat one, I left the formation to grab a reflective belt but when I got back to formation, I got a 341 pulled.

How serious is an LOC in tech school? Will it be on my record? I've had a couple 341s pulled in bmt but nothing major, and I left bmt as an honor grad. Will this LOC be looked at when I get to my first duty station in a month?

I'm currently enlisted (E3) and in techschool for Fuels(POL). I'm 22 and joined the Air Force my juniour year of college. I had a 2.5 gpa but I need a couple classes to get my associates in Political Science. I plan on using my GI bill to get my bachelors.

I'm barely starting my career as enlisted but I really want to be an officer in a few years and stay in the military for the rest of my life. What do I need to be doing rightnow to pad my resume?.. All I have gotten so far is Honor Grad in boot camp. What should I major in to have a better chance of going officer as a Pilot? And is blurry vision/bad eye sight disqualifying?

I've done some research online but have found mixed up information.

Thank you in advance.

My mom had some dental work done and her face is kind of un even now. She believes it's after the 2nd time she was injected in the gum with anaesthesia.

She had a fake incisor that she's had for 20+ year and a golden canine removed and replaced.

The shape of her lips is like an eye now. It's not even. Everything on the right side of her face looks normal but the left side looks lower and not so alive. When she smiles the left side of her lips don't open all the way. It's like they're paralysed.

She also had teeth pulled out and was injected on the left side so that makes sense that it's the left side of her face that's acting up.

What are her options now? I'm taking her tomorrow to talk to the dentist. What else can she do. It's been more than a week since she's finished the dental process. so can she recover or is her face always going to be this way?

My mom had some dental work done and her face is kind of un even now. She believes it's after the 2nd time she was injected in the gum with anaesthesia.

She had a fake incisor that she's had for 20+ year and a golden canine removed and replaced.

The shape of her lips is like an eye now. It's not even. Everything on the right side of her face looks normal but the left side looks lower and not so alive. When she smiles the left side of her lips don't open all the way. It's like they're paralysed.

She also had teeth pulled out and was injected on the left side so that makes sense that it's the left side of her face that's acting up.

What are her options now? I'm taking her tomorrow to talk to the dentist. What else can she do. It's been more than a week since she's finished the dental process. so can she recover or is her face always going to be this way?

I just turned 23. Did 3 years of college and I'm shipping off to boot camp for the Air Force in a couple weeks. I have always wanted to adopt a kid after I have a career and can provide for the child. But I'm single. I don't see my self being in a relationship let alone getting married. Imy straight but I know that I'm anot asexual. I have no desire to pursue women. So, if I wanted a family in the near future by adopting without having a partner to have kids with, would it be impossible or close to impossible. I know it is hard but how hard?

I'm a 21 year old college kid. Majoring in Political Science. I'm a few credits away from getting my associates degree.

I signed up for the Air Force and went through meps last week. I qualified for a lot of jobs, including for the job I was looking for, which is Paralegal.

I'm to ship off to boot camp in April 16th, and my recruiter just told me that I'll be going to get a Mechanical job. He highlighted a few mechanical jobs I will possibly be doing.

At meps, I wrote down Paralegal as my first choice, 2nd was a mechanical job and 3rd was security forces. The other 5 jobs that followed were mostly mechanical.

I fancy a career in law area or at least law enforcement, and so I'm not comfortable doing mechanical in the Air Force. It sounds like a good skill to have but it's not my thing. And I don't even know if the mechanical job they give me will help me land a civilian job in that area.

What should I do?.. do I have the right to ask them not to send me to boot camp until a Paralegal job opens up? Or at least security forces?.. I'm not even sure exactly what my mechanical job is going to be, there's like 20 of them that I might get into.

What are my best options at the moment?

Serious answers only please. And thank you in advance!!

So I used to write a lot of poems and songs but never used them. I can't sing or rap to save my life.

And now I kinda want to start writing get again, who should I give what I wrote to? Are their apps for that or online websites?

They are decent and they rhyme. The lyrics has substance and it's nothe full of filler words or random words no one has ever heard of.

So I'm 21 and my hairline is receding. It's like a V shape now. I've always had thick curly hair. My hair now is very thin, I lose alot when I'm combing or in the shower. My hairline used to be close to my forehead but it's moving backwards and no hair is growing where my hairline used to be. It's smooth. I'm only 21 and I love my hair lol, is there any medication or oils I can use to regrow the hair I lost, make my hair thicker and stop it from going bald? Thanks

P.s.. I'm going to the airforce and they will shave all of it off when I go off to bootcamp, any oil or medicine I can put on it when it's clean shaven?

I'm 21, 5'10 and 153 pounds. I'm a college junior and I play sports on almost a daily basis in this heat and sweat alot. I also drink alot of water. I'm going to Meps on august 15th and 16th. The last time I smoke weed was June 25th. So almost 2 months ago. I didn't tell my recruiter this because I was told to never mention drug use to anyone by a couple of guys that are active duty in the air force. And I smoke in oregon cause that where I go to college and legal there, and I wasn't a heavy use. Just once in a while for about a year and a half. A bong rip or a couple hits offal blunt once in a while. What are my chances that I will pass the piss test. Last time I used weed was June 25th and I will be tested august 15th..

Thank you in advance

I'm going off to the AF in a couple months. I'm 21 and in college at the moment. closest AFB near me is in Mountain Home and I will put it on my dream sheet cause it's close to home and only a 40 minute drive frome boise. What other bases are similar to Mountain Home afb, I mean like close to a major city. Mainlyrics in the USA... but feel free to include bases in Europe or Asia... thank you

I have to go to meps next week to join the Air Force. I've had an irregular heart beat, idk if it's gone now but I had it like 3-4 years ago...

My doctor heard my heart beat in an irregular way 4 years ago when I was doing my physicals done for highschool soccer... but he said I didn't need to see a specialist and I could keep playing games soccer... I went on to play three years in highschool and 2 years in college. I'm a sophomore in college now and playing soccer on a scholarship.

I also ran track in highschool, my mile was under 5 minutes all the time, 4.49 minutes was my best... I ran 3 miles last year for college in 17 minutes and some seconds.... if my doc had not told me I had an irregular heart beat 4 years ago, I would never know that I had one... I've never had any issues and always been athletic..

I also just an AFQT of 80 percentile onot the Asvab and I'm really looking to be an air man, will the docs at Meps give me a hard time if they notice my heart beat??

So I'm a 21 year old college sophomore, I'm planning on going into the AF in the next few months... I am trying to be in the security forces, that's the only job that looks interesting to me even tho I just got an 80 afqt percentile on the asvab...should I switch jobs? I heard it security forces sucks but I will be using college credits to go in as an E-3.

But my main concern in where I will be based... what are good bases for a 21 year old guy?.. I'm not married and I don't have kids either... I would like to stay in the U.S. somewhere warm year round with lots of outdoor stuff to do..

I'm a sophomore in college,(political science/criminal justice major)... I am about to get in to the airforce (security forces)... I will have 65 credits by the end of next term and that should get me in as an E-3...

What bases should I have on my list of bases in order to do patrols and other police work instead of basic security stuff like guarding planes or gates....

I am sort of nervous and serious and detailed answers would help me alot at the moment. Thank you for your time

My moms car was hit outside an apartment while it was parked. The person who hit it was a high schooler who is the child of the people that she was visiting when her car got hit. This was on thanks giving night and a cop took a report but we didn't know who hit it at that time. the next day, my friends tell me about how that kid came to their house on thanksgiving freaking out that he had hit a parked car outside his house. They figured it was my moms car because I had told them where it was hit and when. It was also hit by a white vehicle. They told me everything he said including the fact that he tried to use boiling water to try to soften the bumper so that he could push it out. I screenshot everything these 3 kids told me about how the kid hit a car outside his house that night and how he tried to hide all the evidence and emailed it to the cop because she asked me to.

The cop told me that he denied doing that but she handed over the case to the prosecutor, this was a few weeks ago.

I just got off the phone with the prosecutor and he tells me that he cant press criminal charges because there was no evidence and that the cop also told him that she could not prove it either. But i mentioned all the screenshots to the prosecutor and he tells me that HE DID NOT KNOW THAT THERE WERE SCREEN SHOTS!... The cop never gave him the evidence. WHY would she do that? I'm a college student hoping to work in law enforcement in the future and I feel like she is incompetent!

I just signed up for the airforce.

I'm in my 2nd year of college and I'm planning on going for basic training after this term. I will also have 45 college credits. I was majoring in criminal justice and will try to do law enforcement related stuff in the airforce.

So, with the 45 credits that i have, what advantages do i have?.... and does what type of credits i earned matter?... rhey are all from criminal hustice, social science and government related credits.

Thank You

A bracelets with alot of White beads with a few purple/maroonish/darker pink beads.

So if the bracelet had 40 beads, 30 of them were all white and the 10 others were pinkish/maroon/purple I think.

I saw a girl wearing them and I was wondering if they have any mean something or is it just a stylish bracelet.

Please don't tell me to ask her on read haha

I'm 20 and in my second year of college. I'm majoring in political science but most classes I've been taking are criminal justice because I want to get in the DEA in the future.

To be honest, I don't see myself getting a bachelors degree because University is really expensive and I've already racked up alot of debt.

My plan is to finish my second year of school and try to get into some department's police academy and work my way up from there.

Am I on a good track or are there things I should do?.

I know the DEA website has info but they are not enough..

. thank you.

If a girl compliments me alot, asks me to to reach her some stuff (sports related).. and replies to my texts really fast with long replies and asks me to dance with her at a parts and gets really touchy (comfortable).. makes me grab her around her east and stuff mean that she kinda likes me and is hinting that I ask her out?

We are kind of friends with alot of mutual friends.

I usually avoid her at house parties if she tries to get closer to me after drinking because shes hooked up with one or two of our mutual friends as a result and I can understand if she gets some sort of validation from them but I can't play her like the way they do. Soon she'll only be left feeling used.

We're already sort of distant friends but I want to get closer to her and help her see her self worth without making her feel like I'm playing with her .. I don't want to unknowingly lead her on...