Loretta Jane

i know i will never know really whats up until i hear it from him. but i doubt he ever will tell me and im curious/ looking for insight...

so this guy and i had been dating for about six months. things were great between us. we got along great. we always had a nice time together. had similar interests. blah blah blah. during Christmas and my birthday which fall around the same time he bought me very nice thoughtful gifts. introduced me to his friends. which we hung out with on several occasions. and even his family when they came to town. then just one day he just turns cold. doesn't want to hang out. just wants to be alone. okay i can take a hint. were done. at first i assume the obvious. its another woman. cause it couldn't possibly be me. but i don't really think so cause he still called me late at night for some action. i declined. i know im better than that. so its been three months now that weve been "broke up" and recently weve been talking more and hanging out again. although we haven't gone out, he invites me over to his house to hang out. and we cook dinner together or take the dogs for a walk. hes always very affectionate like he was before. puts his arm around me. sneaks little kisses. and regrettably ive spent the night over there more than i should. we always have really great chemistry/sex. this week we went to lunch. he asked me. and it was really nice. the conversation was so easy and we talked and laughed and had a great time.so why the heck did he dump me?

Okay. not really an ex. but kind of. she had a boyfriend. they met in a bar. and then hung out for a bit. they slept together once. but he wouldnt play her game of i want you to want me and pay attention to me and do stuff for me, but oh by the way i have no intention of breaking up with my boyfriend. so we all had hung out twice while they were "seeing" each other. and i always thought he was really nice. well fast forward a year. We saw him out last weekend. my sister says she hates him, so she avoids him. but my drunken self goes and talks to him. several times throughout the night. as the bar was closing he asked for my number and i gave it to him. weve been texting all week and he has brought up hanging out sometime a few times. i said that i thought this was against some sister rule. but...its not like they ever really dated. and shes still with her sorry a** boyfriend. sooo....is it wrong?

so theres this guy ive been seeing. hes not my boyfriend. he might be one day i dont know. weve been hanging out for about two months now. i know he still talks to other girls, which is fine. i still talk to other guys. however, when hes with me he texts other girls. and it annoys me. i would think that he would have enough respect for me that when he was with me he not talk to other girls. i dont text other guys when hes around. so i was thinking about saying something. but i didnt know if this was no big deal and i was just being overly sensitive about it or should it bother me? i know really i cant make him stop, but i could choose not to hang out with him anymore.

I have a male cat, probably five years old. I had him fixed the second he was old enough. We have lived in the same house now for two years, so its not a new environment. I buy the same kind of litter and clean his box out everyday. Thats everything ive read to do to potty train cats. I have never had a cat that you didnt show the litter box to once and they automatically go. He goes to the bathroom, most of the time. If im home he refuses to go without me walking him to it. He will meow and meow until i take him in there, but if im not home he goes, i dont know how long he holds it for or whatever, but theres stuff in the littler box when i get home. However, this weekend i went in the spare bedroom and noticed it smelled like pee. so i found a few spots in there where he had gone. then last night i caught him about to go in there, but when i saw him he ran to the litter box. i closed the door to that room so he cant get in. and the bedrooms are all that have carpet. i cant leave the doors closed forever. How do i keep this darn cat from peeing on the floor?

I was diagnosed with PCOS about eight years ago. I never really had any symptoms of it except for an irregular period and weight gain. But really my whole family is just kind of thick. And i was never really that overweight. Recently I have lost fifty five pounds, which now puts me at a normal weight for my height and my periods were once a month for probably eight months now. Which after a life time of every two or three months i have hated! However I am now technically two months late and have not been practicing safe sex for several months now, not because i was trying to conceive but i just kind of always assumed i couldnt. (im 32, have a job, house and car. a baby wouldnt be the end of my world) anyways so im late. ive taken two hpt and they were both negative. for the last week ive been kind of off and on nauseous. today its been particularly bad. i got about three bites of my lunch down, which was a sweet potato before i became sick. i know this is the gross part but...yesterday i had some white discharge, and today ive had some very light pink spotting. so is pregnancy a possiblility? and really im just concerned cause the weekends coming up and i tend to drink more than i should. and i also have a friend who is due in three weeks and at almost six months urine tests were still negative.

I was thinking today. This guy and I used to have fantastic sex. We were completely in sync in that department. Im talking all night, sheets soaking wet, tingling when you thought about it for days. However, we had no other connection. We would hang out and talk. But we never really had anything to talk about. Wed just end up watching tv for a bit then just doing it. How does this happen? I would think for us to be that connected in the bedroom there should have been some chemistry elsewhere.

I love my bff. Shes fun and laid back. I always enjoy spending time with her. However...I cant stand her family. Her husband is a jerk. Her kids are all unappreciative mouthy brats. Who are so rude and disrespectful i cant believe it. Which btw the kids are 21,19, 16. So theyre not little kids. the youngest always wants to go places with us when the entire time he complains about being bored and that hes ready to leave. I get so so annoyed whenever i have to do anything with her that involves one or more of them. Shes learned to tune them all out, i however cant. How do i tell her i cant hang out with them as a family???!!!!

Ive been divorced now for seven years now. i have completely moved on. im currently single and i have this beautiful ring that just sits in my jewelry box. it means nothing to me. i dont look at it and feel like a failure or dream of a life we could of had, blah blah blah. nothing like that. to me its just a piece of jewelry. can i wear it on my right hand or is that somehow inappropriate?

i invited a guy over for dinner that i really like. we recently had a break and i havent seen him in a few months. we started talking again and im glad. ive been to his house a few times for dinner and he always made pretty simple stuff, but hey. hes a man right. so i need to make something good and that looks as though i put some effort into it. but i dont want to seem as if im trying to hard to impress him. i need to be cool about this. i also would like it to be something that doesnt require a lot of last minute prep, that way im not in the kitchen all hot and sweaty sauteeing when he gets there. any suggestions?

i work with this guy. he is not single and i am not trying to "be with" him. but over the last year hes worked here after a few drinks weve made out twice. that i cant get enough of you making out. after the very first time he kissed me he said "ive wanted to do that for a long time now" anyways we have never talked about these occurances. occassionally i have to text him for work. and the texts always turn flirty. however, yet when we see each other around the office or whatever its kind of awkward between us. both of us are just really polite and almost formal. you know "how are you today?" "here you go sir" stuff like that. should i talk to him about what happened between us and then maybe we can be friendlier to each other at work without it being so odd....

This guy and i have been seeing each other now for a month. We werent "boyfriend/girlfriend" but we would hang out a few times a week and it always resulted in the other one spending the night. Well last friday night i had a few drinks, or twenty. whatever. but all week he had been kind of blowing me off. like i would text him and he wouldnt respond. or he would. but it would be two in the morning. on a work night. when neither of us is normally awake. so all week i kind of knew something was wrong. then friday night a few drinks, i text him around one am. he doesnt respond. so then at three thirty am i text him this three part text about how i know when im being blown off and i felt as if he should have told me he didnt want to see me anymore instead of just not talking to me anymore. and that i never felt he really gave me a chance. so he never responds. then saturday night i texted him and just said that i apologize for all that. and he said..."yeah. um..." and that was it. and i havent heard from him since. granted this is only tuesday morning, but typically we would talk everyday. so now my question is....should i just back off..give him time and if he calls me again then great..if not i go on....or should i make an attempt to let him know i like him and that i want another chance?

so two weekends ago i go out with this guy and it is our third time going out and on the drive home hes telling me that he really likes me and stuff and can tell that im a keeper and then asked if i wanted to hang out the next weekend and i said i would like that. well then we go back to my house (btw were both in our thirties) and things are you know...happening. but we didnt have sex. he did end up spending the night though. well that was on friday night, then on saturday i was hanging out with my friends and hes texting me telling me he had a good time and he liked me and stuff. well i havent heard from him now since that saturday so approx. 10 days. i texted him twice and he never reponded to either one of those, so im not texting him again. i know that i will never truly know what is going on with this until i talk to him, but i was just looking for some insight into this. and okay we both have jobs and maybe hes been busy, but seriously are you so busy you cant take ten seconds to respond to a text from someone you like?

So last year a married friend and I had sex. I knew that he was never going to leave his wife for me or anything like that, it just happened. A few times. Well then i started feeling bad about the whole thing and i said that i didnt want to have sex with him anymore, that we could hang out or whatever just like we used to. So he came over a couple of times and would always try to mess around but i would stop him. Then comes the summer and i meet someone and start dating him. Well married guy comes over to my house one night and wants details on me and this other guy. so i tell him, and he says its a bad idea because he is my friend and doesnt want to see me hurt. Yet now it has been several months and he wont talk to me, i have texted him numerous times and he wont respond. seems to me like he is somehow jealous, even though i dont understand, cause hes married. whats his deal?

why can you buy either bottled or canned soda, but only bottled water?

so i was talking to this guy for about a month and a half. things were going good. we got along good, conversation was easy, blah blah blah. anyways, he just stops talking to me. if i text him he wont reply, which i only did once, and when he didnt respond i though, eh, i can take a hint. so now it has been two weeks and i have not heard from him. should i call him, or text, whichever and just ask why he stopped talking to me. i dont want to seem crazy, im not, i just am curious, and a bit confused as to why he would just stop talking to me.

I have recently become a little closer with my neighbor two doors down from me. dont worry we are both single people. Well we were just being friendly and stuff then last night we stayed up almost all night sitting outside talking and then we were making out. I worry though that messing around with my neighbor could end up very very bad. since neither one of us will be moving, probably ever we will see each other always. is this a terrible terrible idea? the problem is that he is super nice, and we get along great. and i know that he has his stuff together, because we live in a nice neighborhood and he owns his house so i know he is at least somewhat stable.

My cat is about 3 years old. He has been just impossible to train to go to the bathroom. For the last 2 years he will come get me when he has to go and i go stand by the litter box while he does his business. He is on a schedule and goes about the same time everyday. However if i get home from work late, he will pee on the floor. I dont know why he will not go to it himself. it is very frustrating when trying to sleep in on sunday morning and he is screaming at me to get up.

I know that this isnt really a question. But just something that i was thinking about today. I pretend that i dont want to have children or say that im not ready to yet, but secretly deep down inside i want to. My girl parts are all messed up and im aftraid that if i tried that i wouldnt be able to so i say that i dont want kids right now to hide my fear. Well that and i am also single and you kind of need a partner for this. I really honestly didnt want kids for the longest time. I helped my dad take care of my little brother and sister after our mom passed away, so i always felt like they were my children. So after they were on their way it was my first time, i felt like to be a little selfish, maybe not selfish, but take care of me for a while and enjoy not having so much responsibility. But now, i am in my thirties (the early part) and my sister is talking about having children now, and i guess maybe part of me is jealous. Because she has this seemingly (sp?) perfect life ahead of her with her great husband and their great jobs and now they are talking about babies. And i really always thought that we would have our babies together. But now i dont know. I think i am broken because i dont know if i want to get married and want to have kids. I wish i was that girl who fell madly in love with someone and wanted to be with them every second of the day and just couldnt get over how wonderful they are. But i dont know if im not that girl, or i havent found that guy who makes me feel that way. And part of me wants to be like that, and part of me loves being single and doing what i want, when i want to do it. all my married friends with kids say they are jealous. I dont know. maybe because i am on my period i am hormonal or something. i think i just needed to vent.

Okay, so i have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We mostly talk on yahoo messenger, but we talk on the phone occasionally. I do know him in real life, not just via the internet. We have talked every single day since we started talking. But the weird thing is, when we talk he acts completely uninterrested. Yet he is the one who contacts me. And sometimes when we talk it will be for hours. Im confused. Does he like me or not? Oh and one night he called me when he was drunk and said that he was sorry if he ever hurt me in the past ( we slept together a long time ago) and that he really liked me and he knows he didnt act like it, but he did, he just thought he didnt deserve me, and that he wants to go to the movies, lol. but then two days later i asked him if he was sincere about what he said and he said he hardly remembers talking to me and doesnt remember what we talked about. im confused.

I am making a cake for a world of warcraft fan and i need a saying that would relate to the game to put on it...such as...I hope your birthday is a great as the time i did a quest and got the treasure...or something like that...but it has to be real. i dont play the game so i dont know what is good in there.