Lillia

Okay so I got talking to this guy and we hit off pretty well. He asks me "Why are you pretty funny when most pretty girls are like talking to a brick wall?" and that made me feel pretty good, he finds me funny yaay sort of thing. I found him interesting to talk to, someone knew and everything.. but then in later conversations he brings up insults and it's out of the blue and I don't get it? He's quite stubborn with some statements "Your the biggest snake in the grass" and he says that I upset him and that I don't make him happy.. "Nahh think of the ugliest most annoying guy with blonde hair and height dissabilities, thats the guy" He said he was joking about the ugly and anoying bit.. but it still upset me, he says he is sorry :/ I really like him, just not when he is being like this. When he does compliment me, I don't take it because I think he's joking.. he tells me that he wants me to be happy and that it makes him sad when I am unhappy, but why does he say all this? I haven't told him how I felt, just things like that hurt, or burrrnnn because I'm trying to take it as a joke but I can't...

Well he starts going off on how I'm being mean to him and everything, so i just reply sarcasticley "Love you too." and he then replies awwwww, right cutieee arnt you lilly ;) there isn't much I can reply to that, so I'm waiting for him to say something eles to me... because I dont want to make the next move.. I'm confused on what choice to make.. I don't know:(

Okay so I got talking to this guy and we hit off pretty well. He asks me "Why are you pretty funny when most pretty girls are like talking to a brick wall?" and that made me feel pretty good, he finds me funny yaay sort of thing. I found him interesting to talk to, someone knew and everything.. but then in later conversations he brings up insults and it's out of the blue and I don't get it? He's quite stubborn with some statements "Your the biggest snake in the grass" and he says that I upset him and that I don't make him happy.. "Nahh think of the ugliest most annoying guy with blonde hair and height dissabilities, thats the guy" He said he was joking about the ugly and anoying bit.. but it still upset me, he says he is sorry :/ I really like him, just not when he is being like this. When he does compliment me, I don't take it because I think he's joking.. he tells me that he wants me to be happy and that it makes him sad when I am unhappy, but why does he say all this? I haven't told him how I felt, just things like that hurt, or burrrnnn because I'm trying to take it as a joke but I can't

Okay so I got talking to this guy and we hit off pretty well. He asks me "Why are you pretty funny when most pretty girls are like talking to a brick wall?" and that made me feel pretty good, he finds me funny yaay sort of thing. I found him interesting to talk to, someone knew and everything.. but then in later conversations he brings up insults and it's out of the blue and I don't get it? He's quite stubborn with some statements "Your the biggest snake in the grass" and he says that I upset him and that I don't make him happy.. "Nahh think of the ugliest most annoying guy with blonde hair and height dissabilities, thats the guy" He said he was joking about the ugly and anoying bit.. but it still upset me, he says he is sorry :/ I really like him, just not when he is being like this. When he does compliment me, I don't take it because I think he's joking.. he tells me that he wants me to be happy and that it makes him sad when I am unhappy, but why does he say all this? I haven't told him how I felt, just things like that hurt, or burrrnnn because I'm trying to take it as a joke but I can't anymore.. he says things then back tracks it and it's like well what do you want?

Okay so I got talking to this guy and we hit off pretty well. He asks me "Why are you pretty funny when most pretty girls are like talking to a brick wall?" and that made me feel pretty good, he finds me funny yaay sort of thing. I found him interesting to talk to, someone knew and everything.. but then in later conversations he brings up insults and it's out of the blue and I don't get it? He's quite stubborn with some statements "Your the biggest snake in the grass" and he says that I upset him and that I don't make him happy.. "Nahh think of the ugliest most annoying guy with blonde hair and height dissabilities, thats the guy" He said he was joking about the ugly and anoying bit.. but it still upset me, he says he is sorry :/ I really like him, just not when he is being like this. When he does compliment me, I don't take it because I think he's joking.. he tells me that he wants me to be happy and that it makes him sad when I am unhappy, but why does he say all this? I haven't told him how I felt, just things like that hurt, or burrrnnn because I'm trying to take it as a joke but I can't anymore.. he says things then back tracks it and it's like well what do you want?

He quotes films alot, so I'm guessing he's quoting?! ahahhaha

Me: pipsqueak

Him:sorry tank..

Me:hahaha!

Him:"one time, you beat mike tyson up didnt you!"

I enjoy having conversations with him because they are interesting and can be funny, but then out of the blue he insults me? I don't know whether he is joking or not but he seems to think I'm a massive flirt 'snake in the grass' ...when he hasn't even met me,to get to know me or know any of my friends to form that judgement. I don't get it? Is he flirting? He is taking the joke abit too far? I feel abit of an idiot that I don't know, but I don't understand him!! Help?? I just don't understand his humor? I know guys joke, but seriously to his level?? It's just insults and it's mean and hurtful? I don't get it, please help!

I enjoy having conversations with him because they are interesting and can be funny, but then out of the blue he insults me? I don't know whether he is joking or not but he seems to think I'm a massive flirt 'snake in the grass' ...when he hasn't even met me,to get to know me or know any of my friends to form that judgement. I don't get it? Is he flirting? He is taking the joke abit too far? I feel abit of an idiot that I don't know, but I don't understand him!! Help??

Okay so there is this guy.. I don't know him to well but I kinda knew he was trouble.

I don't really understand him, I don't know if he is playing or being serious, so I feel like I have to play along and see how far is too far. It was all fine you know, he is Intelligent, has abit of humor and interesting conversations but after you talk to someone for a while- you get to know their weaknesses and bad attributes to their personality. That shouldn't matter right? I mean nobody is perfect.. but I couldn't fight my doubt but find him slightly shallow, 'middle classy'- by that I mean, someone who detests people who are from unfortunate backgrounds,quick to judge and extremely stereotypical. He seems to have a need to fit in, drinking. I was talking about it, saying it is not good to do it at that age, you don't want your stomach pumped-remember the night, not be landed in A&E jokingly, it's not good for your body.. he seemed to take this wrong way and think I was some wild child and didn't talk to me for several days, then when he did, it was the same topic. I don't whether he is trying to flirt with me or what? That still can't make up with what he says, he seems to enjoy putting me down, saying that because my hair colour is blonde, that makes me wild, care-free and stupid. Then when I reply something against and saying don't say that, that's mean.. he'll reply "aww bbbyy xxx im sorry" I can't help but feel he is being patronizing. Then when I say, I'm not that stereotype, he finds in 'cute' I tell him, I don't like being called princess.. for obvious reasons "WTF is wrong with you, girls like being called that" And when he tries to compliment me, it sounds fake, but then he tells me he is being general and gets all shocked that I don't accept it.. why? because you just said a ton of nasty stuff to me! I just feel like he wants to win me over with words, it's not working so he does the opposite. He says "All pretty girls are blonde.. then there are some pretty gingers..." He is brunette. Then when I take a week to reply to something, I say I'm sorry etc and the conversation doesn't get anywhere! I say this and he replys " Yeah I know Mr (my last name)!!" .... why would he say that??

I try move on the next day, asking how he is, replys and he asks the same. I suppose I'm expecting too much, but I was kind of hoping he would bring up the next question or topic, but he just replys with 'good!!' so I tell him, I don't want to be asking all the questions." and replys, "neither do I" Then later on, he says it's because of my arrogance and that I was being nasty yesturday. That's the worst thing he could ever call me, so I tell him, and he says there are worse words such as fat, ugly.. ;) :O I'm guessing he is referring to me. So I explain why.. and he's like "It's you explaining things again.." I tell him I can't 'CBB.' and he then replays 'hahhhaaha okkk' I don't think I should reply??!! Am I wrong??!! I Guess we are both to stubborn, but I'm left empty. What do I do? Should I say sorry?

Him: Maybe not enough reallys lilly i dunnoooo

Me: Okay:(

Him: Awwww bby

Me: hahahahahaha.. Hello!

Him: Waassssuupppp

Me: Well this conversation is getting very serious,intense and inquisitive!

Me: -no reply- ahh goodnight:(

Him:Hahahahaha, indeedd, goodnight mr (my last name) !

Me: :/

~Next day~

Him: XD

Me: How are you?

Him: im well thanks, you?

Me: Fine thanks!

Him: good!!

Me: I don't wanna be asking all the questions. haha..

Him: well then, nor do i. guess its gunna be silencee

Me: That helps!

Him: hahahhhahahahahahah

Me: Oh right,oh okay then. See how it is

Him: yeaahh, itss like yourr ignorenceee :?

Me: That's not a very nice thing to say to anybody.

Him: hahahahahahah, probably noott but you did something nasty yesturdayyy

Me: I know. But that's like the worst thing you could like ever ever say D:

Worst word ever.

Him: Nooo there are far worse ahaha, likeee ugly or even.... Fat

Me: ignorant.. Because being called any variety of nasty words you can brush off, but when someome is called ignorant, much more desperate to defend themselves and disprove. Ugh. I don't want to have this kind of conversation, I started it to have a nice conversation and it turns out like this! See Yaaaa:/

Him: Hahaha, itss you getting intoo the details ahhaha

Me: cbb.

Him: hahaahah okkk

Celebrity gossip, sport.... what else?

Would the fact that it's attractive or dosen't drop it's leaves be either one or the other, a good charracteristic to select?

Gene defect? What kind though? I have confused myself.

Explain?? How??

The gene is inserted into the DNA of another organism

The gene is cut from the DNA and isolated ( I know that goes first)

The organsism replicates

The gene for the charracteristic is selected

I can't help but feel really rubbish about this. It's just at school, all my friends have been asked out or going out with someone. I know, I'm not the only one who isn't with anyone but it's still leaving something negative, I feel like the ugly duckling, really fat and not attractive. I just feel really uncomfortable when they are talking about it all and also when my male friends are talking about girls. They all have a crush or someone they fancy.. and I don't. It's making me believe that I won't find anyone that I really have feelings for. I just can't picture having a boyfriend either in school. It's making me feel really nervous at my looks, which is really weird because I never really think about what I look like. I was talking this guy on my second facebook, and it's just about looks. All guys are not like this I know that, but pretty much all the people I'm with.. well there is constant rate of looks, body image. I'm just scared that I'm not good enough :( Intelligence is one thing.. but looks are another:( I just feel really rubbish! I'm 15, nearly 16.

Example: Victorious Sponge

In the later part of the Novella,Poole and Utterson are in conversation about Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. “Ay ay” said the Lawyer. “ My fears incline to the same point. Evil, I fear, founded-evil was sure to come- of that connection”

This tells the reader, that even a respected character believes that Mr Hyde has had an negative effect on Dr Jekyll. Mr Hyde is influencing Dr Jekyll is a negative way,he is being controlled. This conveys to the reader that within the relationship with both Mr Hyde and Dr Jekyll,that Mr Hyde is the more influential. It tells the reader that Dr Jekyll even though, a well respected man, can be easily led by others.

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