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Should I have called that in? He was wearing a red cotton jumper Very suspicious. Since there were no cars around and he was looking away. Sort of hiding. It was away from any town. But few miles from a prison

My husbands flirtations and seeming midnight adventures are unforgivable. My heart knows he is cheating...has cheated...but I can't just leave without proof, altho it seems real enough. He is handsome and at our age, I feel lucky..we are 59 and 60. I love him and I guess I am hoping that I really am imagining things.. I just am not used to such deception and whorish behavior...am I over reacting? Are some men just this way, chasing but never meaning to catch? I have too much respect for myself to continue with things this way, but hope that he will stop somehow... Any ideas?

I have woke up the next morning after my husband spotted two women truckers in the truck stop we also stayed in, and found the door that I had slammed and locked, taped...slightly ajar and tape inside the door...waking up late for work on a valentine weekend on a sat. morning, to my husband coming in the door...8 am. said he was sitting in the van smoking...then later he was on the PORCH. He refused to let me set my alarm. He has slammed the brakes on going down the highway next to a woman, then getting in front of them, slows down and stays with them....hoping to get off the highway with them? WITH ME IN THERE??

I am troubled. I have no proof to show unfaithfulness, but afraid to turn my back on him. I love him, but there are so many times, that his deep longing looks, tongue along his lips, attracting some "helpless" girl/woman, has left me with no sex, as I have a great appetite, until...what? He runs into her again...sneaks out at night? Is this common? How do I get proof? It is like I can't seem to wake up...which is unusual for me...

I am almost afraid of this deceptive side of him. It is almost like it isn't him..crazy I know. Maybe I fear people who are deceptive? I want to trust him and he convinces me, even with evidence of his great escapes...that I am just accusing him of things he isn't doing. We work together and it would almost have to be in the middle of the night. He swears to love me, wants me to trust him, yet, I am so hurt and insulted at little things that he does to get the attention of another woman...what will he do when he gets alone with one?? I see little signs of it here in our new home....Even to foot prints in the snow...going to neighbors houses...single women there of course...but can't prove it...What to do?