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I have been out and living as male to everyone except my family for 6 months now. How do I tell them?

My mum and brother knows and they are relatively fine with it (my mum is still coming to terms with it). We have an out & proud gay cousin and no one is bothered by him being gay (although he didn't come out until he was 30)

I have no idea how to tell the rest of my family :(

I am pre-everything ftM transguy, but I do pass really well and I often have girls hitting on me without knowing I'm transgender. Would you date a transguy? This question is for guys too :)

I am 19 years old and am starting to take working out more seriously, and I was wondering if this meal plan would help me gain a bit of muscle:

Breakfast: Porridge oats, piece of fruit.

12pm - milk and 1/4 cup nuts, vitamin C drink

3pm - meat and veg

5pm - egg, beans and cheese or potato, beans and cheese

7pm - meat and salad

9pm - Protein shake (post workout)

I workout about 2 hours a day doing cardio and a 3 day weight split.

Cheers

Ash.

I need to know both sides of the argument with case examples :D thanks

I have a red gothic dress and was wondering what video game character I could dress up as with it? (For a party)

Thanks :D

I have a sharp stabbing pain in my right lower back - I think I have a couple ribs out of place. It was so bad the other day that I collapsed & almost passed out. It made me feel really sick too. Is it possible that the out of place ribs are messing with my kidneys? I am having problems urinating too; I can go a day without urinating or do it 25 times a day. What's up with me?! I'm only 18 btw.

ALCOHOL DRINKERS HELP! I need ideas for my Heston Blumenthal type session tomorrow. I'm thinking vodka castle jelly, surrounded by a Skittles vodka moat with jello shots in it. Any other things to add? :)

I used to use this lip pen a while ago...it was double sided and on one side it had a felt tip like pen and the other side a clear gel. The clear gel was like a Chap stick but flavorless. Anyone know what this lip pen is called? It was beautiful! xxxx

Right, I've arranged a party for this weekend in the woods nearby with around 40 guests. We've got a big sound system and DJs coming but how do I make it unique and get myself a good reputation? I don't want to have a themed party but has anyone got some awesome ideas? I have some money that can be spent on stuff but want to make this party so good that people will beg me to arrange more. Thankyou! xxxx

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, but 6/7 months into the relationship all we did was argue; petty arguments. Last week he told me that he wants a month apart where we do not communicate and at the end of this month we will start the relationship again. I thought it was a brilliant plan and agreed; it was either that or break up - the fighting was unbearable. Now I realize the pattern of our arguments... we only ever argued when we knew we weren't going to see each other for a couple days and thus it made the separation more bearable. We also argued over me smoking, and him inviting me over and then abandoning me at his house to go out with his brothers (he knew I couldn't come out because of work) he has done this several times; if I kicked up about it he would tell me that I need to stop trying to 'cage him up' and would go out regardless of how heartbroken I was, and up until a week ago I would be so scared of going over in case he left me and went out. Also, he refuses to come to my house because he does not like the 'energy' here and so I ALWAYS have to do the travelling. I know he is faithful and I really do trust him, but I'm now a week into this month apart and almost having a break-down. I miss him so much and he does not seem to care (he is carrying on updating Facebook, arranging to travel hundreds of miles to go on nights out with his brother). The times we are together he is amazing to me, and I know he loves me and I love him very much, and contact is a no-go for the next 3 weeks, so how do I make this time more bearable? Sorry for the length of this! xx

I recently bought 1 x 400 points and 2 x 800 points from the Game website, and I managed to redeem the voucher for the 400 points, but when I put the code in for the 800 points it comes up with 'there has been an error in your transaction, please try again later'. I've been trying about 3 times a day for a week and they won't work. Any advice other than to ring up please? x

I recently bought this top: http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Diagonal-One-Shoulder-Ne... in white and am wondering what I can wear with it to go to my best friends formal 18th birthday party? I have gorgeous purple high heels to go with it, alongside a purple clutch bag and black cardigan. I was thinking either shorts with tights or jeans/skinny jeans? Also, what do you think of smokey eyes and half up - half down curled hair? Any other suggestions are welcome as I'm going shopping tomorrow anyway. Thanks :) xx

My headaches aren't too bad. I've been on medication lately but since I came off it I've been fine. What're the chances I'd get accepted in the army? Many thanks x