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ok my boys son hasn't seen him for 4 years as he refuses to come over but he'll ring me every two weeks to see how i am going i haven't anserwed the phone to him in about a year but he still rings same time and day every two weeks and leaves the same message "hey how ya going just wanted a chat how's work and everything well might catch you next time" he never asks or asked about his son until i said do you want to talk to alex he'd say he was busy and had to go he recently had a baby with his new girlfriend and posted on facebook that he's a proud first time dad my son saw it as he's one of his father's friends on facebook and broke down in tears he turned to me and said "doesn't daddy troy love me anymore? he says he's a first time father but i'm his son aren't i?" i have no idea how to answer him so i told him that daddy troy still loved him he just moved very far away and can't see him that often anymore which is a lie he lives 5 minutes from us i talked to a solicitor and he sent a letter of demand for 9 years back child support as he has paid nothing for him not even for outings i would give him money so he could go places with him is this wrong should i just let it be or should i proceed with the letter of demand? i don't want to come across as a ***** for only asking for money from him now but i know i wont get any help from him otherwise what should i do?

ok i had one done on the 28 of october they took a pap smear at the same time and told me i would get the results in 2-4 weeks... 2 weeks later i got the results for my pap smear but not for the biopsy that was taken at the same time from my cervical canal

i rang them a week after the pap results came back and they said that the biopsy results would take a week to receive i still didn't receive the results after 2 weeks so i rang them again and after being passed around to four nurses they said it might take longer i rang last week and they still didn't know where my result were so my question is...does this mean that i have cancer and they don't want to tell me or have they genuinely just lost my results? it's scaring the hell out of me cause the first pap came back high level abnormalities and my family has a history of cervical cancer

please help

my brothers dog attacked my 8 year old son today she punctured his lip and left two teeth marks down his forehead he also has bruising on his cheek, and is pretty shaken up about the ordeal. it's not the first time she has attacked, she went into a frenzy with my brother's pure staffy and cost him $2600 at the vet to get the staffy fixed up as she was torn up pretty bad. i said the mastiff should have been put down then. my brother was going to shoot her and everybody said that she was not going out like that, mum made an appointment to do it at the vet but forgot about it and the mastiff has been happily living at mum's with the staffy, a border collie and my three year old nephew. when she attacked my son today my brother just brushed it off and when i told mum she HAS to be put down she said that my son might have done something to provoke her and changed the subject pretty quickly. I know that if it had been my nephew that was attacked the dog would have been shot right there and then. so my question is...how do i get mum to put the dog down without pressing charges on my brother or mother or stealing the dog and having it done myself?

hi all my son is nearly 9 i left his father when he was a month old and hooked up with my daughters father when he was 2 months old he's known my current partner as dad all his life and his biological father as daddy XXX he had contact with him till he was 1 then he dropped off the planet he has recently gotten back into contact with me via text messages but has not asked once how his son is. i think my question is does he only want to talk to me as he's trying to rekindle something that he knows is not going to happen? or are males that stupid when it comes to parenting that they don't know how to ask? and should i let him see my boy if or when he does ask?

My g-pig killed one her babies before i could save it i'm now feeding the surviving tiny g-pig (lucky) with a needle and milk that i got from the vet. she's doing really well she's only 5 hours old and my other g-pig gave birth a week ago to two healthy and happy g-piggies my question or questions are

1- how long before i can separate the older two from their mother?

and

2- how long before i can put 'lucky' in with the other babies?

the vet said they don't need milk after about three days cause they should be eating well by then, but i forgot to ask if and when the younger ones can be put together.

any help with this would be greatly appreciated.