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We are both in our 50's and I have an auto-immune disease. He believes we should always have sex before we go to sleep and when we wake up. If we have no plans for the day, he insists we have sex in the afternoon, too. My body is not up to having sex this often and frankly, it's boring to have it so often.

I've told him it is wrong to equate how often we have sex to how much I love him but he keeps saying I'm wrong about that. I didn't even have sex that often when I was younger! I'm worried this is going to destroy our relationship (we've been dating for 1 year) which is otherwise great in all other areas. What should I do?

I think this is one of the most amazing love songs ever and not once is the word "love" used.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRtW1MAZ32M

What do you think is a love song that doesn't use the word "love"?

I think this is one of the most beautiful songs ever, and I'm constantly amazed more people haven't heard it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pywkt4aTgXk

What do you think is the most beautiful song?

Bands that seemed to have a long, promising future like Evanescence or Soul Asylum? Which band do you miss?

I"m 5'6" and weigh 120. I've weighed 110 all my life except when pregnant, and when I became ill and got down to 94lbs. My weight loss was due to illness, I've been diagnosed with MS and can no longer walk or do sit ups. Weight gain is a side effect of 1 of my meds, but it's all going straight to my belly. I look pregnant and at my age it is not attractive. I drink tons of water and have a healthy diet, but I'm really freaking out over my belly. Are there any exercises I can do besides sit-ups to get my flat tummy back?

The cost of the battery to charge a hybrid seems ridiculously expensive, too. It seems to me that if I buy a green car, my "green" will be going to the power company instead of the fuel company. Right?

Ok, well maybe not exist because we are still a mosrtly free country, at least the free-est I know of, and anyone can pretty much form any kind of organization they want, but I don't understand why there isn't an NAAWP (white people), NAAAP (asian people), etc. I would no more contribute to the NAACP than i would the KKK (borth racist organizations) and besides isn't the term "colored people" passe?

My oldest daughter had a doula cook her placenta and make it into capsules. My next oldest daughter is due in October and will do the same thing. I've not read anything detrimental about this practice, only positive health benefits, especially preventing post-partum depression. I understand there are also recipes you can use the placenta has an ingredient.

I find Arthur Rimbaud to be the most fascinating poet. Agree or disagree? Which poet do you find fascinating?

The value of prose

Escapes me

The language we speak

Is flowery.

Make the messages

Indecipherable

We never were

Compatible

A taste of wine

Or vinegar

I am carpe diem

You are caveat emptor

Yes, I wrote it.

David Bowie and Prince

Pink Floyd and Porcupine Tree

Beck and Nick Cave

Green Day and Akon

Nick Cave and The Bad Seeds "Murter Ballads"

(oh and two of their songs "The Ship Song" and "Into my arms"

Alice Cooper "From the Inside"

Beck "Sea Changes"

Mother's Finest "Another Mother Further"

Yaz "You and Me Both"

Off the top of my head,

Mother's Finest

Michael Stanley Band

Everything But The Girl

I'd like to pair an Afghan Hound and a Bichon Frise and call the breed Afchon Frise Hound.

Buckingham Palace and Windsor Castle, for instance, were built hundreds of yeas ago and have had many renovations. They couldn't possibly have cental heat and air, could they? I'm sure many still have plenty of fireplaces in use, but exactly how else do they stay warm in winter and cool in summer?

Why do we support China through our purchase of their products, outsourcing, tourism, etc. when their "one child" law is such a flagrant violation of human rights? Although I am pro-choice, this Chinese law is outright murder.