Punky

I'm in desperate need to find the ingredients of Formulas by Ecoly - Cucumber and Primrose shampoos. I've suffered from terrible eczema since I was a child, any detergent or product causes me soooo much pain, my skin cracks and I live in bandages. The only shampoo that has never caused an eczema flare-up on my scalp is the cucumber and primrose shampoos, which have now been discontinued :'(

I've tried for months to order online from the states but no one delivers to my country. I need the ingredients so that I can find something as close to those shampoos as possible, on my side of the world. Is anyone out there who can help? If you can even find a site who has the product and delivers to South Africa? Thank you

I met a guy a year ago and we went on a few dates. He was great but he talked about his ex girlfriend waaaaay too much so I stopped contacting him because I felt he needed some time to get over his ex. Plus, he went to a concert with her then and lied to me about who he was going with.

So, about a month ago we met up again and started dating and things seem to be going well. We see eachother twice or three times a week, he says he's falling for me, he's crazy about me, I'm the only girl he's interested in etc etc.

Now I've been scarred in the past, pretty badly and I struggle to trust people nowadays but I've totally put myself out there. I feel for him, I adore him and I trust him fully (until he gives me reason not to).

Anyway, ok this might sound really pathetic but he's online on whatsapp now and its late and he already said goodnight to me over an hour ago??? I don't know if guys chat to guys for so long? He must be chatting to a girl? I'm not going to ask him who he's chatting to because I'll seem like a crazy psycho.

Am I being a paranoid freak??? I swear he's the last guy I'll ever feel anything for and I'm so scared he's going to hurt me. Am I paranoid or should I be worried? Help!! Guys please give your opinions and don't be ugly coz I'm about to cry.

I'm a 28 year old female, very attractive so I've been told, honest, sincere, helpful, useful, educated, hard working, loyal. I don't cheat either... Yes, I have faults but I'd say I'm all round a very decent person. I have a 2 year old son with my ex fiance of 5 years. He left us both so he's not in the picture at all. I support both of us and am happy to do so. My problem is, why can't I find a man who wants to commit? I have a few guys who like me and want to see me often but they have no plan of dating me seriously or having a relationship with me? I always attract guys with no money, no goals, bad upbringing, who just don't care about anything. The complete opposite of who I am. I can run a household, cook, clean, take care of kids, make everything beautiful including my garden, heck I can even paint and mow the lawn. I don't drink or smoke, I'm fairly fit and healthy. What goes into being perfect marriage material? I don't act desperate at all but I'm starting to feel really lonely. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I want to be married and have a family but no decent guy wants me. What am I doing so wrong? I miss being in love and treating a man well :(

I recently joined a Facebook group called 3rd Degree@facebook. There are about 40000 followers on the page, mainly black south african youth. About 90% of them are EFF supporters and they are all commenting on how they are going to kill all the whites and take the land, take what belongs to them etc etc. As much as I want to leave the page, its a constant reminder of how badly I want to leave the country and its kind of motivating me more and more, but at the same time these thoughts of Malema and his supporters killing all the whites and destroying the country is making me so scared that its keeping me up at night. During working hours I sit and google how many votes he might get at the 2014 election. How do I stop fearing him??? What are his chances??? I'm so scared for the people and for my child, how long do we have before the blacks want the whites gone???

Lightning struck my pc, I think its a pentium 2 or 3? I took it into a repair shop and they said the whole mother board is fried but the hard drive is still ok. I have 2 years of photographs on there (of my baby) that I have to get onto my laptop. The shop wants to charge way too much money to transfer everything for me. The pc doesn't come on at all. Is there any way I can transfer everything on my own? With cables etc? What would I need and how would I do it? Lame mans terms please.

A friend of mine had to give away his cat to a friend because he's so allergic. I know the allergy will never just go away. He has tried antihistamines and they didn't help. I've heard of an antihistamine made by Aspen (has a red dot on the box). Its specifically made for cat allergies. Does anyone know what the name of this is? Or any other ways he can keep his cat? Any advice at all?

I am a South African resident with a British passport and would like to immigrate at some point. I know I can travel to Europe with the passport but would I be able to live anywhere in Europe? Where can I move to, permanently?

I would like to create a few websites similar to Gumtree and Hello Peter. Ive heard they are called catalogue sites? Which web design program would I need to study to create such a site? Would Dreamweaver work? Please help.

I am a South African citizen and hold a British passport. Do I need a visa to go to Dublin permanently or can I do this with my passport? Can I open a bank account in Ireland from SA and can I buy property in Ireland from SA?