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Okay so.. my guy friend is literally begging me to try it. He's addicted to it. I'm a girl though but I LOVE video games. I've never seen a girl play this game though, so Idk.

I've tried reading about it in Wikipedia but I don't understand a thing o.O

The only thing I know is that it's online..

Can anyone please at least tell me the basics?

Thanks x

My friend who's nearly 18 years old stopped smoking about a year ago. He's tired. Do you ever fully recover from smoking?

He has symptoms like shortness of breath and lack of energy. He's sleeping patterns are all over the place too (but I think it's a teenage thing) .. sometimes he'll oversleep and other times he has insomnia. He keeps telling me, "I feel sick from the inside .. like something is in my lungs".

He IS getting better by time, but somedays are unbearable. It's like he's always feeling unhealthy or weak. I'm afraid he'll just give up and start smoking again.

Is that normal? xS

What can he do to feel better?

Okay so I went to nap for an hour .. then my sisters woke me up and told me that my kitten had diarrhea all over his bottom. I rushed and found him covered in poop! (He's a persian cat.)

So I wore my gloves and gave him a bath ... I blow-dried him and I cleaned the diarrhea out and he is clean now.

He's 5 months old and is up to date with all his shots. He's active, eating and drinking very well. Yesterday I gave him a bath (I give him a bath every few weeks because he's long-haired and he likes them anyway) .. and I usually comb him then blow-dry him but I didn't yesterday and he was out of the bathroom wet in the AC. Did he get a cold? :'(

I feel so stupid now. What should I do?

He's on a wet food diet and I give him dry food as a snack sometimes.

I made an appointment with the vet tomorrow in case he still has diarrhea..

What do I do for now ??? Please help me.

Sorry for the bad grammar I'm just anxious.

I'm leaving my cat for one-two weeks because something urgent came up, and taking him with me is not an option..

I hate leaving him alone but I think keeping him in a familiar environment is less stressful than caging him in a kennel.

So basically I've made plans with two people to drop by my cat every one/two days maximum. They are both animal lovers, however they have zero experience with cats. He's very healthy and up to date with his shots, and I feed him both dry and wet food.

I have a few questions:

1) Can you set the time for automatic feeders so that it serves the food 2-3 times a day?

2) How often do I have to set the time?

3) Does it work for both dry and wet food?

Without sounding cliche, my life has been quite hard. I was abused when I was young. I hate my childhood memories .. all I remember is the beating, the screams, the scars and swear words. I would get beat up daily for something like laughing out loudly or because I hit my spoon by accident and it fell off the dinner table.

That's just a small part of my childhood. My father has anger issues (he was abused at a young age) and my mother just watched him as he hits us even though she hated it. She's probably scared of him. I mean how can she stay with him "for the kids" when being with him and listening to their arguments everyday ruins us!

Things have gotten better with the abuse part because now he works all day, so we don't see him. Now my mother and sister treat me really badly - I'm the eldest. My mum is always on my sister side and she gets her everything she wants. Today my mum didn't count me in for lunch, because of an argument yesterday, which led to my sister breaking my calculator. They like humiliating me. I was starving and I had to eat anything from the fridge. They do pay our fees and food.. but they forgot the love part.

Childhood memories haunt me. And they make things worse. I try talking to them but I just have to live with it.

I also really liked someone (loved actually)... he was what I wanted. After he confessed that he loved me .. the next day he started being someone else. He ended up lieing and "cheating" on me (I found out myself) and started treating me badly. I don't want someone who doesn't appreciate me, or that I don't trust plus there were many things in him that I couldn't stand - so I broke up with him. I did the right thing .. but the right thing HURTS SO MUCH. This was the first time I EVER fall for someone and it really hurts. I really loved him.

I know I shouldn't generalize but all I've seen from men are abuse and betrayal. Most of the guys who like me are douchebags. I hate love. Even if there was a good guy, he wouldn't want someone like me who was abused in the past. I'm messed up. I don't know why I even exist.

I can't commit suicide because I don't have the guts to do it myself and I can't leave my best friends behind. I FEEL STUCK.

I'm a teen.

Did it once 2 years ago.

How to not do it?

I'm depressed.

My mum was once driving then she suddenly felt like she could hardly breath, her heart was beating way fast and she started going numb. When she came home she fainted. Her body was really cold and she felt that 'ants were waking all over her legs and hands.'

We went to the hospital and it turns our there was some bacteria in her stomache that caused that. She got treated. That was a few months ago.

Today she experienced a similar thing. Her heart beat really fast and she couldn't breath while she was driving. It would come and go. We went to the hospital, we ran check ups and monitered her pulse rate but everything was normal again.

What's going on?? x(

I have an extremely abusive father.

He used to physically abuse me. When I was young, it was constant.. Everyday. I hate my childhood.

I was out with my friends yesterday. He picked me up late (leaving me in the cold and the rain for ages) .. and hurt me so much when I got in the car. I swear I didn't do anything. He makes my mum cry everyday. My youngest sister has mental problems because of abuse and she's only 4 years old! It hurts me everytime I see her. I can go on and on about him, but you'll call me fake or over-dramatic. I wish I was. Please don't make fun of me.

I planned to run away this summer. I knew where to stay and had enough money. But I couldn't leave my mother and sisters suffer. I'm scared he'll let me go to university here and I'll be stuck with them for more years. I don't have any money to move out (he let me pay for everything this year and stopped giving me pocket money).

I'm scared to grow and leave my young sisters suffer. I don't want them to be like me. I can't pretend I'm fine again. I cried so much yesterday, my eyes look like tennis balls now. NO ONE deserves this.

I can't call the cops on him, we don't have the child-portection law here... and we financially need him. We've talked to him, ignored him, acted calm .. tried everything.

So yeah here i am. Writing and writing and writing. I'm scared of becoming like my mother. I don't wanna marry a ******* monster who'll emotionally kill my kids just for the sake of money. We're being hurt, by that beast, because our mother chooses, everyday, to put up with him. I mean, I wish he hurt me and not my sisters.. I can bare it. But it still ******* hurts. I wanna scream out loud in pain.

I don't wanna commit suicide because I can't hurt my sisters and mum and I wanna live to the day I'm happy.

Maybe I'm here cause I want attention. I want someone to tell me that that I'll be okay :'( :'( and that you believe me. Even if u don't.

I don't want him to hurt me anymore.

I've been with my bf for about 7 months - known him for a year. We really love each other. A few days ago he confessed that he loves me.. I do as well.

The problem is that I'm a year older in terms of school (NOT age) because I got in earlier. So I head to university THIS summer, and that leaves him in this country for a year. Last year we saw each other once a week -activities not dates- but now the timings changed so I'm gonna see him even less this year. I guess you could call it Long Distance.

Yesterday he told me that when I get to university we won't see each other (I'll travel aboard) so we should go on a real date .. atleast once this year. My parents are strict about dating, they wish I start when I'm in university atleast - but they're not the problem here. I'm so SHY and I get nervous the minute I see him.

So I asked him, what'll happen to us after I start uni? He said, "I don't think your feelings will be the same after 4 or 5 years,"

"You're talking about yourself..?"

Then he said No I'm scared you might fall for/like someone else and in that case of course we can't be together. And he said "But I don't want us to be like that, I don't want us to end."

Maybe you think our worrying is stupid. But I'm sooo scared.. He's the only guy I ever had real feelings for. I don't wanna be heart broken:( or be used. Do you think we'll still work IF we don't see each other for 5/6 years? I mean, can a guy wait this much?

Please help..

My younger sister turns 5 tomorrow and I need some gift ideas. :)

Well, basically she is really different from many 5-year-old girls. She's very hyper and likes challenging games... so a Barbie doll will not amuse her. Speaking of toys, she loves her SpongeBob toy (and wouldn't mind any cartoon characters). She is quite good when playing PS2 games xD

Her favorite color is green.

Thanks x

We've been talking for 6 months. He's simply the most amazing guy I've ever met -I really really like him. He's funny, kind, honest... I could keep going on the whole day. He's been trying to tell me he likes me for the past 6 months i guess, and he finally confessed yesterday.

I told him that I feel the same way etc etc. But it seems like he CAN'T believe that I'M honest! He's a really confident guy but he becomes someone else around me. He says I'm the most beautiful girl and that he can't believe he met someone like me. I mean, there are way more attractive girls than I am. Today he asked me what I liked in him - how I happened to fall for him.

The thing is, he's very physically attractive ... Some say I am too, but I think I'm between average and pretty. If I say "Bye, I g2g etc"

He senses I'm mad or bored of him.

Yesterday I was so happy I thought I was dreaming. When I told him this today, he was like do you mean your emotions weren't true yesterday??

I never had a bf before. He had a gf before me but she dumped him. We aren't officially in a relationship yet btw. Is that normal?? Is it because I have other "admirers"?

P.S. I'm really shy and I can't tell him words like "my love" or "babe" LOL. How do I reassure him?

I really hate this antivirus program. I've tried uninstalling it but it keeps asking me for some password. I already have another one (Norton)..

Anyway, the officescan is always on "online" .. I want it offline since it's blocking safe sites as well o.O

Thanks :)

I only have the base game - no generations. Can the wedding arch thing still appear in the game?

Here is the link to "Bluebell Church": http://www.thesims3.com/assetDetail.html?assetId=1...

My family is made up of the parents and a son and daughter. If the daughter marries and her last name changes will she (and her future kids) appear in the family tree or have a seperate one?

Thanks x

I know how to set other pictures. But I want to set my profile picture only and not my whole profile (people can still write on my wall, comment etc.)

I'm getting a 8 week old kitten on sunday! :D

The little boy will probably be scared and cry a lot for his mom (they are pretty close). What do I do when he cries? 

Also, how 'much' should I feed him? I'll feed him 3 times a day but I wanna know the amount of wet and dry he'll need per meal. (I'll feed him both wet + dry)

Last Qs :p. Should I keep him in my room on the first day with the litter box? I don't wanna leave him alone in the bathroom at night but I want him to use the litter box in the bathroom later. 

Thanks x

Everyone calls me the courageous one or the "dare-devil". I just love taking risks. I believe in getting the best out of everything because the quality of life is more important than the quantity. But when it comes to love.... i guess I'm a coward. :S

Maybe because I hardly ever see happy couples. It always starts the same, and ends the same. They get bored of each other, or have fights, or cheat or it's that one is paying more attention to the other. My parents for example, always have fights and they are miserable. Divorce has come up many times, happened once but now they are back because of the "children". I don't want to become like that. Ever.

I don't want to get hurt. Heart breaks are probably worse than any disease. I'm afraid of being in love, giving my heart out to a guy who ends up breaking it.

 I've never been in a relationship because I turned down all the guys. I didn't find the type of love I want. But now I met this amazing guy! He's crazy about me, and I really really like him. He's very honest and caring - I love his personality.

We're heading to a relationship but I'm so nervous. Today, I decided to ignore his text because I don't want to be attached to him. I really like him and I don't know what to do :(. I'm not at all obssesive or clingy, just anxious. Is this normal? What do you think?

I'm 16 (and a girl :p)

Everyone thinks I'm "secretly" dieting lol. I can't eat at all. I have absolutely no appetite or willingness to eat or even look at food. 

I drink coffee/juice for breakfast. Then that's it for the day. It's like my stomache can't stand anything else. I stopped having lunch.. but I might snack on chips or have eggs for dinner if I try. 

Basically, I consume nothing the whole day but I'm still not hungry! I drink about a cup of water a day only... which is bad 'cause I'm dehydrated.

Forcing myself to eat doesn't work. My weight is perfect, so there's no intention in starving myself.

I'm 16.

I've known him for a year and 6 months, but we've been really talking for 3 months. He really likes me, I knew it before he told me anyway because of the way he acts etc. I like him too.

Now that we're in the middle of our exams, we hardly see each other and so we only talk online. It seems like we have a lot in common but sometimes we have nothing to say lol. Is that normal?

We aren't in a relationship or anything, but we both now how feel and we're taking things slow.

So what are interestings things to talk about?

Suggestions please

Thanks :)

I've been depressed my whole life. I had a horrible childhood to start with... I was physically and verbally abused by my father. I still am.

There are so many awful things. I don't have the energy to even type this. I don't have the energy to cry. I just wanna be happy.

I wanna die :( I swear I'm in so much pain. PLEASE tell me how can I become numb???? I don't wanna commit suicide.

I wish I die soon. I want this ALL OUT. I'M SO TIRED OF BEING TIRED :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( I'm Beyond depressed I think I'm crazy now bec I'm laughing and crying. I'm so weak now. please help me. Help me numb the pain