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just looking for nice upbeat songs for the service and in particula the recessional

I am really wanting another child but my husband has said he doesnt want any and has even said was considering a vasectomy, I do already have 2 and I love them both very much but really feel like i have the energy and time for another, the elder 2 now at school, I cant seem to get the idea out of my head and its been made worse in that both sisiters have had new babies and now my sister in law is pregnant again with no.4 as well as just about every other mum at school is sporting a loverly bump at the moment, I did have this urge before my sister etc became pregnant so its not just broodiness, but its becoming an issue and almost an obbsesion, I have told my chap how much kids mean to me and as he doesnt want more I have tried not to bring it up as I dont want to be seen as pestering but he keep saying he NEVER wants any more but then says he doesnt want a vasectomy then wont use protection just pulls out wich isnt a reliable method which has lead to rows etc(as much as i would love to be pregnant again I dont want a baby with a man that doesnt want the child, also dont really want to be in a position were i might have to chose between my child and man because it would be the child every time) and now we hardly sleep together him because he wont use protection and me because its almost like teasing, he has now had the nerve to ask me to be sterilised, I am being over dramtic in saying he is being a d**k, (I have had bad reaction so cant use pill), he knows i want more and says he doesnt so why should I do that for him, its really becoming a big issue and dont know how to resolve,

looking for a personal loan and have a bad history, I know its going to be more difficult and that I will prob end up with a less preferable rate of intrest and company but just looking for best i can would love to hear any one own experiences in a simlar situation, Im not looking for consolidation or debt managment stuff just a good old fashioned personal loan for about £7000, repayments arent the problem just the history,

weird thing to say i know, but for a few weeks have been having loads of pregnancy symptoms, (I already have 2 so can reconise) sickness tired just feeling like I did before and just in the last week or so the mustles in my stomach are jumping and well flutting much the same as they would in the early stages of feeling a baby move, ive had all my periods done a prgnacy test and have no reason to think I could be but the feeling are getting stronger and its very convincing, it does feel like being pregnant, only ive done that many tests ALL NEGATIVE, im going to doc any way and I dont think i am although thats not a problem anyway its just the mental effect its having on me its got me thinking about babies all the time and almost convincing myself i am and then i have to remind myself Im not, Ihavent been trying for more kids and havent really thought about much till now

hi we have done a couple before but im not really sure if im selling my self short on some items would really love to hear what you profesional booters think I should be selling stuff for, Ive had a couple of bad experiences with some folk (one woman handed me a 5p peice and ran off!!!), Im tring to pay for the kids a hol so really need the cash so would like to get the best price for stuff, I know I wont ever get much for stuff but dont really want to sell stuff for 50p that I should really be asking £2 for, we have kids and adult clothes and shoes loads of handbags, fiction books, large text books, astorology books and dream books etc, toys and puzzles used make up new make up, kids dvds, new greatings cards, new boxed shoes and shoes boxed but worn once, I have also made glass bead braclets on streatchy cord, all well loads really but just wanting to know what to ask for stuff,

thanks for your help

The other night a friend had parked out side some one elses house for a kids birthday party, it was light not raining and good visability, when he came out of the house there was a note under the wipers say to call then a number, on looking at the frount of the car it was obvois some one had drven in to the frount. at the time he had parked behind a van and had left room it wasnt up close, and after calling the number a and a little asking around have managed to find out wich house he was visiting and who he was, the driver that backed in to the car has addmitted it was his fault and say he doesnt want to report it or go throught insurence as it was a works van and doesnt want his wife to know he was driving it, he has asked for a quote and says will pay for damage, but just wondering do we need to report this to police even though know one was in the car or hurt? the insurance company have already been informed as there was a problem getting in tough wth him straigh away,

really weird but both our car and my in laws car the key remote button for the central locking wont lock or unlock but it only does it on their street once we are home or away from the street we dont have any problems, going to ask a couple of neigbours on the street if they have had any problems but a bit concered as it seam like a very strong coinsidence

I know Im not alone here, been with my partner for 11 1/2 years still very much in love but havent got loads of cash to spend on a wedding and really dont want to start married life in debt, I dont mind doing it cheap and just having a regisry office job, but we have been through loads and have 2 loverly kids so it would kind of be a celabration of all out best bits and of our family more than the traditional new begining/ new life, type of a thing .we have been living together 10 years and engaged 7 shared bank account etc,so its not really a new chapter more celabrating it really looking for ideas here of any advice you think relivent, also what do you think is ok to do cheap and what needs more attenion, thank you

I live in a rented house so a little limited to what decorating I can do, but am after ideas for colours, it a good size bath room with large size tiles half way up wall in white and last row are a plum /dark pink colour, top half of walls are textured, carpet is light grey but am prepared to replace this if necessary any ideas?

I asked a question on yahoo answers earlier to night about religion and school admissions and if my religion could affect the selection for my children's school? I have been shocked at some of the unkind comments I have received some with personnel insults and religious ones and just wonders how common this is and has it happened to you today and how many times?

I am a spritualist and an active member of my local church I sit in deveopment and regualry get up at open platforms, and am accually quite proud of my beliefs as they are truly mine and not imposed, I come from a c of e back ground as does my partner and all our families, and up till recently I had no reason not to be proud of any thing, but I am considering for the first time in ages keeping it quiet in order not to damage my chances of getting my little girl in to the school I want, the nearest and also best in our area is a catholic primory and they take 20% non faith, there is a section on the form asking if we are members of a religous orgainistion and for references from a minister, wich I could get for myself but am wondering if I should put that down in case they dont aprove of my religon even if it is not my childs?? what do you think? has any one had a similar experience that could be relivent, it is important to me as as well as being nearest and eaiest to get to it a far far better that the other further away schools wich just meet govenment standards and really arnt great at all,

I am filling in the forms for my little girls primary school place, now the most local school and by far the best is a catholic school, I have decided to to put this as first choice as it is the nearest and best and takes 20% of non faith children each year, now my only real problem on the form is what to fill in when it comes to the religion part as the form asks for if we are members of a religion and if we regularry attend and if so a reference and signiture from your minister/leader even for non catholic, now all my family and my partners family are c of e, except me who is a spritualist and as an active member of the church, do I declear this or would it damage my application???

Ok Im looking into doing eith avon or better wear and I wondering if it is worth it, does any one do these and if so how much do you make and how much time do you put in?

Hi, Im 28 and have a degree in economics, Ive had the last 4 years at home with babies and Im looking to get my career going but dont know were to start, I had a few ideas and just dont know I had part time work but to honest its quite simple min wage stuff and really basic unforfilling there isnt to much out there in part time, any good ideas insparation or any one know of good careers advice available in uk, please dont sergest child care, degree in economics, thanks

I have come to the point were it is likely i will split from my partner of 11 years, the scary thing is I dont really know what to do we have 2 kids and I have put my life on hold to stay at home and raise them 3yrs and 1yr, I have no clue what to do were to go and no finances to fall back on, how the hell do I cope on my own, I dont even know were to look what to do and cant aford rent on my own I work 12 on min wage and there is a good chance I wont have a job for long, I dont know wether to stay just for it being easy life ,

ok this is an extention of a previous question"can a man go out with a femail friend not his partner and it be inocent", still really unsure about what to do, back ground is my chap is going to pictures tonight with an old work friend who is femail and has a history of being attracted to married men and basically giving it up straight away and making a drama out of it when they dont call again! he is going as she has been really down and needed a friend, ok, but why the flics why not local pub of coffee??? you dont talk much in a cinima, my chap is really sweat kind and naive very naive, we have been to gether 11 years since 18 yrs old at collage and have 2 kids I did know him through friend and I know he has had loads of femail friends that were never lover he does like to help others and is a good friend to all his friends but i think this is a step to far, i have ome to the conclusion he is making a big mistake and could be very foolishly getting into something he cant control, I do trust him and I dont think he has intentions of cheating and he has been honest to me about texting and emailing her and her calling him, but he is very naive, and does have low confidence and body issues, and i have really made an effort to please and be here for him i am worried she is going to make her move, he know how I feel about her and him going tonight and he just say If i dont want him to go he wont but he know i dont and he seems to think im getting to jelous, I dont think he she her as more than a friend but I think she wants him and the attention she has got so far I think she wants more, comments please

My partner is meeting up with a old work friend tonight, he has been chatting to her over face book and text and she has called him and been on phone at least once I know of for almost an hour, apparently she is going through a rough time and very upset about her life. I am trying really hard not to get all jelous and go mental about it, but i can help but wonder if me being "cool" about it really means Im being taken for a mug,

background here, she is 30 and does live at home with parents doesnt have the best job in the world she left where they used to work and has changed jobs a few times she has a history for going for married men sleeping with them and getting dramatic about why they dont call! my chap is a nice guy when we were at collage he did have a number of femail friends and they were friends nothing funny, but he is innocent and doesnt always get that people could be attracted to him, Im not sure if she is after him or just attention seeking, also he didnt tell me about the meeting till midnight last night when we were about to go to sleep, its all circumstancial, I know how is sounds saying it all out loud and if I was hearing this from a friend I would be jumping to conclusions but he has too much too loose we have 2 gorgous kids and have been really happy, he is a guy who is a good friend to loads of people and will always do favous for any one, one last thing he is going to help her and talk but appently they are going to a film he let that slip without meaning, Im not sure if it is something or if he is just glad to be out of the house with a friend they are seeing a horror film which I dont like, however i am suspecting he is being foolish and naive and she is after something more, genuine thoughts please

is it ok to be turned on more than your partner, or is it a sign that your just no doing it for him

really fed up just latley! I am lucky have nice bf 2 great young kids part time job okish, love my family, go to church etc, i know i am lucky but its all got a bit samey, the same things and its got that i do things not because i want to, but just do, lately it all seems a bit pants, like its expected and my rut dont want to leave or go really mad but i just need some thing pick me up and make all the thinks i love feel real and fun again, i supose i have got to feel a bit numb by it all, any ideas how to put a bit of a start back in things, sensible please i really am down now

My little girl is 3 and we have been potty training for a while she is ok with wees and completly dry thought the night no accidents and even has dry pants and will use toliets when out in shopping centers cafes etc, perfect until she needs a poo, thenit all goes wrong she refuses to use potty or toliet, and will either say she doesnt need one or will say she isnt pooing even when she is, we tried not to make a big deal about it but after weeks of cleaning up poo of the floor clothes and underwear as well at other peoples homes and in town etc its getting very hard not lose our temper especially as we have an other child at 22 months who is now starting to show signs of being ready for the potty, does any one have any ideas we have tried reward, charts praise, andamtrying not to punish her "acidents" in case we make her issuses any worse, any ideas or experiences would be apreciated