Sara

I spend way more time with my boyfriend's family than he is willing to spend with mine. It's getting to be a problem to me. I was invited to spend Christmas with his family and I accepted. I asked him to spend Thanksgiving with my family since I'm going there on Christmas and he said his mom would be mad at him. A lot more people in my family are going to have a bigger fit over Christmas, so I think his mom will live if my family can live. I do a lot of things with his family, but he hasn't really done much with mine. It's getting quite irritating. What should I do? Is this a red-flag?

Ok, I feel like I'm just a little bit crazy. Maybe I'm not, but my biological clock is ticking and I feel like that shouldn't be happening so early. I am only 19 turning 20 in a few months. I've been hoping too strongly for marriage and a family, and i feel like my mind is wayyy too ahead of my current point in life right now. A lot of people I hang out with and know are older and some are even married (even some people my own age) and are starting to have kids and I feel jealous of them secretly because I want that. I have a boyfriend who talks about marriage with me, and it's obvious that he really wants kids one day, and the conversations get my hopes up that there might be at least an engagement ring on my finger son, but he says he isn't ready. I understand that because financial situations right now aren't the best for getting married right away, but I am just dying to have a ring on my finger because well, I can't quite explain it, but if you are a woman reading this, you may understand why. I don't know if I need to forget these rediculous ideas and be more rational, or if I am perfectly normal because I'm usually a rational thinker, but when it comes to this subject lately, I cannot seem to come back down to earth and it's an internal problem for me and I want my boyfriend to stop thinking I'm upset with him about it. I cannot explain to him enough that as he may be part of my feelings of the subject, I am in no way upset at him or angry for thinking the way he does, that it is me who is going through this weird phase that may or may not go away... something tells me it won't. Someone please give me some kind of advice.

Ok, I feel like I'm just a little bit crazy. Maybe I'm not, but my biological clock is ticking and I feel like that shouldn't be happening so early. I am only 19 turning 20 in a few months. I've been hoping too strongly for marriage and a family, and i feel like my mind is wayyy too ahead of my current point in life right now. A lot of people I hang out with and know are older and some are even married (even some people my own age) and are starting to have kids and I feel jealous of them secretly because I want that. I have a boyfriend who talks about marriage with me, and it's obvious that he really wants kids one day, and the conversations get my hopes up that there might be at least an engagement ring on my finger son, but he says he isn't ready. I understand that because financial situations right now aren't the best for getting married right away, but I am just dying to have a ring on my finger because well, I can't quite explain it, but if you are a woman reading this, you may understand why. I don't know if I need to forget these rediculous ideas and be more rational, or if I am perfectly normal because I'm usually a rational thinker, but when it comes to this subject lately, I cannot seem to come back down to earth and it's an internal problem for me and I want my boyfriend to stop thinking I'm upset with him about it. I cannot explain to him enough that as he may be part of my feelings of the subject, I am in no way upset at him or angry for thinking the way he does, that it is me who is going through this weird phase that may or may not go away... something tells me it won't. Someone please give me some kind of advice.

I have an ok complexion, it's pretty acceptable by my standards. But I have two problems. I have blackheads on my cheeks, nose and forehead for one thing, and I'm trying to get rid of them before i fix my other problem: faint dark spots and post-acne scars. The dark spots and scars from acne aren't very noticeable until I point them out, but it bothers me because I had terrible acne when i hit puberty. The acne isn't much of a problem anymore (that's been a thing of the past for about 5 or 6 years now) but I have left over blackheads and I want them gone. My regimen right now is washing my face with clearisil and I also use St.Ives Green Tea scrub. I use a facial mask every week, but sometimes every other week depending on my skin's sensitivity. I moisturize with lumene vitamin c+ or garnier's bb cream, and sometimes neutrogena for sensitive skin (but it's very rare that i use the neutrogena). I also just began to use witch hazel every day after opening my pores with a warm towel after a woman in wal greens told me that it would work. I need to know if anybody has any other remedies (not home remedies because i have found that they aren't so effective) that have some kind of physiological science behind it. or if i can do anything to make my skin care regimen more effective before i start working on evening the tone.

I have an ok complexion, it's pretty acceptable by my standards. But I have two problems. I have blackheads on my cheeks, nose and forehead for one thing, and I'm trying to get rid of them before i fix my other problem: faint dark spots and post-acne scars. The dark spots and scars from acne aren't very noticeable until I point them out, but it bothers me because I had terrible acne when i hit puberty. The acne isn't much of a problem anymore (that's been a thing of the past for about 5 or 6 years now) but I have left over blackheads and I want them gone. My regimen right now is washing my face with clearisil and I also use St.Ives Green Tea scrub. I use a facial mask every week, but sometimes every other week depending on my skin's sensitivity. I moisturize with lumene vitamin c+ or garnier's bb cream, and sometimes neutrogena for sensitive skin (but it's very rare that i use the neutrogena). I also just began to use witch hazel every day after opening my pores with a warm towel after a woman in wal greens told me that it would work. I need to know if anybody has any other remedies (not home remedies because i have found that they aren't so effective) that have some kind of physiological science behind it. or if i can do anything to make my skin care regimen more effective before i start working on evening the tone.

I have had no injury on my legs at all. I am 18 yrs old going on 19. There is no color just a lump on the upper right part of my right thigh. It just suddenly appeared, and it hurts when it's touched. What could this be if i haven't been injured or run into anything???

For a wedding, would July 16 or October 31 be better?

So, untraditional things are pretty fun. I was wondering how a woman could go about proposing marriage to a man. What kind of gift should she give besides a ring? How should she go about the whole ordeal?

Hello, I am currently looking for a job. I have no employment history, but you have to start somewhere, right? I'm having trouble finding a job right now because I have no work history, and I thought maybe if i made a resume it may help a lot, but i have no work history to put on that. What can I do to maybe increase my chances of being employed, and what kind of things can I put on a resume if I have no work experience, but I am eager to learn?

Hello, I am currently looking for a job. I have no employment history, but you have to start somewhere, right? I'm having trouble finding a job right now because I have no work history, and I thought maybe if i made a resume it may help a lot, but i have no work history to put on that. What can I do to maybe increase my chances of being employed, and what kind of things can I put on a resume if I have no work experience, but I am eager to learn?

I'm on birth control. I've been on Loestrin Fe for 3 years. I am in the middle of the pack, but i'm having a period. but it's like brighter red blood, so it's not old blood like at the end of the month when you're supposed to bleed darker blood. What may be the problem?

Now before I am bombarded with people trying to post about how awful spells are, I've believed in Wicca for 6 years now, and nobody is going to change my beliefs. So no imposing any religions on anybody.

I have a problem with being really clumsy, and kind of derpy. I just need reassurance that I can be more graceful. Now of course a spell alone won't make me less clumsy, but I do believe it will help. Are there any fellow Wiccans who may know any good spells for me?

Ok, in school the other day, I had a small episode and it was pretty scary because i couldn't move. I was pretty tired, but I was also wide awake. First thing that happened while I was sitting at my desk is that my head kept falling back, so i lifted my arms up on my desk and they were shaking. then i laid my head down for a min, but when i tried to move again, nothing would work. I couldn't move anything, i kept trying to move, but my arms and legs and everything else wouldn't move at all. i couldn't even get any sound out of my mouth to say help me. i eventually was able to move my fingers and then my arms but it was hard to sit back up. If anyone has any advice or any help, please let me know. It was very scary

Ok, in school the other day, I had a small episode and it was pretty scary because i couldn't move. I was pretty tired, but I was also wide awake. First thing that happened while I was sitting at my desk is that my head kept falling back, so i lifted my arms up on my desk and they were shaking. then i laid my head down for a min, but when i tried to move again, nothing would work. I couldn't move anything, i kept trying to move, but my arms and legs and everything else wouldn't move at all. i couldn't even get any sound out of my mouth to say help me. i eventually was able to move my fingers and then my arms but it was hard to sit back up. If anyone has any advice or any help, please let me know. It was very scary

Ok, in school the other day, I had a small episode and it was pretty scary because i couldn't move. I was pretty tired, but I was also wide awake. First thing that happened while I was sitting at my desk is that my head kept falling back, so i lifted my arms up on my desk and they were shaking. then i laid my head down for a min, but when i tried to move again, nothing would work. I couldn't move anything, i kept trying to move, but my arms and legs and everything else wouldn't move at all. i couldn't even get any sound out of my mouth to say help me. i eventually was able to move my fingers and then my arms but it was hard to sit back up. If anyone has any advice or any help, please let me know. It was very scary

ok, i want to leave the house, but i can't because there is an alarm system... it's on the windows, and the doors, and i hear about that magnet trick, but how do i know what to put the magnet on, or if it's the right alarm system?

and i dont wanna hear about getting in trouble. please. haha, im aware. and i do not care.

how do i get out of here for a few hours without the alarm getting in my way?!

ok, i want to leave the house, but i can't because there is an alarm system... it's on the windows, and the doors, and i hear about that magnet trick, but how do i know what to put the magnet on, or if it's the right alarm system?

and i dont wanna hear about getting in trouble. please. haha, im aware. and i do not care.

how do i get out of here for a few hours without the alarm getting in my way?!

ok, i don't really think it is a satanic video first of all, and no i do not believe she is trying to send a satanic message. i have noticed she is very abstract with a lot of her work. so does anyone know the REAL meaning behind her video?

So, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now, and I have a problem. A while back he started telling me he was going to bed, and he wouldn't go to bed because hours later, I'd still see things that he posted on my news feed on Face Book, and it shows the time he posted it too, so I confronted him about it several times, and he'd be all like "I don't have to tell you what I do every second of the day, it's none of your business anyways." Now, I see a red flag there. I was not mad about the fact that he didn't go to bed, I was mad because he lied about something so insignificant and gave me that attitude. Now another thing that made me a little suspicious is that he posted photos, and a girl commented it "cutie <3" ok, that didn't make me mad, i decided to be cute and say "my cutie <3." He was all like, "The my my my thing is rude, stop it" so WHY THE HELL CAN'T I SAY "MY CUTIE"??? The main thing is, I don't feel trust for him as much now for those reasons and a few other reasons. He gave me a promise ring, but I can't wear it until I trust him again. He wears his promise ring, but that's him. The question is what should i do, just give me some kind of advice.

So, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now, and I have a problem. A while back he started telling me he was going to bed, and he wouldn't go to bed because hours later, I'd still see things that he posted on my news feed on Face Book, and it shows the time he posted it too, so I confronted him about it several times, and he'd be all like "I don't have to tell you what I do every second of the day, it's none of your business anyways." Now, I see a red flag there. I was not mad about the fact that he didn't go to bed, I was mad because he lied about something so insignificant and gave me that attitude. Now another thing that made me a little suspicious is that he posted photos, and a girl commented it "cutie <3" ok, that didn't make me mad, i decided to be cute and say "my cutie <3." He was all like, "The my my my thing is rude, stop it" so WHY THE HELL CAN'T I SAY "MY CUTIE"??? The main thing is, I don't feel trust for him as much now for those reasons and a few other reasons. He gave me a promise ring, but I can't wear it until I trust him again. He wears his promise ring, but that's him. The question is what should i do, just give me some kind of advice.