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I know a lady since year from the day i have joined her office. I had a secret crush on her before i got to know her. Slowly slowly we started to speak with each other. Now we have became good friends. She is going through divorce. She has always shared with me all her life story about her family and her problems. She does not hides anything from me. She told me news of her decision of divorce first. Me too love to share all my thoughts plans and problems with her. I love her very much but am not sure what she thinks about me. I have planned to let her know my feelings someday but i am afraid of loosing her friendship.

Few days ago, over tea, she started talking about her family. Moments later her eyes started watering and words started fumbling as she was speaking. She started crying heavily. I was shocked she bought a topic to discuss with me which was so disturbing to her. I consoled her and told her that we'll speak over it sometimes later.

I am very confused from that day. Why she choosed me over all her other friends to share such a disturbing topic. Does she trusts me so much. Has she started liking me.

i am looking forward to telling my feelings for her after her divorce. is there any chance for me with this lady going by the above situation of laying so much trust in me and confiding with me her feelings.

I have heard that a girl likes a person if she chooses to cry over her. Is it true. Views from girls/women awaited.

i really want to marry this lady (although theres huge age gap). She is the ONE for me.

I know a lady since year from the day i have joined her office. I had a secret crush on her before i got to know her. Slowly slowly we started to speak with each other. Now we have became good friends. She is going through divorce. She has always shared with me all her life story about her family and her problems. She does not hides anything from me. She told me news of her decision of divorce first. Me too love to share all my thoughts plans and problems with her. I love her very much but am not sure what she thinks about me. I have planned to let her know my feelings someday but i am afraid of loosing her friendship.

Few days ago, over tea, she started talking about her family. Moments later her eyes started watering and words started fumbling as she was speaking. She started crying heavily. I was shocked she bought a topic to discuss with me which was so disturbing to her. I consoled her and told her that we'll speak over it sometimes later.

I am very confused from that day. Why she choosed me over all her other friends to share such a disturbing topic. Does she trusts me so much. Has she started liking me.

i am looking forward to telling my feelings for her after her divorce. is there any chance for me with this lady going by the above situation of laying so much trust in me and confiding with me her feelings.

I have heard that a girl likes a person if she chooses to cry over her. Is it true. Views from girls/women awaited.

I know a lady since year from the day i have joined her office. I had a secret crush on her before i got to know her. Slowly slowly we started to speak with each other. Now we have became good friends. She is going through divorce. She has always shared with me all her life story about her family and her problems. She does not hides anything from me. She told me news of her decision of divorce first. Me too love to share all my thoughts plans and problems with her. I love her very much but am not sure what she thinks about me. I have planned to let her know my feelings someday but i am afraid of loosing her friendship.

Few days ago, over tea, she started talking about her family. Moments later her eyes started watering and words started fumbling as she was speaking. She started crying heavily. I was shocked she bought a topic to discuss with me which was so disturbing to her. I consoled her and told her that we'll speak over it sometimes later.

I am very confused from that day. Why she choosed me over all her other friends to share such a disturbing topic. Does she trusts me so much. Has she started liking me.

i am looking forward to telling my feelings for her after her divorce. is there any chance for me with this lady going by the above situation of laying so much trust in me and confiding with me her feelings.

I have heard that a girl likes a person if she chooses to cry over her. Is it true. Views from girls/women awaited.

Actually the story starts like this:

Indian arranged marriage. My family going to see the girl. Girl liking me. Me liking girl. But her father displays haste. Also displays social isolation. Says that his immediate family and my immediate family will decide all matters relating to marriage (confirmation, engagement and marriage) w/o intimating other relatives. But practice in my family is to involve each and every relative in each and every decision making process. So when the girls father told that he does not wants his other relatives be involved in decision making process was shocking to our family. It raised doubts as to why the girls father has no social standing. Has he committed some serious mistakes to bear the anger of his relatives and society. Does he has no social standing. Also it raised doubts whether girl also disrespects relatives like her father.

So my family took the decision to reject the girl.

My question stands:

1) Whether it is appropriate to reject a good girl with all the qualities i want be rejected because she does not have good family background.

or Family background/social standing does not matters much as it is the boy and girl who have to spend life together and not the relatives.

Please advice.

Hi friends.

Me: age 26, Mumbai, India, Highly qualified, Good earner, working in a big govt organisation, not good looking, Intelligent, Ambitious. Simple, Down to earth.

My Marital Aspirations: Some1 who'll take care of me as a child, to have a baby asap, looks dont matter, caring, court marriage, decently qualified, spouse earning decent salary, who will be supportive in my career.

Her: age 28, Delhi, India not a graduate, doesn't wants to do a job after marriage. But caring loving simple nice, wont find another like her.

Why i want to marry her:

Emotional reasons- good girl caring, simple, can become a nice wife, thoughts match.

Practical reasons- shes ready for court marriage, as i want to avoid all expenses of show wedding, will save my old parents trouble of looking for girl, want to get settled down as early as i can, but if go for arrange marriage it will take 3 4 years more. Girls in arrange marriage too demanding. Want to marry a girl i know.

Why she wants to marry me:

Emotional reason- hv been good friends, simple, caring, she believes i can be a good husband (all these told by her to me)

Practical Reason- she wont get a good guy working in big govt orgnstn if she goes arrange marriage way, wants to make her life secure, to avoid dowry (which she would hv to give to guy if arrange marriage), to save trouble of her parents finding groom{as told to me by my friends, peers}, to prove to her friends that she too can get a spouse working in govt job even if shes not graduate(told to me by her).

I am willing to compromise on the reasons as i just want to get settled down and start a family.

Q1) Do our reason to get married to each other seem emotional or more practical?

But the BIGGEST problem is that the girl is not graduate and does not wants to do job after marriage. I have given serious thought about marrying this girl a 1000 times, but all the 1000 times she not being graduate and not wanting to do job really TURNS ME OFF. I can manage on my own salary but i dont want to spend my life feeding my wife. She should earn on her own for herself. I have earned high qualifications from a central university with soo much efforts, i dont want to disappoint myself my parents friends and relatives by marrying a girl who couldn't get for herself a simple graduation. Plus it would be like going one generation backwards when ladies were not even schooled. Plus i think i should not look like a stupid person in front of my peers who are getting married to good careerist girls.

please advice what should i do. I cant stop thinking about her.

Hi friends.

Me: age 26, Mumbai, India, Highly qualified, Good earner, working in a big govt organisation, not good looking, Intelligent, Ambitious. Simple, Down to earth.

My Marital Aspirations: Some1 who'll take care of me as a child, to have a baby asap, looks dont matter, caring, court marriage, decently qualified, spouse earning decent salary, who will be supportive in my career.

Her: age 28, Delhi, India not a graduate, doesn't wants to do a job after marriage. But caring loving simple nice, wont find another like her.

Why i want to marry her:

Emotional reasons- good girl caring, simple, can become a nice wife, thoughts match.

Practical reasons- shes ready for court marriage, as i want to avoid all expenses of show wedding, will save my old parents trouble of looking for girl, want to get settled down as early as i can, but if go for arrange marriage it will take 3 4 years more. Girls in arrange marriage too demanding. Want to marry a girl i know.

Why she wants to marry me:

Emotional reason- hv been good friends, simple, caring, she believes i can be a good husband (all these told by her to me)

Practical Reason- she wont get a good guy working in big govt orgnstn if she goes arrange marriage way, wants to make her life secure, to avoid dowry (which she would hv to give to guy if arrange marriage), to save trouble of her parents finding groom{as told to me by my friends, peers}, to prove to her friends that she too can get a spouse working in govt job even if shes not graduate(told to me by her).

I am willing to compromise on the reasons as i just want to get settled down and start a family.

Q1) Do our reason to get married to each other seem emotional or more practical?

But the BIGGEST problem is that the girl is not graduate and does not wants to do job after marriage. I have given serious thought about marrying this girl a 1000 times, but all the 1000 times she not being graduate and not wanting to do job really TURNS ME OFF. I can manage on my own salary but i dont want to spend my life feeding my wife. She should earn on her own for herself. I have earned high qualifications from a central university with soo much efforts, i dont want to disappoint myself my parents friends and relatives by marrying a girl who couldn't get for herself a simple graduation. Plus it would be like going one generation backwards when ladies were not even schooled. Plus i think i should not look like a stupid person in front of my peers who are getting married to good careerist girls.

please advice what should i do. I cant stop thinking about her.

I am a 28 year old guy. I recently proposed a girl for marriage whom i knew for many years. I liked her since ever and really was looking forward for a life with her. So that prompted me to propose her. She's staying very far and we haven't met since 4 year. Also she doesn't have a good job whilst i am into a stable job. I also had told her beforehand that we won't take final decision until we meet and decide. Plus there are soo many problems of religion, age, distance, finances, her job which have to be decided by me.

But now this girl is going and telling each and every friend of her that i proposed her for marriage. She even told her parents about me. inspite of me telling her every time not to tell anyone about us until we finalise our decision.

Q) Why is she acting soo immaturely. I expect my spouse to be a mature lady and blabbering to all half baked news is really isn't they way i perceive maturity. Is she trying to build up pressure on me so that i won't back down later. Doesn't she understands that i'll look bad if nothing fruitful turns out?

She telling her mother has really pissed me off. Should i call of the relation cause i feel she seems making me answerable to all even thought there is nothing as such 'relationship' started between us.

I am a 28 year old guy. I recently proposed a girl for marriage whom i knew for many years. I liked her since ever and really was looking forward for a life with her. So that prompted me to propose her. She's staying very far and we haven't met since 4 year. Also she doesn't have a good job whilst i am into a stable job. I also had told her beforehand that we won't take final decision until we meet and decide. Plus there are soo many problems of religion, age, distance, finances, her job which have to be decided by me.

But now this girl is going and telling each and every friend of her that i proposed her for marriage. She even told her parents about me. inspite of me telling her every time not to tell anyone about us until we finalise our decision.

Q) Why is she acting soo immaturely. I expect my spouse to be a mature lady and blabbering to all half baked news is really isn't they way i perceive maturity. Is she trying to build up pressure on me so that i won't back down later. Doesn't she understands that i'll look bad if nothing fruitful turns out?

She telling her mother has really pissed me off. Should i call of the relation cause i feel she seems making me answerable to all even thought there is nothing as such 'relationship' started between us.

HI People. I want to buy a digi cam for general use. I need it for taking general pics say while travelling, hanging out with friends and just sometimes outdoor. There won't be any photography of nature etc.

I need best cam in terms of

1) LCD screen size

2) Good memory card

3) Optical Zoom/Zoom > 10 times

4) Mega pixels > 10 Mp. greater the better.

5) Quick photo processing,,means the camera should get ready for another photo immediately.

6) and any other good specs

My budget is Rs 10000 to Rs 14000 (250$ - 350$)

Hi ppl. I am planning to see HPDH2 coming week. The thing is that i haven't seen HPDH1. Nor i have read any of the HP books. I have seen all movies upto the Order of Phoenix.

My question is will i be able to follow the story of HPDH2 without having seen HPDH1or read HPDH book?

I don't want to waste my money on movie which i will fail to understand.

Hi friends. I recently happened to see a show on GOD TV. a person/priest/saint named Benny Hinn in london used to touch a person who came on stage. The person used to fall down on his touch. A small girl came who was limp but as Benny touched her she started running?

Later as show progressed towards the end he asked all people to raise their hands towards 'heaven' and he made some gesture towards the people and all people fall down.

This show affected me so much that i began crying watching it. I want to know:

1) what is this power to touch people and fall called?

2) How many saints have such power?

3) Is it real or are the people who fall are ACCOMPLICE of Benn Hinn?

4) DO people really get cured?

Thanks

Hi techies. I need your help. I am totally blank in this hardware knowledge.

I have a motherboard Nvidia Geforce 7050/610i. It has a inbuilt video card. I do not know exactly what is the capacity of video card but my dealer told me its 256 mb video card. I also have two sticks of 1 gb each in the ram slot.

Now my problem is that i have to play some good games on pc like gta iv, conviction etc. But my PC specs don't allow me.

So my questions are:

1) Does my motherboard supports standalone video/graphic cards? If yes then what capacity video card should i add? If no which is a good motherboard which supports standalone graphics card?

2) Do i need to increase the RAM once i upgrade my graphic card? If so what would u suggest.

3) I've heard that CPU needs extra power supply upto 500 or 1000 watts if i add a video card. How can i know whats my current power supply status? And what does it means by upgrading power supply? Do i need to change my CPU?

Thanks.

Hi to all. I am in a bit of confusion so thought of seeking the help of you all.

I am a boy. A girl was my friend from 2006. We met at a coaching center and since then our friendship grew. From simple HI hello we both graduated to coming at each others home often and meeting parents and sharing secrets with each other. We used to chat a lot on sms and also we had late and lengthy calls almost daily. I used to do so many of her chores just for sake of her friendship. Wheneve she used to call me i used to go.. helped her out on so many issues.

But after 3 years the girl got a job and i did not. There was a sudden change in attitude. She used to never reply my msgs or call. Even if she replied the answer was in one or two words. I tried umpteen number of times to confront her abt change in her attitude but she used to say sorry. But she behaved just like before as if her sorry or even I have no meaning.

So after seeing her attitude for 5-6 mnths i stopped talking with her. even she did not replied. I thousht she must hv forgot me. Even i was happy that i would not hv to deal with her rude behaviour no more.

But approx after 9-10 minths she sent a sms to me to wish on my b'day. So as a courtesy i replied in thanks to her. She apologised for her behavior. SO i again started slowly msg her. we then chatted abt hws going in life and abt our jobs. My job is very low as compared to her. (she had used the L word for me earlier when i was jobless). initially she used to reply but now since 1-2 weeks she has started to behave rudely just like before..no reply. Also im a not at all good looking guy. So whenver i ask her that can we meet for movie or dinner she always change the subject. I think she is ashamed tto be seen with me in public. Also i think she purposefully contacted me again to just know what i was doing and she genuinely had no interest/care whatsoever for me.

So guys and gals i hv three q's.

1) Does she really cares/takes me as a friend?

2) Why she does not wants to come with me in public if she takes me as a friend? Did she contacted me to know whether im still a 'L'?

3) Should i stay mum and not reply to any of her communication as i feel im loosing my dignity.

or should i once again tell her abt her rude attitude aand bid good bye.

Hi to all. I am in a bit of confusion so thought of seeking the help of you all.

I am a boy. A girl was my friend from 2006. We met at a coaching center and since then our friendship grew. From simple HI hello we both graduated to coming at each others home often and meeting parents and sharing secrets with each other. We used to chat a lot on sms and also we had late and lengthy calls almost daily. I used to do so many of her chores just for sake of her friendship. Wheneve she used to call me i used to go.. helped her out on so many issues.

But after 3 years the girl got a job and i did not. There was a sudden change in attitude. She used to never reply my msgs or call. Even if she replied the answer was in one or two words. I tried umpteen number of times to confront her abt change in her attitude but she used to say sorry. But she behaved just like before as if her sorry or even I have no meaning.

So after seeing her attitude for 5-6 mnths i stopped talking with her. even she did not replied. I thousht she must hv forgot me. Even i was happy that i would not hv to deal with her rude behaviour no more.

But approx after 9-10 minths she sent a sms to me to wish on her b'day. So as a courtesy i replied in thanks to her. She apologised for her behavior. SO i again started slowly msg her. we then chatted abt hws going in life and abt our jobs. My job is very low as compared to her. (she had used the L word for me earlier when i was jobless). initially she used to reply but now since 1-2 weeks she has started to behave rudely just like before..no reply. Also im a not at all good looking guy. So whenver i ask her that can we meet for movie or dinner she always change the subject. I think she is ashamed tto be seen with me in public. Also i think she purposefully contacted me again to just know what i was doing and she genuinely had no interest/care whatsoever for me.

So guys and gals i hv three q's.

1) Does she really cares/takes me as a friend?

2) Why she does not wants to come with me in public if she takes me as a friend? Did she contacted me to know whether im still a 'L'?

3) Should i stay mum and not reply to any of her communication as i feel im loosing my dignity.

or should i once again tell her abt her rude attitude aand bid good bye.