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I am looking to buy an 05 thru 08 Cadillac SRX with 3rd row seating and I was wondering if anyone would happen to know what the maintenance/up keep is like on those cars. I have an 02 Nissan Altima and the maintenance on that is not as cheap as you may think. Is the SRX expensive to maintain?

I am seriously planning to move to the valley after I am done with college next year so that I can start my career there. I love Phoenix and I go at least once a year with my aunt because she has a timeshare there. My only problem is, I want to know more about it before I make that big move. I only know about Phoenix on a tourist level. Can you guys help? Please don't take this offensively, I just want to know about my cultures place in this city. That's all.

I don't know if it's just me but, everytime she is hit with a question, she goes around the answer and starts babbling. Did she ever say would she would do if she got the call at 3am? Every single time she is asked an important question, she avoids the answer by over talking. What do you think Bush would do if he got the call?

Did my hispanic/latino friends see the debate between Barack and Hillary a few weeks ago? Are you aware that Clinton is not in favor of you coming to America and she wants to continue the building of the border fence? Obama stated that he wants to do everything possible to make sure that when you do come here that you are legal? Are the cubans aware that Clinton doesn't want to sit with your government until they learn how to act? Are you sure you want this woman as president?

Why do Americans want so badly to keep the Mexicans out of this country? But then turn around and hire them to do labor work or go and eat at one of their resturants. Are americans contridicting themselves? Is this a double standard?

I see the guys wearing the boat shoes by Sperry. And it looks really hot on them with then jeans or khakis and button down collar shirts. But now they make them for women and it is just sooo not hot. I don't know if I am just ultra feminine or what. But I think it looks manish fir women to wear them. You daon't have much of an outfit to put together with those shoes. You basically have to dress like a man. Are there any other women out there that hate boat shoes for women.

Why is it okay for white people to say whatever they want. They get on t.v. and call us the N word and they make jokes about changing the name of the white house if Barack becomes president. But as soon as we insult them or tell them they are ignorant, they want to get all sensitive and say we are rude and insulting. Long story short, a guy asked a question, I responded, he didn't like my response so he decided to copy and paste my response under someone elses question to try and put me on front street all because I told him was he is ignorant. Now all of these white people are e-mailing me telling me I'm wrong. Why? Because he didn't like the answer I gave him? Keep in mind we were all discussing the next president. Why do they think they continue to dump on us but we can't say squat? Black people, I need you. Help me out on this one.

I heard about a week ago that Hillary's team brought out the fact that Obama had used drugs in the past. Didn't Clinton smoke pot? I mean realisitically, we all have done something bad. Whether we want to admit it or not. But is that anything worth bringing up in a political debate? Who cares about that if it's in the past? And you can't use something to bring someone else down when that same situation applies to you as well. What do you guys think about this?

If there are any guys that have that Justin Timberlake/Nick Lachey kind of look, would you guys date a black girl like myself? Justin is soooo hot and ever since I fell in love with J.T. I haven't been able to stop looking at white guys. Please tell me a black girl like me would have a chance with someone as hot as Justin.

I am moving to Phoenix to accept a job and the area that I will be living in is Buckeye. When I went 2 months ago for the interview i drove around pretty much the entire city and it seems as if everyone lives together. In my neighborhood now, I live with black, white, hispanic, and indian. My neighborhood is very diverse and PHX seems to be too. But are there any specific groups that live in specific areas. And if so, where are they? I'm NOT racist, just curious. By the way, I LOVE the Valley!!!

I live in Atlanta and am looking to relocate. I asked this question a few minutes ago and no on seemed to be able to give a for sure answer. So this is for people who either live or have visited. What is Phoenix like for raising a family? Other than the fact that its hot. Atlanta is over populated and over rated. A lot of child molestation and armed robberies go on here. I don't care to know about crime because its every where. I just want the basic run down.

I am looking for a new job in different areas of the United States. I am searching Miami suburbs, Phoenix, and Las Vegas suburbs. Are these good places to raise a family. Which cities are the best? Phoenix sounds better but I also heard that Vegas isn't bad either. What do you guys think?

My husband likes to bring up stuff about my past. Things that happened before we even started dating. He sometimes calls me out of my name because of the fact that I had a life before he came along. But he was also in a relationship with someone when we met. He also loves to down talk me in front of others, especially his mother. He makes me look like the bad guy and likes to tell all of our business to other people, whether it's his family or mine. When I asked him about this, he says its because he needs a "jury" around so that he can get other peoples opinion about our personal problems. And he has to be right about everything or a small discussion will turn into a huge argument until he has been proven right about something. It doesn't matter what it is just as long as hes right. He thinks that women have a place and we have been getting away with too much! He can stay out as long as he pleases, but the one time I go out for 2 hours, he's pissed. What is this about?

He complains about everything about himself. His looks, his clothes, his life. He his not happy with himself so he can't possibly be happy with me. His granfather recently passed and we are also going through a seperation. He is very upset by this, which is understandable, but now he wants to move back to Chicago to be up under his mother because he doesn't want to lose another family member while hes away form home. How can we try and work things out when he always runs to mama. And shouldn't his hand picked family come first now. Especially since he's married with two kids. He's always angry and he's jealous of me and likes to accuse me of cheating when I'm only going to the grocery store and I have the kids with me. He doesn't fix things around the house when they tear, my car needs brakes, and he was upset at the fact that I bought myself a new car and didn't get one for him and he says it's not fair for me to have new things and not him. Is this a man or a boy? Does he love me?

I am unhappily married with two kids. My husband and I are both 25 yrs old and still not quite mature. We have been going through our ups and downs since the birth of oue son in Aug. 2006. And it's getting worse by day.We decided to just split. We have argued long enough. And I feel stupid for even marrying him because he hit me 2 weeks before he proposed to me. My family knows nothing about this incident. But they all suggest that I leave him. He is from Chicago and I'm from Philly. Two different worlds. We now live in Atlanta. He wants to go back to Chicago to be with his mom because he is a mommys boy. My mother lives here in Atlanta and my father died 2 years ago. I don't want to live in Atlanta anymore. Nor Philly. I want to move further south to Florida. Would you do this with two kids and no family in Florida? My family doesn't help much with my kids. My mom babysits from time to time. But my kids are in school anyway? Do I stay in Atlanta and be miserable or go to Florida?

I have two preschool age children and I currently live in Suburban Atlanta. I want to move further south in suburban Miami. I s it a good idea to move to Homestead or should I try another Florida location. I love fun in the sun, but will my kids have a good opportunity being raised here? I just want a nice lifestyle not flashy but not poverty. Just middle class. Is this a good suburban area?