Hailey

So I've never been to a school dance, I'm just not that kind of person, but I decided I wanted to go to my senior prom, obviously because it's senior prom. Well, I went shopping with all of my friends today and I hated it. I'm too fat to comfortably wear any dress, I wanted to find something with sleeves because my arms are huge and gross but of course I couldn't find anything. On top of that, even if I did go, I'd end up either third wheeling with my best friend and her boyfriend or third wheeling these other two best friends (which isn't as bad as the other, but it still kind of really sucks). I couldn't find a dress because I'm fat, and I would be the odd man out either way if I go. I don't know if it's worth it at this point. Is it?

I've had this one sided crush for a long time and I'm very aware it's one sided but I want to move on without telling the guy because he's my friend. Yet I feel like I've been rejected even though I never said anything. It kind of sucks. I don't know what to do.

So here's the basic jist- I'm fat and ugly and super sarcastic so it's even a miracle that I have friends. However, my best friend recently started dating someone (and I love them together, they're precious) but I'm so jealous. I've never had anyone like me and it's my senior year. I'm worried about having to go to prom and stuff by myself and I just feel awful...

So I'm 17, and a senior, and I've never kissed a boy, let alone held one's hand. I kind of want to experience that before I graduate (you know?). I'm not pretty at all, and I'm kind of on the chubby side so I don't expect anyone to miraculously confess to me in the near future. Anyway, like I said I've never really experienced any kind of affection and I want to before I go on to be an adult and I don't expect anyone coming up and all of a sudden liking me.

Is it wrong to ask my friend to kiss me at prom if neither of us go with dates? He used to like me, but we're just friends...?

So I'm 17 and I'm ugly. You know, overweight, hairy, covered in acne, gross facial features. I'd like to say I'm a pretty not-awful person, I have friends and stuff. How do I not feel ugly? I don't want to be in pictures because I'm fat and ugly. I just am. But I don't want to feel this way. I walk/run two miles every day (because of an online physical education class) and I don't eat completely awfully...

But I'm just so ugly and I'm sick and tired of feeling this way.

So here's the deal. Around Christmas, this guy was going to ask me out, but I don't like him like that so I indirectly rejected him. Well now my best friend likes this guy and I think they're totally cute. But that guy still likes me. So my friend is convinced that the only solution is to try to "seduce" the guy I like. I'm just so confused and I don't know what to do! She's my friend but she's angry that this guy likes me so she's going after the guy I like? I'm so confused...

I'm not skinny, I'm tall and definitely full. However, I'm not curvy. I'm not fat, I'm just wide (like my hips and ribs and shoulders are huge and broad).

Like, if I were trying to flirt with someone by doing things that guys find attractive or get excited about, what should I do?

I know it sounds awful, but sometimes I worry that my friends are only friends with me because I'm ugly and make them look better. I really can't help thinking this way because boys always approach them and they always are in relationships.. I'm definitely jealous, but more so sad because I don't like being the "ugly" friend... what do I do??

So there is this guy who kind of likes me and we're friends (I'm a girl), and for some reason when I see or talk to him all I want to do is just lean over and kiss him. What do I do???

I'm a 17 year old girl and I just don't know how to feel or what to do. I should probably start out with the fact that I'm not pretty or skinny (and I'm not a skinny pretty girl just saying that because whatever) since I feel like that's a part of the reason.. Anyway, I'm 17 now and I've never ever been in a relationship, never had someone "confess" to me, never been kissed, and I've never even been to a school dance.. I feel like I'm totally missing out on the teenage experience and the longer I go without this the more nervous I get that people in the future won't like me either, which is kind of stressful... I just don't know what do do.

So this guy was going to ask me out some time ago yet I convinced my friends to trash the whole thing because of the fact that I'm crushing hard on one of his friends. But when he's around all I want to do is lead him on or tease him (and it's an awful thing, I know). I don't have any intent to be in a relationship with him but I keep like leading him on when nothing is going to happen. Help???