Laila

Need legit advice from someone who may have been through this or just understands human behavior very well. Background: worked with guy over two years, instant work BFF's so much in common we gravitated towards each other instantly and still do....both had significant other, I am now single but he is not, we have crossed the line before (wrong wrong I know I know) we did not sleep together or anything but still was inappropriate....he says he is not in love with GF anymore but doesn't wanna leave the house to her and doesn't wanna hurt her cause he owes her since they have been together so long....we both admitted we have feelings and have to fight to stay away from each other all day........so basically I already know the obvious...he's with someone else and is a very confused man and I will leave him alone.....my question is how in the hell do I stay away from him when we work together very closely, he hugs me everyday still and wants to be buddies still but how can anyone do that when there's love involved, I love and need my job I don't want to have to leave because of him......how the crap do you get over feelings? do they ever go away? this sucks! Some days I can handle it somewhat but mostly I have to stop myself from falling apart at work cause I cant have the other co-workers catching on either, I mean come on the only picture he keeps in his space is one of me and him NOT his GF who no one has ever seen or met wtf? ok ranting sorry....advice please??

Soooooo if you text a guy and he texts you back with something very open ended and then you send a bit of a provocative response and then get nothing back, it that bad or did his attentions get diverted elsewhere? Keep in mind this person is your friend, whom is also someone who initiated the "more than friendship behavior" why would a dude start something but be all flaky, why not just leave a girl alone and be her friend?

In an effort to keep it short, and resist the temptation to explain in full detail I will make bullet points .

*worked with this guy for 2 years.

*been really good friends, understand each other, know each others "stories"

*he has a girlfriend, I had a boyfriend but am now single.

*he has always complimented me and said flirty stuff, has played with my hair many times in a non G rated way, which suddenly this week progressed into him kissing my neck at work!!!! Ahh! totally unexpected!

Question: Is he using me to have fun at work and supplementing his crappy relationship by messing around with me( or should I say messing with my head)? Or is there some genuine feelings there. Sorry I know there's a lot of details missing but any thoughts?

Hi there My 4 month old daughter has had a small little pimple looking thing on her left buttock for maybe a month it did not seem to bother her at all and the pediatrician did not think anything of it at her 4 month appointment when he examined her. Well now in the last two days it has gotten bigger. There is a small bump under the skin (maybe pea size) and the whole area of redness is about the size of dime. There is also a small white head at the center (which i am leaving alone, popping could infect more). I have used warm compresses and bath soaks as well as an antibiotic band aid to shield it from the diaper so no urine or feces get on it. It also seems to be sensitive to the touch now oh and there is no fever i have been monitoring it all day with the temporal scanner which is very accurate. I change her diaper all the time and she never sits in a poopy diaper, I change it as soon as she is done doing her business. The soonest I can get her into the doc is tomorrow early evening...My question is if anyone one has had this issue before, or if anyone's child had staph infection MRSA ect. if so what did it look like and also is there anything else I can do for her until her appointment?

Here's the story. Been with my fiance now for almost 2 years, had a couple little tiny things with honesty on his part but it was small and everything else has been great we even have a 4 month old daughter and other than what happened today we are very much in love that is why I am so upset. So I was basically uploading our daughters photos into his myspace for him and approving a message I had sent ( a love poem no less), and somehow myspace put back all his messages he has ever had into his inbox today,messages that he had deleted more than 6 months ago at least and now the reappeared no idea how that is even possible, very weird but it happened. So of course I see messages from some ho bags and in them he is flirting and saying to one of them that they should hang out bla bla bla just a bunch of things that hurt my heart to see. Now, these messages where during the first few months that we were together...and before anyone asks yes were officially a couple, not dating other people ect. sooooo now that was about a year and 7 months ago so should I still be upset? I mean that means he lied to me in the beginning, but could he be doing the same now? My feeling is no, but I can't help but be hurt about this....has anyone had this problem...finding things out after the fact and what did you do? Is this forgiveable or a deal breaker, I am so hurt and confused. OH the worst thing, I forgot to mention...I quickly mentioned this to him on the phone when he was at work and he actually had the nerve to say he never wrote those, when they were clearly his messages, whats also bad is that on those days he was talking to them he was also talking to me. Now I feel like I have been cheated out of something, robbed of that pure initial romance, ok now I am ranting, any advice here? I have no where else to turn with this, no close girlfriends and my family wouldnt listen, any advice would be helpful. Thank You.

OK this is my first baby and I am due in about 2 and a half weeks....So many thoughts are rolling around in my head and one big thing is the fact that my temporary living situation has me living with four other people one whom is my brother....anyways I am worried that everyone constantly being around and wanting to hold the baby is going to mess up not only the rest that i need but the bonding time that I get with the baby.....I dont want to hurt peoples feelings but I feel really nervous about everyone and their mother wanting to hold and mess with the baby... am i being to anal I mean should i say something ahead of time or just leave it alone? Will the constant presence of people cooing over the baby ruin our bonding time???? I feel like I sound crazy right now, if so I am blaming it on the hormones lol.

okay last night I asked the question about whether or not it is normal to have spotting, mucous and clotting after a cervical exam. Everyone said no it was not and that i should call well here we are the next day and i cant get ahold of anyone at the Dr. office so i called labor and delivery at my hospital and they said that spotting does happen after a cervical exam but she wasn't sure about the clotting.....so now i am more confused......all night I would get up to pee (every stinkin hour) and it seemed like the spotting stopped but then sure enough the last 2 times I went there was even more pink blood and mucous....Im not having any contractions right now so I dont want to go to the hospital, i just feel exhausted and have a lot of pressure in the lower abdomen, I have to go to the bathroom every 20-30 min since I have been up.....okay any ideas????