Emma

People, including the guys I date say how nice I am and how pretty.

Thing is I just tend to get walked over and treated badly.

What am I doing wrong?

There's a boy from school who used to msg me on Facebook.

He has a girlfriend and boy but says how good I look and kind of chats me up.

I said I didn't want to meet up, as he was implying he wanted it to be more than friends.

Recently he's started messaging again saying I look good.

Should I reply or not?

I feel bad on his girlfriend but don't want be rude.

I'm going out for my friends birthday and am wearing a pink and blue Paisley playsuit.

Do you think I should wear black or pink kimono and accessories with it?

All I have is my control of food

I have nice friends and family but I don't feel that close to anyone

I don't feel I deserve a partner as I'm not thin enough

I'm obsessed with how I look and have become more isolated to avoid socialising with food or alcohol because of the calories and lack of control

I'm enjoying having the control of something in my life but do you think I need to change this before it becomes problem?

My friend and I have put on weight.

We've decided to both lose it and be slim again.

My diet is going well and I'm staying active

My friend keeps binging and eats junk food

I try to suggest doing things that don't involve food or alcohol but she just wants to eat at restaurants.

How can I help? As we were meant to be losing weight together

I'm back at school and have lost my timetable so only turn up to certain lessons.

I've missed my dance class for ages and am worried bout seeing my dance teacher

I bought an item on eBay and paid for postage within the cost.

The seller sent it to me but didn't pay full cost so I had to pay extra £3 on top of what I'd already paid

I've sent seller messages bout this but they are ignoring me.

Should I leave negative feedback or is this harsh?

I've put on bit of weight due to comfort eating.

I feel bad bout how I look, although I'm trying to turn this around.

Only thing is I feel self conscious when I'm out and worry bout bumping into people I know.

How can I feel more confident?

There's a guy I met and we went on dates but he'd often turn up late and once I was left standing outside a pub for at least half hour.

He has anxiety and mental health problems so I don't know if it related to that.

Thing is he ll go months without speaking to me then I hear from him like nothing happened.

It's starting to annoy me a bit, should I bother with him?