MInnie1

Ok I have 2 girls ages 4 and 6. I thought I would only want 2 children but have had this pressing feeling that I should have one more. My husband and I discussed it at one point and I actually got pregnant. Unfortunetely we lost the baby at 2mths. I wonder was that my sign to tell me not to have any more children? I was going to get pregnant right away again but I had a 6mth drawn out issue with a DNC. Its been about a year now since I lost the baby. I thought I had decided that we were done now but again here comes that wanting to have baby 3 again.

Financially we are ok right now. My job is commission only and alittle shakey but there is no guarantee of what will happen there. I work from home and next year both my children will be out of the house in preschool and school. I am not sure what to do. I make decisions that yes we are doing it and then go back on it or no we are not an go back on that. I can't make a final decision.

I also want to stop taking the pill I don't like how it makes me feel. If I had 3 I think I would feel complete.

Some advice of comments would be nice. Just something to help me make a final decision I can stick too.

I have been in the same line of work for 7 years. I am a mortgage broker, I am not in business for self I work in an office for a boss and use all of their equipment. This field pays a w2 and also some pay for different services in 1099. Basically I recieve some pay 1099 and some w2. Under the circumstances if I lost my job as we are all afraid of can the 1099 income be used when I apply for unemployment?

I just took a shower and the water got really hot and then spit out this red sand. The water then shut off. We have no water in the house now. Any idea what the problem is?

I am 34 and have 2 healthy children. My first pregnancy ever was a miscarriage at 6wks. They sent me for a blood test and I was on my way. I now again had a miscarriage at 9weeks. I have been bleeding since the 1st of march. The doctor advised me after an ultrasound monday that I still have clots demanding blood and the pregnancy test is still positive so I need a DNC.

I so want to just put this behind me but have never had one before what are the risks. I hope everything goes well so I can try again very soon.

I thought I only had to be off for a good month last time but don't remember. Now I am hearing 3 months?? Is that right.

It is up to god to decide what I have but if there are foods, techniques that are natural to increase a chance of having a boy than a girl does anyone know?

I am not pregnant yet and this would be my third child.

We are thinking about moving to North Carolina. What are the best areas for schools, low crime and living. We are in a good area where we live now and would like to have the same type of area if possible. we have 2 children that will be starting school in the next year or two.

was at the store today and it was raining. I drove the car up to the front while my husband packed the groceries in the car and some guy decided to back out of his space into our car?? He was driving a 100 year old limo and apparetly didn't know how to drive it. I am so mad but is this going to negitivly effect me because we called the cops is it on my licence?

A friend of mine is trying to get sole custody of her son. She is concerned that if she does she will lose child support. I told her I believe she will not but really don't know the answer. Does anyone know this?

My husband and I were always lovey before we had children now we are like a tag team. We hardly see each other during the week cause he leaves before I wake up and I get home from work at 7-8pm 3 nights a week put the kids to bed and work out so then he is sleeping. On the weekends we are home together but running errands and taking care of the kids playing games or watching movies. I know this will pass as the kids get older but am I the only one?

I won't say everytime but almost everytime I go anywhere with my children 90% of the other children are off without their parents. For instance you go to the park and watch your kids making sure they aren't coming down the slide into others or just not falling. Everytime most of the kids are running up and down the slides while their parents are no where to be found or off drinking their coffee yapping with another mom. I just can't stand it. This is why there are so many problems in the world if you have a kid be a parent!! I go to the park etc. and watch my child I don't need to watch any other children or disipline them cause no one seems to care anymore. Anyone agree with this??

My mother watches my kids for me 3 days a week. They are 2 and 4 and I don't like them in the car with anyone but me. She has asked for car seats but I told her I wasn't going to go buy 2 more as they are so difficult to take in and out now with all the latch tie downs and stuff. She obeys my wishes but rolls her eyes at how ridiculous she thinks I am. I tell her its not her I don't trust its all the other drivers. She still thinks its 1970 always tells me she raised 4 kids. I try to remind her alot has changed. My mom is absolutely great for watching my kids and is so interactive with them making things and teaching while she watches them. I just wish she would respect me more as a mother and being concerned for my kids. Things aren't like they used to be you always have to be on your guard from going to the store, park etc. its a crazy world out there now.

AM I OVERPROTECTIV