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Creepy (yet Wise) Creature
Gaydar without stereotypes?
We've all heard of gaydar. I also find the idea appealing, but that doesn't necessarily mean it has a basis in reality.
As this article states: " In some respects, gaydar is just projection and wishful thinking. Gay men see men they're attracted to and project mutual desire onto them. We see beauty, want it to be our beauty, and interpret it as a sign of shared homosexuality. But it's not always imaginary; most of the time, we're right"
http://www.whitecranejournal.com/58/art5803.asp
(I did find this article and White Crane in general to be very New Age, especially when it goes on to talk about some mystical consciousness shared by gay men)
But often it seems gaydar is based solely on stereotypes. Even the scientific studies I have read (and there all over the internet) tend to imply that gay men can be recognized by more feminine physical traits caused by extra exposure to female hormones during pregnancy, etc.
In my experience, many gay men (myself included) are not attracted to men who are flamboyant and stereotypical (and no there is nothing wrong with being stereotypical). If the whole point of gaydar for gay men is attraction, then it's useless if it's based on traits they find unattractive. That is the inherent problem with the popular notion of gaydar. We want to be able to tell the truth about someone but we don't want it to detract from their appeal.
Also, if gaydar is based on obvious traits then is it really gaydar at all or just common sense? If it's clear cut and obvious then it's not "intuition" and there's really no point in gaydar in the first place.
So, what's your opinion? Is gaydar a myth and/or based on stereotypes? Or can it be used to genuinely sense something about someone that may not be so obvious?
3 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoWhen will Che Joe and his fellow revolutionaries realize that you are born gay but sex with goats is a choice?
I've been trying to beat it into his head. It's getting kinda ridiculous.
11 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoAre you a gay male abou to have sex with Rowney and his boyfriend Enis?
I would advise against it. They are very very diseased. Look elsewhere
3 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoIf Jesus is black can he grant me the power to dougie?
No matter how much malt liquor I drink or how many times I try to act like a drunken black guy swimming vertically while suffering a seizure, I can't master it.
All I need is a beat that's super bumpin'
And I hear all the bitches love it.
1 AnswerReligion & Spirituality9 years agoWhy is it a news story whenever Taylor Swift feels like bitching about her poor pitiful broken heart?
So Joe Jonas broke up with her. Get the **** over it. Its not cute anymore honey.
Poor guy is still struggling with his homosexuality anyway. Cut the kid some slack.
4 AnswersCelebrities9 years agoIs Richard Dawkins a gentler more caring lover during anal sex than Jesus Christ?
My friend Mitchel is sitting in the bathroom stall next to Richard Dawkins.
My friend Mitchel used to be a member of that nutty church (yes atheists I know you think all churches are nutty) that Joaquin Phoenix was a member of, who encourage their members to jerk off thinking about Jesus.
Anyway he is finally looking to enjoy sodomy with someone real. Richard is giving him the foot tap and he is thinking about going all the way. I'm in the opposite stall beside him giving him a thumbs up and "go for it" through the glory hole.
1 AnswerReligion & Spirituality9 years agoIs Richard Dawkins a gentler more caring lover during anal sex than Jesus Christ?
My friend Mitchel is sitting in the stall next to Richard Dawkins.
My friend Mitchel used to be a member of that nutty church (yes atheists I know you think all churches are nutty) that Joaquin Phoenix was a member of, who encourage their members to jerk off thinking about Jesus.
Anyway he is finally looking to enjoy sodomy with someone real. Richard is giving him the foot tap and he is thinking about going all the way. I'm in the opposite stall beside him giving him a thumbs up and "go for it" through the glory hole.
1 AnswerReligion & Spirituality9 years agoIs Richard Dawkins a gentler more caring lover during anal sex than Jesus Christ?
My friend Mitchel is sitting in the stall next to Richard Dawkins.
My friend Mitchel used to be a member of that nutty church (yes atheists I know you think all churches are nutty) that Joaquin Phoenix was a member of, who encourage their members to jerk off thinking about Jesus.
Anyway he is finally looking to enjoy sodomy with someone real. Richard is giving him the foot tap and he is thinking about going all the way. I'm in the opposite stall beside him giving him a thumbs up and "go for it" through the glory hole.
1 AnswerReligion & Spirituality9 years agoWanna see a photo of my wedding with Vivek?
http://s1073.photobucket.com/albums/w389/CreepyAli...
It was a beautiful ceremony.
The elephant didn't even **** as it was walking down the aisle!
Not even the stench of cows and corpses could spoil the mood.
He promised that his days of receiving fellatio from eunuch prostitutes were behind him.
I would have uploaded more but Vivek kept insisting I use the photo where was the least "Australoid" looking.
Sadly, monkeys ate the wedding cake and Vivek's grandmother was injured :(
Also, Vivek has a lot of clones so I’m not sure it’s really him. But close enough! :)
1 AnswerOther - Society & Culture9 years agoDo you think Erotic Scholar will sleep with my friend Mitchel if he brings coke?
I warned her he's into a lot of sick stuff. Scat, pissing, transvestism, pegging, bestiality, etc. I think she's entitled to a little compensation if she does all that with him. Although I'm sure it's nothing she's not used to when it comes right down to it.
Here a pic of him:
http://www.flixya.com/files-photo/a/d/s/adsensebig...
He's an out of work Michael Jackson impersonator by the way.
1 AnswerLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years ago01001001001101001011000100101001100他們叫我根啤酒海象和我愛油炸食品!!?
They'll have people lined up
Sure enough we had a good crowd
The greatest thrill is not to kill but to let live
If you see anything like that stop and blow your whistle
whoa whao whoa!!!
We'll come check it out
This gentleman found a large wood structure
Lets go suit up!
3 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda
1 1/2 cups white sugar
1 1/2 cups mayonnaise
1/3 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1 1/2 cups water
2 1/4 teaspoons baking powder
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
3 AnswersCelebrities9 years agoAn embarassing personal problem...?
I slipped in the shower and now my shampoo bottle is lodged in my rectum. Any tips on getting it out?
9 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoGays: what do you when your glory holes have splinters in it?
I've always wondered what some of you do in that situation
3 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoIs Perez Hilton the most famous homosexual since Alexander the Great?
He will also probably go down in history as being far more adored by other homosexuals
6 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoI had a religious vision yesterday and saw Jesus?
We had a nice little chat and he shared with me that he is very attracted to Paul Hogan and other rugged Australian types. It's nice that Jesus is sharing little tid bits about himself.
10 AnswersReligion & Spirituality9 years agoDoes that 'good good life' song make anyone else wanna **** blood?
I mean even if it is a poigant song some people might like in the first place, its been worn the hell out. On the radio every three damn minutes and in every corny *** movie that's come out in the last few months.
2 AnswersRock and Pop9 years agoDealing with people who have AIDS?
I know a few people with AIDS
How do I get them to pay attention, stop procrastinating and become more organized? It' freaking frustrating! They constantly bounce from one thing to another and can never focus on anything!
4 AnswersLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender9 years agoDealing with people who have AIDS?
I know a few people with AIDS
How do I get them to pay attention, stop procrastinating and become more organized? It' freaking frustrating! They constantly bounce from one thing to another and can never focus on anything!
3 AnswersOther - Health9 years ago