Chantal

So, I just want some opinions.. is this a horrible idea?

I was looking at some wedding dresses on Ebay and some are AMAZING and for a great price! I mean absolutely stunning (used) wedding dresses for like under 300.00

So my idea is to order a nice dress online, in a size larger then I am and then have it taken to be altered to fit my figure. I could end up saving a thousand, maybe even more. But could this be a horrible idea?

I want to name my future baby girl Kara or Cara, but I want a second name to make it flow. I do like the name Caroline, but I dont want to name my child that.

For example Kara May.. Kara Anne.. Cara Marie, Cara Dawn.. ect.. If you can think of a second name (not a middle name, but a second name) please leave an answer. Also, I love the name Lily.. Does Kara Lily, or Cara Lily sound / look funny?

Thanks Darlin's!

My boyfriend of 5 years confessed he likes to masturbate to my friend’s pictures online. He didn’t tell me this in a fight, nor to hurt my feelings, he confessed it out of guilt. I am nowhere near as attractive as my friends are, im the ugly duck out of the group. I dont know how to feel about his confession, I feel like he has allowed my friends to someone have a higher ranking in our relationship, and I feel betrayed and almost cheated on. I cant shake the feeling of sadness. I dont know how to react to this, do I pass it off as innocent or do I take a more serious road? I love him with all my hear, we have been together for 5 years and have serious future plans.. I just dont know how to handle this situation.

My doctor just referd me to see if I qualify for covered Gastric Bypass. If you have had this surgery can you tell me pros and cons and if you regreat it. If you have not had the surgery please do not reply. I want first hand information and not someones opinion.

Thanks.

I have been a vegetarian for about 6 months now and I wanted to know.. does Campbell’s Cream of Chicken soup contain actual chicken? Its my favourite soup and its my favourite thing to eat in the winter... If it does contain real chicken is there another brand that uses meat substitute?

THANKS 

Ok, so my friend has a friggin amazing, gorgeous, breath taking (and very expensive) wedding dress.

She wore it a few years ago when she got married, we were talking and she said I could have it for my big day, and keep it. The only problem is, she just got divorced. I talked to a few people and some say that is an awesome idea, and some say that its bad luck and not special since its used (and the fact that her marriage didn't last)

I love it, the link isn't the exact dress but its really close. You have to scroll down a tad to get to the pic

Your thoughts?

http://www.weddingdressonlineshop.co.uk/a-line-wed...

Whats your favorite kind?

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 27. We met when I was 18 and he was 24, there is 6 years between us. We have been together for 3.5 years and love each other and we talk about marriage and having children in a few years. Marriage in 2 years and children shortly after.

My parents got married at 21 and they got divorced, same with alot of the members on my side of the family. There is absolutely no divorces on his side. People have told me that a person isn't fully matured until they are in their late 20's and that at 30 they were had a completely different outlook on life. What I am concerned about is him and I growing apart. I couldn't imagine my life without him but I also dont want to get married and it end in divorce.. Should I go with it or wait it out for another 5 or 6 years?

Keep in mind he is almost 28 and in 6 years he will be 34 and that's kind of old to get married and start a family.

Im confused and worried.

So basically, my question is : whats our odds?

I have been looking up recipes for some new dishes and most call for tempeh. I live in a small town and I have a hard time finding tofu to begin with and I cant seem to find tempeh anywhere (or a store that what it is). I haven't tried it myself, but would tofu wreck a meal if I used it as a substitute?

p.s I love tofu, I eat it all the time, if I like tofu would I most likely like tempeh or is it completely different?

They ask the same question everyday " Wantz me to cook yu pork chopz?" And then she/he has the nerve to be reporting people for no reason. What can we do about this user?

My boyfriend and I are ready for our first puppy. (this is my first pet) We both really like Rottweilers and Dobermans but we agreed on a Rottie. Is there anything I should know that I wouldn't assume? Our pup will not be raised to be aggressive. I know some dogs are temper mental by nature (or more aggressive then others) and I know that the Rotties don't have a good reputation but I want him to be friendly and happy. So, is there anything special I need to know to avoid having behavioral problems with him?

P.S he will be fixed once he is old enough, and he will go to the vet for regular check ups.

Just wondering what the yearly income is for a Social Worker here in Ontario, Canada. If you know, let me know!! Thanks.

I know this sounds incredibly lazy but I dread any type of psychical activity. I am so lazy and overweight and I’m starting to get very worried about my health. I decided about a month ago that I my diet was going to change. I have cut out all meat and I am eating a lot more veggies and making somewhat healthier choices. I plan to go completely vegan once I’m use to the vegetarian lifestyle. (I’m finding it very easy, shocking I know)

My problem now is I’m so lazy, I get grumpy walking from the parking lot into the store.. Ok, so that’s how lazy I am. I want to exercise but I’m so overweight that it’s hard and even painful just to go for a 10 min walk.

So my question is... how do I start from scratch and keep myself going without failing?

So here is the scoop.

I’m 21, I like sex, sometimes but its not my favourite thing in the world.. I have a steady boyfriend and we have sex a few times a week ( p.s its not him.. he is the best lover I have ever had) Within the last week I have been EXTREEMLY horny.. I mean, I’m horny like constantly. In the car, in the laundry mat, Wal-Mart, at home, like all the time! The only thing that I have done different within the past few weeks was give up eating meat. Could that have something to do with it? I have been eating more veggies and soy products. .. could that be the reason I’m always in “the mood” I know its an odd question but like.. wtf? I’m horny right now! Lol.. my boyfriend isn’t complaining but im just curious, like whats going on with me?

I have my 4 year old nephew for the week and he just won’t listen, he acts this way with his mother too but I’m not about to let him get away with it. He will be doing something he has been told several times not to do, and he just ignores me when I tell him to stop, or when I tell him he needs to listen. He only responds to me when I tell him TIME OUT!

How do I get him to listen without threatening time outs all the time?

Why would a breast hurt while using a breast pump? Its not a hand pump, it plugs into a wall. No breast milk has come out yet but doctor advised to pump to bring on milk; THE PUMP HURTS

I have a 2 year old son and his father has not been a part of his life in any way since my son was 3 months old. He has never tried to contact me or my son since he left. His name is on my son’s birth certificate. I know he has 2 children other children that where born after my son and he is taking care of them and supporting them. He was very abusive to me when I was with him and beat me pretty bad when I was pregnant. It seems now that he has grown up a bit. Now if I pass away or am unable to care for my boy I want my sister to have full custody of my son and raise him. Can his father come back and take him? I don’t want this to happen and im so scared that if something happens he may have some rights. My son doesn’t know him, he will be heartbroken if he cant be with my family.

Help.. I want to make sure he is safe. What should I do?

I am looking for some fun baby shower games..

I want to buy new speakers for my 2000 Crysler Neon. I need to replace the speakers in the 2 front doors. What size do I need to buy? I know nothing about this stuff and my dad is putting them in but he said he would only do it if I found out what size they are (he is playing a head game, lol) I looked all around the car but cant figure it out :( Help.. i want good sound. lol

I want to buy new speakers for my 2000 Crysler Neon. I need to replace the speakers in the 2 front doors. What size do I need to buy? I know nothing about this stuff and my dad is putting them in but he said he would only do it if I found out what size they are (he is playing a head game, lol) I looked all around the car but cant figure it out :( Help.. i want good sound. lol