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I've met this guy once through my ex boyfriend. We've been chatting through personal messages on Facebook for a few months. He goes to school full time and works but not sure if he works full time. He plans on us hanging out but flakes out when something comes up. He always has a good reason and feels bad. He admitted to me that he finds me attractive and says pretty girls make him nervous. From what I've gathered, he's one of those gentlemen types and I'm skeptical at this point because I've only met him once. I want him to overcome his fear of shyness even if he drops his barrier a little. I just want to meet this guy. He made plans for us to hangout tonight but I'm afraid he's going to run on me again. This is driving me crazy. Can anyone help me? :(

Note: We decided to start off as friends.

Amanda here. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 5 years (4 years, 10 months) and he broke up with me because I had problems I was too much of a coward to deal with. I was jealous, needy, clingy, judmental, had no confidence or self esteem, I didn't appreciate or love myself and I feel like I took him for granted now that I think about it. We had a compassionate, loving, intimate, caring relationship with the occassional ups and downs but what relationship isn't like that? Anyway, fast forward through the trying to get him back by acting needy and desperate, I'm much better now. I have total confidence in myself, I smile everyday, I love myself, I have fun with friends and I'm in the best shape of my life. The problem is he's made it clear twice who he's with, says he has a beautiful girlfriend who makes him happy and then told me to stop talking to him. I honestly don't know what I did to make him dislike me so much. I've changed but in his eyes, I'm the same person. I still love him and I miss him like crazy. I don't let my emotions or thoughts control me though. I choose to remain strong and I'm doing what makes me happy. I still would like your help though because even though I hope he wants me back and misses me, I'm really discouraged at this point.

Well....umm....my ex boyfriend's being immature and his last Facebook message was really hateful. A few days ago, I texted him, "Hey! Long time no see" after a month of not talking. Then he responds, "Thanks for showing me where Kevin's (my previous boyfriend) loyalties lie." Anyway, I'll fast forward to last night when he sent me that Facebook message. He said that just because he unblocked me doesn't mean I can 'like' his photos. All I did was 'like' one photo when he sent that message. He also called me immature and thought I'd leave him alone after unblocking me. It made me laugh honestly because I don't bug him 24/7 and I have to say that ever since he started dating his new girlfriend, he's been hateful towards me and I don't know why. I don't see anything wrong with the occassional 'hi' like once a month but obviously he's bot willing to be mature and talk to me like an adult. It was a big mistake contacting him. O and I don't know why he said it like this in the message but when he said "I'm with someone (said their full name here," I was really confused. Our breakup was a little messy. Long story short; he dumped me 2 months before our 5 year anniversary, I was clingy, jealous, obsessed, didn't give anyone he knew a chance and what's worse is....I didn't do a damn thing. I did the whole No Contact rule. I followed Chris Seiter's plan which backfired on me since he wants nothing to do with me now. So with that in mind, time to focus on me. Thanks for the help:)

Long story short, my boyfriend broke with me becuse I had a lot of problems I made no effort of changing and have had the same problems for years. We were together for almost 5 years. In 2 months, surprisingly, I was able to get rid of all the problems I had. My ex didn't want to believe me and I don't blame him. I know what I did wrong and I'm willing to try anything to get him back. I deeply and truly love him. I love him more than I've ever loved anyone. We were passionately in love and were devoted to each other. We talked everyday. He use to flirt me A LOT and he always touched me romantically. I've never known love till I met him. I'm on day 5 of no contact. I've been following a plan how to get an ex back. I've never been in a delicate situation like this before. I need your help. This is my mess and I thought I could do this alone but I can't. Can you help me? I appreciate you taking the time from your busy schedule to read this. :)

My boyfriend were togethere for almost 5 years but we've been broken up for a month. We had an honest, loving, very passionate and very intimate relationship. We broke up because I had some emotional and insecurity problems. Anyway, the first few weeks of the breakup were diffcult because we both said hurtful things to each other. I saw him last night for the first time in a month and a week. Originally he came over so that my friend could explain why she didn't want to give him her number. He talked about his problems, the problems in our relationship and how he doesn't want to hurt anyone; especially me.When I was crying, he said, "Come here! Come here!" Theb he actually walked over to me, picked me up and hugged me so tight, almost like he was happy to hug mr again. So I hugged him tightly too and we both just huged each other like we were a couple again. I don't know if all this means he wants to get back together or what. He also mentioned 4 times that he wants to be friends and when I mentioned a friend date I went on, he was shaking BAD. My friend and I saw it. Also, he was crying pretty much the whole time he was there. My friend agrees with me that he might want me back but he's confused. I don't really know though. Can anyone help? Thanks! :)

My boyfriend and have been together for almost 5 years but he broke up mainly because I had a lot of issues from the past and I was so judgemental. I've worked on self improvement for about a month and I have my first therapy session next week because I want to be sure that I'm mentally and emotional stable; meaning that I have the clarity I need and my emotions don't control me. Anyway, my ex has stated that he's trying to get over me once or twice because talking to me makes it harder to get over me. At the same time, he says he just needs space. I doubt you'd say you need space if you broke up but I've never been in this situation before. For the first few weeks, he seemed to be ignoring mr but overtime, he started responding to me more and more. Yesterday, he said that he loved me but not my problems. I said, "I know my problems got in the way and this is my mess and I have to clean it up. I don't expect you to say anything because you still need your space and you need to do what you want." I felt that was the right way to say it. Do you agree?

My ex boyfriend texted ne out of the blue and that's weird to me because usually he doesn't talk to me unless I'm the one who initiates contact. Anyway, I responded to his message right away sounding cheerful and happy but he didn't respond back. I don't want to overthink the situation but I just want to get advice on this.

My boyfriend has this best friend who's a girl who I'm very fond out because they tell each other everything which bothers me. They also hangout whenever they get the chance and she's always asking for favors. Also, he tells her about what problems we have; especially if those problems include her. I told him, even asked and begged, countless times not to tell her our problems but he still continues doing so. O and there's the time he admitted that she was attracted; even said it while I was sitting next to him. I told him what he said bothered me and I told him why; even told him what I and other people think attraction means but this was his response, "You're just like the rest of them. I only mean I'm attracted to her as a friend." He didn't even understand when I told him that he spends way too much time with his best friend and he doesn't respect the boundaries in our relationship either. Here's an example; when my boyfriend and I get back from hanging out her, he checks with her and lets her know that he made it home ok. I told him I didn't like that. Another thing I don't like is she claims she wants to be my friend but whenever my boyfriend leaves the room, it's nothing but dead silence between us and when he reenters the room, she then decides to talk. O and when we're all hanging out at her place, her and my boyfriend do most of the talking; almost like she doesn't want to talk to me. Plus, he sometimes ignores me when we're hanging out with her which bothers me.

I've been a Netflix member for a few years and I just thought it was time to try Hulu. What do you think?

I mainly put shampoo and conditioner in my hair but I'd appreciate it if someone knows any shampoos and conditioners that don't contain any chemical ingredients. Thanks! :) Also, can you can me what to looks for in a hair mask?

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