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My best friend and I got into a huge fight last month. Let me first start off by saying I am 28 and she is 25 and we have been best friends for 6 years now. We did everything together. I am engaged in a happy relationship for 6 years now and she is living w/ her boyfriend of 10 years and she is 5 months pregnant now. Well, last month I emailed her telling her that on Saturday I was going to the beach finally for the first time this summer. She replied that Saturday was the day her and her sister were going to do her baby registry and she can not believe that I forgot. Now, let me say that she made plans w/ her sister to go 2 months ago and said I can come along if i wanted to. I told her I would love to come. I really just forgot the day since it was 2 months before we were going. So I told her that I would not go to the beach and I would be there to do the registry w/ her and that I was sorry I forgot the day. She replied back that she no longer wants me to come because I am a horrible friend since I forgot the day and that she also does not want me to plan her baby shower anymore and all the money I spent so far she would refund to me. She said she would invite me now only as a guest if I wish to attend and she said I will see you there if you can remember to show up. Well she goes on about how I am a crappy friend and all this rude stuff. So from there is got ugly, I told her that I was sorry I forgot but I have every intention of still going and that as long as I was going to go I dont understand the big deal. (Mind you I have had alot going on w/ my brother having a baby to and I was having some health concerns at the time) She cursed me out and said not to call or email her anymore and that she has no time to waste on people like me. I responded to her that I do not understand why when we get into a fight she has to say mean things to hurt me. I told her htat I do not do that to her and I would appreciate her not doing it to me. Well, she called me at work and told me to go F*** myself and that she never wants to talk to me again. She is the type of person that thinks she can be rude to you and if you answer her back you have no right to.She is very stubborn and even if she is wrong she will not apologize or admit she made a mistake. Well basically we have not talked since that day and I have been very upset over the entire thing. I was always there for her whenever she needed me and I always had her back. Was I really so wrong here that I deserved this? Or do you feel she over reacted on the whole thing? Should I call her or should I just forget her? Pls help! Thank you!

My best friend and I got into a huge fight last month. Let me first start off by saying I am 28 and she is 25 and we have been best friends for 6 years now. We did everything together. I am engaged in a happy relationship for 6 years now and she is living w/ her boyfriend of 10 years and she is 5 months pregnant now. Well, last month I emailed her telling her that on Saturday I was going to the beach finally for the first time this summer. She replied that Saturday was the day her and her sister were going to do her baby registry and she can not believe that I forgot. Now, let me say that she made plans w/ her sister to go 2 months ago and said I can come along if i wanted to. I told her I would love to come. I really just forgot the day since it was 2 months before we were going. So I told her that I would not go to the beach and I would be there to do the registry w/ her and that I was sorry I forgot the day. She replied back that she no longer wants me to come because I am a horrible friend since I forgot the day and that she also does not want me to plan her baby shower anymore and all the money I spent so far she would refund to me. She said she would invite me now only as a guest if I wish to attend and she said I will see you there if you can remember to show up. Well she goes on about how I am a crappy friend and all this rude stuff. So from there is got ugly, I told her that I was sorry I forgot but I have every intention of still going and that as long as I was going to go I dont understand the big deal. (Mind you I have had alot going on w/ my brother having a baby to and I was having some health concerns at the time) She cursed me out and said not to call or email her anymore and that she has no time to waste on people like me. I responded to her that I do not understand why when we get into a fight she has to say mean things to hurt me. I told her htat I do not do that to her and I would appreciate her not doing it to me. Well, she called me at work and told me to go F*** myself and that she never wants to talk to me again. She is the type of person that thinks she can be rude to you and if you answer her back you have no right to.She is very stubborn and even if she is wrong she will not apologize or admit she made a mistake. Well basically we have not talked since that day and I have been very upset over the entire thing. I was always there for her whenever she needed me and I always had her back. Was I really so wrong here that I deserved this? Or do you feel she over reacted on the whole thing? Should I call her or should I just forget her? Pls help! Thank you!

I was wondering if the mother to be goes herself to register for baby gifts or does the man usually go with you to do that stuff?

My friend has been with the same guy for 9 years. She is 24 and he is 25 and they have been togehter since high school. We have been best friends for 6 years now. In this time i have seen them break up more times than i can count and i see how he treats her....like crap!! She always says she is done with him but then falls for his same old line of, "I promise i will change!" Now she is 3 months pregnant with his baby and they still fight all the time. She kicked him out last week and then took him back. AGAIN! I have told her how i feel about him numerous times in the past. What should I do as a best friend to help her see that she will be unhappy forever if she stays with him? I do not want to damage our friendship by talking bad about her man but he will never change and she will always be unhappy. I just want her to be happy so what should i do if anything to help her?