Mae

I wasn't getting any answers in women's health so I thought id ask here. Its a type of drop that's suppose to enhance a woman's sex drive. Has anyone ever used it? Does it work? I'm never ever in the mood and would like to find something to help change that. Been married for 15years and would hate for him to stray away because I'm never in the mood, any other Ideas that would help Id like to here some I'd be greatfull! Thanks.

About 4 yrs ago I dealt with Sexual harassment, Verbal abuse and Stalking It all happened at the work place, the only thing that mattered there was making that company profit. My supervisor was doing all this to me. I have not been at that job now for almost 4 yrs. Well now I have a new job. I have had mental issues since Ive been here at the job I'm with now and have been here, will be a year in April 2010 still don't know my supervisor, won't make friends because of drama, I have a bad attitude and people know not to make me mad or bother me. I'm on Deppression meds and xanex for about 5 yrs now, got off the effexor XR a few times and had severe anger issues so bad that I wanted to hurt someone really really bad its uncontrollabe I make sure I take the Effexor XR but I feel like I have 2 personalities I'm this Bit** at work and I'm perfectlly fine at home. I still feel some anger being at my current job everything I say and do isn't thought about before I "say" and "do" it good,bad,foul language it doesn't matter. I'm trying to live in the future and not in the past but it just won't go away! I'm getting desparate for answers, tierd of feeling crazy. Any Idea's I will be greatful, Thanks.

I'm not prejudice at all, just curious why people say this? Is it better sex, Are they better experienced sexually? More compassionate, What is it? Man is man to me, I've never been with a black man so I'm just curious?

My son has bowel issues and I have taken him to the Dr. over it he is 6 yrs. old, he tells me that he doesn't know when he has to poop till it's to late. Has anyone ever had this problem with their child could he just be lazy spankings never stopped him and the Dr.'s say it's from the way he eats, which has changed he eats a lot healthier now than he did before. He never ate a lot of junk food growing up and I still don't buy a lot. He had an X-Ray and they still say that he's constipated and I still feel like something may be wrong, Can anyone give me any Other reasons or medical advice on this, I'm not really sure what to do anymore or what he needs done. He shouldn't be doing this still at the age of 6.

You would think that family would be the ones you can go to for help but I've seen it time and time again how family does other family members. For instance I had an aunt who was mixing up my grandparents pills on purpose like she was trying to get rid of them, my mother and I were there my mother stopped her and she caused a big deal of drama and left, 2wks latter I had a warrant out for my arrest when I had nothing to do with the whole situation I was just there at the wrong time. She had me arrested for harassment! Had another family member among friends also that helped me out one yr, when I was 17yrs old, I went threw a windshield and lived I had lots of physical problems had lots of Dr. appointments didn't have a car at the time. Another Aunt among friends helped me out allot and I was always grateful for them when I got better and had settlement money coming to me from the accident I give money to the people who helped me out, most didn't take the money when I offered it. The Aunt, she threw a tantrum and wanted more money even called my house and harasses me and hung up. So anyone have any idea why family are worse than friends? I would've never done something like that to family or anyone else.

I've been waiting for the day for him to come home, finally, after being gone usually a year at a time, I love him so much and the kids and I are always missing him. When It gets closer to the day we see him, I'm so nervous and a little scarred, I Have some anxieties, WHY?

I shouldn't be that way, Would it be because of change? This is his 4th time over there and I always feel this way when he's due back home.

Before I was married I had been with 3 guys and nothing, I've been with my husband 14yrs. and still nothing? I want to feel it and can't seem to get it. I'm not really sure what else I need to do, I don't feel normal anymore. Any Suggestions?

It's been almost a yr. now since Ive seen him in person and spoke to him.We were both married and still are. We never cheated we were good friends and it turned into more on both halves. We had feelings for each other for many months he finally broke one day and told me how he felt about me and to his surprise, I felt the same. We had so much built up inside and so much to say it was a relief to get it all out. He told me how he thought of so many ways for us to be together and how someone like me didn't deserve him, how he didn't want to hurt me and my family, he had so much baggage in his life. How it was better for us to try and get our lives back to normal with our spouses. I had so much respect for him after that, he cared that much about me, I told my husband about it, we worked on our marriage, he told his wife about me a few months before I knew his true feelings, he was already trying to fix things at home, he is a good person and deserves to be happy and I hope that he is. I don't work there with him anymore it's been almost a yr. now. So why do I still have feelings for him, why do I still think about him? Shouldn't he be out of my system by now? So why isn't it?

My Boss and I were friends for over a yr. and he apparently developed feelings for me he's married so am I. Things started changing the day he told me if he wasn't married and had a choice to be with anyone in that building that he wanted to be with me, I changed the subject after the shocked look on my face I was very uncomfortable being around him after that, things also changed after that he was always staring at me making comments that I thought where unappropriated. He was always finding ways to be touchy and done that in front of an employee that always noticed it to say something to me. I was good friends with this die-Tech on Maintenance (By the way I worked with 2 girls and all the rest were men) and we talked all the time when he would pass me going to fix a machine. My boss would see that and he'd get in my face with anger and ask me what the **ck is going on with you and -----? You know like him and I were husband and wife. My Boss did this to me for nearly 6 months. I was so scared of him I ended up on medication for my nerves then starting having passing out spells bad head aches,nausea,tremors found out I was Hypoglycemic and my stress levels didn't mix well with my blood sugar and made me worse.I finally couldn't take it anymore I snapped found his Boss started to break down to him he cut me off and was finishing telling me what was going on that he knew what my Boss has been doing to me and he called in another supervisor in and let me know that they have been trying to fix this situation for a while now and knew what had been going on my Boss had bragged on what he had been doing to me the whole time. They apologised to me and told me that there was a problem that my boss was good friends with a person way up high in the company and is safe and they think nothing would be done about it they 'v been trying to get rid of him for a while and nothings been done he has had other harassment complaints on him and he still has a job. They were worried if they got in the middle of the situation that they would lose their jobs. They didn't tell me that in those words but it was obvious.One of them told me that I needed to go see human services there at work and that they would back me up with out loosing their jobs in other words HR was already gone home for the day so I was gonna do it the next morning after I was finished with my job. I ended up getting called off my job to go to HR and realized that I wasn't there over my Boss that the girl who had witnessed a lot of the harassment going on had gone to Hr and and told her that I slapped her in the face and even had someone there to whiness it. I was in complete shock! I couldn't believe what I was hearing! My Boss knew I was at my breaking point apparently has been threw this before and knew exactly what I was going to do so he beat me to it. and needless to say he still has his job. I don't I worked my *SS off in that place, learned every job on my own, never complained, always did what I was suppose to do Never got in trouble and got along with everyone there. I liked my job and was happy there with the exception of my Boss. It wouldn't have mattered what I did I still got the screwed end of the deal. this was 8 months ago and it still bothers me till this day. I try to look back and think that it all hap pend for a reason My Husband was fixing to leave for Iraq and maybe that was the reason him being there was enough stress and all the other was just added stress. What would you have done?

I've been with my husband 2 yrs. now.I never want intamacy almost like he doesn't turn me on anymore.I never want it I can go with out it.never really been sexually active,but it seems like the last 2yrs.other guys have been turning me on,I dont act on it of corse I love my husband but I can't figure out why I have thoughts of being with other men or maybe I've just been with him so long I dont feel as close to him sometimes. not like it use to be.He's in Iraq now I wonder somtimes if that could be part of it.This is his 3d time over seas and I feel like we've lost about 4 yrs. of our marriage.I just don't know and thats just not a conversation i'm going to talk to him over the phone you know.Don't want to give him more things to worry about.I'm not leaving him I just want to know why other men have been turning me on the last 2 yrs.I'd never cheat.Just don't know how to stop feeling this way.and he has been home within the last 2 yrs. Is it normal to feel like this? It feels so wrong!

I've been with my husband now for 12 yrs. I never want intamacy almost like he doesn't turn me on anymore. I can go with out being intamate I never want it, I've never really been sexually active. But it seems like the last 2 yrs. other guys have been turning me on, I don't act on it of corse, I love my husband but I can't figure out why I have thoughts of other men or if maybe I've just been with my husband so long I don't feel as close to him sometimes like it use to be.He's in Iraq now and I've wonderd if that could have something to do with it also. This is his 3d time over seas and I feel like we've lost about 4 yrs. of our marriage I just dont know and thats just not something to discuse over the phone while he's in Iraq, you know. So why do other men turn me on? I would never cheat on my husband. I really don't know how to stop feeling this way but I have felt this way for the past 2 yrs. So what advise can you give because its just wrong for me to think this way. I apriciate it

This guy few yrs.older than me,worked with him for a long time,became good friends,both confortable enough to talk about anything to eachother.I was sometimes giving him advice about his wife when things were looking down in his life.After a while he started picking at me,you know throw small objects at me Id throw them back Laughing,having fun killing time this kind of thing went on for months.We laughed alot.I thought about him alot and realized one morning that I had feelings for him I kept them to myself.The playing got worse,constant,and there was smiling staring then always doing something to get my attention it never stopped.Went on for months people were talking.He told me one day how he felt I told him how I felt.Said he thought about so many ways we could be together and it be rite.But he didnt wana be the one to hurt me my kids and husband and that he had to much bagage that I deservd much better than him WHY did he get me to fall for him then shoot me down? WHY bother?