Dani

i was with my bf for 3 years and have been broken up for 1 year now, although we have been seeing each other on and off, he doesnt seem to want to commit he says he has to sort his **** out .... but then when i start sayign stuff like i want to find some one that wants to be my bf he shows interest again. i still love him , but i have started seeing this guy to help me .... he is almost perfect does all the stuff my x doesnt... all the little things that count, we spend time together and have fun.... but after all the time has past i cant shake the feeling of my ex even after everything he hasout me through.... does any one have advise.... maybe i will grow to love this guy like i do my x?

i have just recently traveled over seas and am home sick. i have only been gone a couple weeks. i am staying with family that i only just met when i got here. they are very nice and the house i am staying in is great. they are helping me find a job and get my liscence here. the reason why i came here though was really runnung away. i was with my bf for 3 years. we have been through so many fights. i wont get into it though and he needs space!!! so i went over seas. i miss him so much. i feel upset all the time and i am ment to be exploring and having fun. i want to go home. but i dpnt know if it is such a good idea. i am just finding it very hard.

i ahve been with my bf for 3 years we have lived together for 1 year. we went through a reall rough patch over christmas. he cheated on me.but are starting to get back on track well atleast i thought. i have been able to tell he has been trying alot harder. comes home when he says and we actually do stuff together adn just over all is alot nicer to me. last weekend he went out. he gets really drunk every weekend and goes out. i do get worried he will cheat again. he always comes home. my friend told mem she saw him out dirty dancing with this girl pretty much putting his hands al over her. when i said something to him he said he wasnt dirty dancing and i can believe what i want. i believe my friend. she has no reason to make some thing up. i just feel like we were really getting some where. i really want to be with him. i want him to want to be with me. and not feelling up other girls, has any one else been in this situation. what did you do? i try and be so patient with him. i just find my self sitting at hime when he is not here on the verge of crying. it makes me sick thinking if him beiing with some one else

i am living with my ex. i know it will never work with him, but still have feelings. we share a bed..... but dont do any thing cept snuggle on cold nights. i am starting to feel depressed. when he is out all i can think about is him with other girls. i dont want him to moive out though. has any one lived with their ex and been happy about it?

my x and i have not been together for nearly a month. we lived together. his stuff is still here. i know that meand him will not work. as the trust is just not there when it comes to other people. he is seeing some oen else. i do love him but i think i am ok with it. he might be living in the spare room of my house. i really want us to stay friends. but i feel some times like it might hold me back. he doesnt seem to be holding back as he is seeing some one else already. any way is it possible to live with an ex.? has any one done it

some times i see mums with there kids. it really makes me want one. i am 23. i think i am ready to have a baby. i know i would love him or her. i guess i m just scared in the reltionship i am in now that it wont work out. i want to have a family with some one not have a broken one. i also have the other thoughts in my head like if i would be a good mum. i really think i would be. i am scared of having thebaby i am scared of pre natal deppression.(cant spell.) my kids will be planned. i use contraceptive pills. i wont be stupid and just have one if i m not sure.maybe the real question is if i m with the right guy. i have no idea, i am confused in every thing i want

i m looking to hear from people how they react to problems in their reltion ship. i have been fighting with my bf and the fights seem to get worse every time. the other night we were screaming at each other and i just felt so angry i kept pushing him like really hard. it was uncontrolable. it really was. he pushed me against the wall looking really angry. but then grabed me and gave me a hug. other times when we are fighting i want to walk away but i cant. i tell him to go but secretly i want him to stay and just hold me. its so paingul. some time i think if i just walk out and have space then we will have time to think but one of us msgs or rings each other. not to fight but because we miss each other., i really feel like i should be stronger and tougher but i cant. it is not healthy. it m beocming so stressed out i m starting to get sick and feeling tired all the time.does any one else have this kind of problem. i feel like i am stuck in this spot and i want to get out but i want to get out with him. is this possible.

i m having a bit of trouble trusting my bf. he cheated on me. we have been fighting for over a month but lately things are getting better. the other night he said to me dont worry look where i m, right with you. it is true he chooses to come home to me. and i can tell he is really trying. although when we were fighting there was one night i threatened to be with some one else just so he would know how it feels. i could really tell that hurt him. do u think he could really be genuiene in wanting this to work or just doesnt want me to be with any one else?

i m down loading music at the moment and i was wondering if any one had any favourite songs?

the movie julia and julia, on the sound track it plays a song its amazing so amazing , along those lines any way , but i cant find it . does any one know who sings it

my cat/ kitten is 6 months old. some people say i can feed him adult food and that it only sayson the packet 12 months so the companies can make more money. i want my cat t be healthy.

i know every one is goignt o say oh just leave him you can do better etc. but for the people that have been with some one for a long time and broken up you know it is hard to just turn off yours feelings and want to keep trying. try save what you have. my bf kissed another girl then he was the one starting to get distant always going to his friends. i was angry bout the kiss i forgave him cause after all it is just a kiss. i went through his phone which i know is bad but found msgs with him asking to stay at her house after a festival which is a day after my bday.saying he really wants to catch up. but she was sending him msgs sayong she loves him and he makes her feel safe. i ask him how he feels about her and he jsut says i dont know he wont even tell me how he feels about me because he says he doesnt know. he says he would choose me over her but he isnt doing any thing about it. i m scared if i give him a second chance he will think its ok. if i dont give him a second chance then maybe he will realise what he has lost. i dont know.does any one have a story to tell me and what they did. i do love him.

i m just wondering what every ones favourite dishes are, as i always seem to have the same things and there is no variety. every now and then i hear people say what they had for tea and always think oh that is something different. so any suggestions. i want a good meal.

i have been seeing my bf for 1 and a half ears. we have lived together for 5 months. living tigether has killed our relationship. yes he cheated on me just a kiss though and claims he still has feeling for this other girl but loves me. he is never around but when he is he gives me hugs and kisses. but just as i feel things are getting better something goes wrong. not even really that wrong like a little fight thatturns so big. there seems to be more bad times then good. how can i rekindle this relationship.

i live with my bf. it has only been 4 months and we are already fighting. he is ment to be paying me rent every week but because he doesnot have a job at the moment and just does odd jobs sometimes he hardly has any money. when he does get some money and i ask if he is going to put in to the bills he makes me feel bad. i do all the cleaning. have done his washing and got sick of it so stopped doing his and the other day he said why couldnt you do mine with yours and got annoyed at me for that. i said i am not your mum. how do u think you have had clean clothes for the last 4 months. he is never at home. i feel like he is using me but i dont think he realises it. he wont talk to me. every time i try to talk to him it starts a fight. he is such an angry person. i try and be patient. i am still hurt from him cheating on me. i just cant imagine being with some one else. relationships are so hard. i feel like he doesnt want to be around me like he is ashamed of me sometimes

i am not scared of being alone but i know that if me and my bf break up i will miss him so much. i know we are at the end of our relaionship but it hurts so much. some times i think that seeing other people will help. make me realise what is out there and i can be treated alot better but then that makes me feel bad for trying to move on. i just want to be happy. i m so confused.

omg this was one of the most scariestexperiences i have had. hard to put in words. almost likea panic attack.i had a hash cookie one night and didnt feel any thing before i went to bed. then my head started spinning. i lay there for a bit and my chest was starting to burn and so was my head. it felt like my heart was beating so fast that i was going to dye! i tried to get up and i couldnt walk straight.i woke my bf up and couldnt get out the words. i went to go say somethign but then forgot what i was saying. so i was blurring my words and couldnt get out what i wanted to say. my bf said you are just stoned but i have been stoned before and it was nothing like this!!!!! it was so scary. has any one else had any bad experiences from weed. i never thought that weed would do something like that?

my bf and i have been living together for 4 months. every thing was good until his friend came back into town that he use to see and he cheated on me. since then i have been the one trying to make the ralationship work. when i tell him i love him he says it back. but then when we fight nearly every 2nd day he has told me he still has feelings for her and doesnt know how he feels about me. but then says he doesnt want to break up. he is never at home alway at his friends. i see him at night before we go to sleep and that is pretty much it. he says he is confused.