emma

It feels like everyone is putting so much pressure on me to decide what I'm going to do later in life, but I have no idea!

I always wanted to work with animals, like a vet or vet nurse, but you have to be really smart for that and I don't think I would be able to do it. Now I want to be a primary school teacher but I've found out you have to do well in maths to do this, and I've only passed one maths test since I've been in highschool.

My brother is smart, almost finished his 4th year of uni, is topping all his classes and his professor has organized a well paying job for him once he's finished the year. And then there is me who has no idea what I'm going to do when I'm older. I feel so stupid and I don't want to disappoint my parents but I just know I will, and I'm scared I'm going no where in life.

At school I'm not stupid, I always get at least 70% in my tests apart from maths but I don't feel like anything at school is really going to help me in life.

Is it silly of me for being so stressed out about the future? Does anyone else have these thoughts? :(

My uncle was moving big blocks of wood and found a baby rabbit. He knows that I LOVE any type of animal so he got it and gave it to me to try and keep him alive (he should have left the bunny there but I didn't know he was going to catch him so there was nothing I could have done) he was old enough to be out by himself I think but I wanted to keep him until it warmed up a bit and untill he was a bit bigger because he just seemed too small to be out by himself. I kept the bunny with my two guinea pigs and they go along really well but I think he might have scratched his eye on something and it started getting weepy and had a lot of muck in it and he couldn't keep it open. Or he might have had myxomatosis but I don't think it was. I couldn't take him down to the vets to get antibiotics if it was a scratch because I don't have the money (I'm 15) plus he is considered a pest where I live. So I got my dad to 'get rid of him' because I didn't want him to suffer and I just feel horrible because I should have let him go before he got sick but I didn't want him to have a slow death out in the wild if it was myxomatosis. Did I do the right thing or should have I let him go? I know there's nothing I can do now but I would just like to know :(

My HTC One had been stuffing up a little (nothing major) and last night it was nearly out of charge so I went to put it on the charger and did whatever. So after about 30mins I went and got it and tried to unlock it with the pattern but I was saying I had the wrong one but I SWEAR it was right an I have NO IDEA why it kept saying wrong pattern!?!?

After a while it said I have to use my gmail username + password to get into it but I have no idea what it is and I can't even remember setting it up?? So in the end I'm locked out of my phone and I can't figure out how to get in or at least reset it!! I've tried the volume button held down with the power button and I thought it worked but I still can't unlock it (it says I need my gmail user and password still) I've had my phone since Christmas 2013 and I have sooo many photos of my horses and other pets,family, friends ect that I know I will loose a because I haven't backed it up to my laptop :(

at the very least can someone PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me how it reset it even if I loose my photos and all the other stuff I just want to be able to get back on my phone preferably without taking it into the Telstra store or anything but I will if it have to

Thanks in advance to anyone who helps out

My pop passed away today and I want to write a note/letter to put in his coffin when he is buried. I just don't know what to write. I want him to know that I love him and I miss him so so much but I don't know how to write it. I'm putting in some photos of me and my horses because he always loved hearing about how I was going on them and stuff but I can't figure out what to write. I just need some ideas on how to get started. Love you pop <3

I'm just curious to know what everyone's favourite breed of horse/pony is and why?

My top two breeds are:

welsh b ponies because I have one and he has the perfect mix of cuteness, kindness and attitude and he's like a big puppy dog and I think I can honestly say he is one of my best friends <3

And quarter horses because I have a qh mare (she's not broken in yet but will be getting broken in a few weeks) and she is so clumsy, big, calm, dopey (in a good way) and gentle and I love her so much <3

They are my top 2 and I can't choose between them haha, what are yours and why?? :)

Just wondering :)

I was just wondering what guys like about the look of girls most, like what hair colour, eye colour, body shape, what facial features they find most attractive?

Ps: don't take this too seriously I'm just wondering haha :)

Lately I have been crying so much and I'm not the happy person I usually am.

I think it's

because my best friend of almost 10 years has left me for the popular group at school an now we never talk and it has just been really hard going from being with each other every second of every day to only seeing each other when we walk past each other.

We where so close and we were basically sisters but she just changed her mind and wanted new friends. I have heaps if other friends that I'm close to but nothing like me and her where, and if it helps I'm nice to everyone at school and everyone is nice to me so in not getting bullied or anything.

It's just I haven't been happy at all lately and every night I have been crying and it's been 4 months since she left and I just miss her so much, I cry at night so much and can't get to sleep because I just over think things and u make it worse.

At school everyone thinks I'm happy but on the inside I'm really not. Me and her had so many good memories together and if something reminds me if her I'm in a bad mood for the rest of the day anything from seeing other people with her (which I know sounds like I'm really obsessive and jealous) to hearing songs that we used to sing along to together. One of the worse things is that whenever she has to come to my house (she has after school sports and she lives out of town so she has to come over) she acts like nothing has ever happened but all she talks about is her new friends and its really awkward for me.

So how can I get over the fact that she has changed? how can I stop crying about every little thing? Is there anything wrong with me or an I over reacting? And how can I get back to my old self?

I got a new horse about a month ago and her name is Claire but I want to change it. She's not even 2 years old yet and doesn't know her name yet so I'm guessing its ok to change it?

She is very very quiet and is just like a big puppy that follows you around the paddock and is quieter than my old horse!!

She is very big for her age and is chestnut with 1 white heel on her back leg and a 'C' shape on her forehead.

I mostly want just paddock name (no fancy long ones) that are short, flow well and fit her personality. Thankyou :)

And also I have a welsh b pony called melvin who I am growing out of (Claire is my next step up) im not really heavy I weigh almost 50kg and I'm 14 years old and melvin is about 13.2 hh and I'm wondering if I'm too heavy for him. I'm not very tall but I am deffinately starting to out grow him, it doesn't seem to bother him because he is still has a lot of energy (haha) he is 6 years old. And he is very fat and we don't feed him and I ride him quite often and he gets a sweat up but he isn't loosing any weight!! We also have a paddock where there isn't any grass and he gets locked up in there in an attempt to get him to loose weight but it's not working!!

Thankyou and sorry for all the questions haha :)

I have a pimple that is on my chin and its under the skin so I can't pop it. It's very sore and a bit red but other than that you can't see it but I still want it gone because it hurts. So is it possible to get rid of it over night?

Also I have a pimple that has already been popped and its not sore at all but I still have a red mark and dry flakey skin where it was can I get rid of it over night too or not?

And if its helpful I'm 14 year old female and I usually only get pimples once a month if you know what I mean... I use facial cleansers and moisturizer and it works well and I have also been using cream to help get the blind pimple away but it's not working because its under that skin. I have a party tomorrow and I just want them gone haha. Thank you :)

I have a pimple under my skin on my chin, you can't see it but it hurts really bad and it's a little red. Can I get rid of it overnight and if so how do I do it?

Also I have a pimple, it had a head so I popped it, and now it's just red and has a tiny scab (it's not sore at all) where the hole was. How can I get the dry flakey skin and redness away over night because I have a party tomorrow?

And if it helps I'm 14 female and I don't usually get many pimples usually only once a month if you know what I mean... And I use facial cleansers and moisturizer that works well. Thanks :)

I'm really scared of needles! They just freak me out and I know they don't hurt that much usually because I had to get heaps last year for school but I just get so scared of them! When I was 8 years old I cut my upper arm on a stick when I fell off a tree and it was pretty bad :/ if it was half a millimeter deeper I would of bled to death before I reached to hospital. So when I was in the hospital I had to get needles in the cut it numb it before I could get it cleaned out and it hurt so bad and I think that's why I am so scared of them. I really want to donate blood in a few years but I don't know of I could handle the needle!! I get really light headed and I almost start crying when I even think about it. So I'd like to know if there is anyway to get rid of my fear of needles?

Ok so jane* and i where best friends since kindergarten (I'm in year 8 now, so that's almost 9 years) and now she has moved to the popular group. My other friends and I are good friends with the popular's and they have always been talking about how Jane is annoying and that they don't really like her and we have tried to tell her this but she doesn't believe us. Now that Jane has moved groups she doesn't talk to me or any of her other friends that she has known for many years, and she acts really stuck up when she is with them and I miss the old Jane :( . It's not like I can just forget about her because we have had so many good memories together, we had our own wardrobe at each others houses because we stayed there so much. We have went on heaps of family holidays together and I really don't know how long I can live without her :( she was like a sister to me. So is there any way I can get her to come back to my group? Or do you think I should just let her get on with her life without me, even if I'm miserable without her?

So I'm 14 years old and weigh just almost 50kg and I want to lose weight before summer starts. All my friends have really good bodies and I just want to be skinny and look good for once. I especially want to lose wight around my tummy. So what are some quick easy excersises to help me lose weight really fast?

If I'm going to a party or something and make my self look as nice as possible, I think I look good when I look in the mirror but then if I take a photo of myself (because it think I would look good) I look absolutely horrible in a photo! So my question is why does this happen, dose it only happen to me or other people as well and if so, how do I make myself look better in photos?

I'm half way through year 8 and most of the other girls wear makeup. I have clear skin but every now and then I get a pimple but there not bad, so I was just wondering if I should wear makeup or something because I feel a bit left out when all my friends wear it. I don't really feel like I need it that much but I want to try it. Also if I should wear makeup, what should I use?

All my friends are so pretty and thin and im always the ugly friend, and when I'm with them it makes me feel really bad about myself. They always tell me that I'm pretty and so do other people but I find it really hard to believe them. My best friend is especially beautiful and most people think she's the prettiest girl at school and it makes me feel really bad when I'm with her and people always compliment her on how gorgeous she is and I just stand there awkwardly so i dont really go out as much as i used to with her. How can I make myself feel prettier when I'm with my friends?

So I have a cat who is about one year old and she was about 2 weeks old when we got her (I found her in a drain so i saved her) and I hand raised her and i have never ever done anything to hurt or annoy her but she absolutely HATES me!! When ever I walk near her she hisses at me and runs away and if she actually lets me pick her up and pat her, after about 30 seconds she hisses and tries to scratch me face off! The only time she sort of likes me is when I feed her, why does she hate me so much & how can I get her to like me more?

I have a little welsh B gelding called Melvin who is about 13 hh high and 5 years old. I've just about out grown him and I have another horse that's getting broken in at the end of the year. We are going to have to sell him eventually because we don't have enough room to keep them both. I really love him, he's the sweetest pony, and he has taught me so much and even when my parents talk about selling him in a year or two I get really upset and usually start crying. Is there anyway to not be so scared/sad about selling him?