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I personally do not think so having been a rodeo girl for six years. Some rodeos are cruel as in they will get the broncs or bulls to buck at any costs. I barrel race and I have ridden bareback broncs. My horse LOVES to work and he enjoys barrels. I personally do not associate with the cruel rodeos, no matter how big the pot is. The ones I do have bulls and broncs that buck during the show without help and when they are done, they are the sweetest little critters ever. To them, they are actors putting on a show and getting rewarded for it. So, why say that they are all bad?

Brentley Khole(Cole) Stafford for a boy and Leona Lynne Stafford for a girl? I may be pregnant and my fiance and I have been in love with these names for ever :) I just wanted some honest opinions (:

Ok, so my fiance and I are trying to have a baby. I have been extremely nauseous and vomiting and for some reason, having dizzy spells. I took a home test and it came up negative. Could it be that it was just too early to show up or what could possibly going on with me? I know y'all see stuff like this all the time but I get nervous bc i have had a miscarriage two years ago and i don't ever want to go through that again. Please, do not be rude or mean. Thank you to all who answer me!

I swear I am not trolling! His gf and I are friends, they broke up once before and she and I started talking and we became good friends. They both live in Mississippi and I live in Louisiana. She called me just a few minutes ago and she said that they both want to come stay with me and my fiance for Christmas...My fiance HATES my ex for what he did to me. But, I forgave him a long time ago. How am I supposed to handle them coming down? It is going to be akward bc his gf doesn't know what happened and I know my fiance will bring it up. I never got an explanation as to why he did what he did and my fiance wants me to have complete closure. I am not going to lie, as much as I can't stand my ex, a part of me will always love him. He was my first love. But the love for my fiance is just out of this world. He is my everafter <3 anyways, what can I do to make this all less weird and akward...

Everytime I see my pregnant sister in law, I get jealous, hurt, mad, and excited for her. I was pregnant last year and had a miscarriage on September 15, 2012. I have never really gotten over it. Every day I realize how old she would be now and I try to imagine my life with her. No matter what I do, I can't stop doing that and it hurts me more and more. I want to be happy with my sister in law and be as close to her as we were before she got pregnant. But its hard to look at her belly and realize she gets to have what I only dream of. I am actually scared to try to have another baby in case the same thing happens. I won't be able to handle another miscarriage. But, how can I get over all this and be there for her?

PS I know my baby girl is still with me, even if I never got to see how beautiful she was or even got to hold her. She is my guardian angel and even though I miss her so very much, I know she is in a better place and God knew I wasn't ready for such a blessing, though I know not why, I will not question His decisions.

My chihuahua is overly aggressive to everyone else but myself, my family (mom, sister, nephews), and my fiance. My stepdad, brother, brother-in-law, and two year old nephew have been torturing him, stomping at him, cornering him, and just tormenting him. Before he lived with my mom and stepdad, he loved everyone and everything. Now, we are hoping to bring my stepson home soon and I can't have an aggressive dog. I have three options: Take him to the pound where I know he will be put down for being aggressive, giving him to my mom(if she will take him), or having my fiance putting him down. I can't just give him away because he will bite. I love this dog more than anything, he is my son. I just don't know what to do anymore. I want what is best for him and for my stepson...It's the toughest decision I have ever had to make. Please do NOT put me down for my options. I was wondering if there are any shelters that will try to help him overcome his aggressiveness around Livingston, Louisiana. I have tried everything from keeping him away from people, giving people treats to give him as they walk in (though most won't do it.), and a lot of other things. I have been crying for the past week because I don't want to have to give him up but I can't keep him....

Okay, so my now ex bestie decided to tell me a few months ago to find a new best friend and a new maid of honor. It was out of the blue and it hurt me. So, I did what she told me. I, then find out why she said it. Apparently she thought I had been planning my wedding without her, though I kept telling her that I haven't planned anything because I still have a year to stress over it. She doen't believe me. We have been best friends sine 2007. She has always been like the more "poor" person. Not about money but life in general. She always got sick and i literally had to walk around on eggshells around her. I know it seems like we didn't have too good of a friendship. She was the leader, I was the follower. She'd come up with a plan and I would follow through with it no matter how stupid it was. I have always been the good kid in my fmaily and she gave me that edge. But she was te greatest friend I ever had. She was always there for me and she always told me how she felt about my situations, even if I didn't like it. Like if I got grounded bc of something stupid I did, she would tell me to man up an quit being a baby. It's been a few months and I really miss her terribly. I still don't know if I want to be best friends with her again but I do want her in my life. She also said that I bragged about doing well in school. I have gotten a second chance to get my high school diploma and I am making good grades. I am proud of myself! Shouldn't I be able to brag? I want yalls honest opinions, no matter how harsh.

He is a male, 2 and a half years old. I have had him since day one and he has been around other people and children all the time. Before any of you say I didn't train him right, he has never bit nor growled at other people before I moved in with my fiance and couldn't bring him home just yet because we were living with his mom. He stayed at my mom's house and apparently my step dad and my brother tortured him. As soon as we got our own place, we brought him home. Well, my brother in law moved in and he had his 2 year old son every other weekend. Once, the 2 year old cornered my dog and he snapped at the little boy. He didn't make contact but he snapped. He had never done that before. Then, my other brother in law and my sister in law will come over and he just growls and snaps at them. Should I get him fixed? Would that make him more calm towards others? I am in desperate need. I have people in my new family threatening to kill him and I will NOT let that happen!

Ok, so my fiance and I are going to court for his son with another woman. I do not like talking bad about the mother but honestly...it's pretty hard. I will state the facts that I have seen first hand. She has three sons by three different fathers. She is constantly moving from one place to another. Every where she lives at is filthy. Roaches, rats, dirty clothes and trash EVERYWHERE! She is currently dating a guy with five other kids. She doesn't work, she used to beat my fiance when they were together. She even wore a camo tank top that was two sizes too small and ripped up jeans to a court date! Her two oldest boys, 6 and 4, are still wearing diapers, drinking out of bottles, and have no discipline what so ever. Her own attorney is trying to help us out! He told us in confidence that she is not a good mother but that it would still be hard to get Eli, my stepson, away from her. We don't want to take him away. We actually still want her in his life. We just want to let him have a really great and successful life. We have our own place and thanks to my OCD it stays clean. I mean we do have a few little mice running around but we are tkaing care of that humanely as possible. He has a very steady job as a scaffold builder, making good money, and he wants me to be a stay at home wife, which probably won't last long right now because I get so bored at home all day by myself. But what are the odds of us getting more custody of Eli than his mama, or atleast joint custody (50/50)? Plus my fiance's mama and daddy are going for grandparents rights.

I am sorry to bother yall but I really need to lift my fiance's spirits up. Eli is a year old and we still haven't seen him. We know that means the child support is going to be outrageous because we have to pay it all back since the day he was born. My fiance is so depressed and it kills me. Anytime anyone mentions Eli he starts crying. I can NOT handle him crying! It breaks my heart and I have to be the strong one. Any advice is greatly appreciated and I truly thank you, from the bottom of my heart!

I want it to be made from scratch because it will be the first dinner we cook in our house as husband and wife. It is for, not this Saturday but the next, so that I can get everything I need. We both LOVE mexican and chinese but I want to cook mexican because it fun to make. It really needs to be healthy so that I can lose just a few more pounds, though he swears I don't need to lose anything...men... if yall could, please list the ingredients I need and the directions with it. I am on a school computer and it really doesn't let me on many sites.. Thank you to all in advance :) *10 more days until I am Mrs. Todd Stafford*

It's for my stepson, for when we get to see him. I already have a chihuahua and two blue heelers. We want something he can play with but isn't too fragile that he can accidentally kill, as well as it needs to be in a cage. We were thinking about a turtle, a rat, a snake (a little grass snake or a king snake), or a bull frog(I am deff not up for that one!). I don't mind any of them but the frog, I hate frogs. Do y'all have any suggestions :) Please and thank you (:

My fiance came home after work yesterday, he told me that he wanted to spend time with me this weekend. Well, last night, after him begging me, we went to my sister in laws house so that we can spend a little time together. The whole time we were there, he played zombies. Then he went to shoot his gun for about an hour. Then he went to his brother in laws best friends house to find a hog. He stayed there for about 4 hours. When they all got back, my sister in law and I were asleep. He woke me up to go home. Today, he said he really really wanted to spend time with me....but he just left with his brother in law...again. And he keeps pushing me off on my sister in law, whom I love very much! It's just that since she got pregnant she has become very bossy. But, anyways, I feel selfish for wanting to take him away from his family for just a day! Even when we plan date nights, his own brother who lives with us, has to go! We never have alone time, EVER! So, why do I feel guilty?

I have only had one shot, in August. I am due for another on November 6, but I am not going. My fiance and I are going to try to have a baby. All day today, though, my boobs have been hurting, but not my whole boob, just around the nipple. I have never had soreness in my boobs before when I was to start my period, I don't even know when I am going to have my period now. Even though we haven't been trying so far, could this be a sign that I am pregnant? I mean even my nipples are a darker color. When I told my fiance, he just looked at me with this excitement in his eyes. He is ready to have another child. (I don't have any kids, he has a son that we are going through court for. Just so everyone is up to date.) I am pretty naive about all this even I was pregnant once before but I was only a month and I lost it. Do NOT be mean! I am just curious if our dreams are coming true. :) Thank you in advance for your answers and God Bless you <3

Like specific foods. I know all the fruits and vegetables, and I know only white meats. But what else can I eat so that I can be healthy as well as my baby (When I conceive). Looks like we are going to start trying tonight so I need to know what to make for dinner :)

I am on the Depo shot. November 6 is my next appointment to get my second one but I am cancelling it. Since I have only had one shot, what are the odds of me getting pregnant sooner? I mean my mom was on the shot for 3 years and had my brother 6 months later. Both sides of our family are very fertile. And also, what are the odds of me having another miscarriage?

We are getting married in 17 days and we both really want a baby. Now that my brother in law is moving out, we can actually afford more things. We are renting a 2 bedroom, 2 bath trailer, so we have room. But, we are going through court for my stepson, Eli. Would me getting pregnant hurt us in any way in court? I have been having bab fever for quite a few months now, and my fiance and I have talked about it often. He is really excited at the thought of me becoming pregnant. His sister is pregnant, though, and every keeps telling us to wait. I don't want anyone mad at me but I want to do the right thing. I am more worried about how it would affect the situation with trying to get my stepson. Can yall please help me?????

My name is uncommon and I want my daughter to have a unique name as well. But, it has to incorporate Lillian/Lily, Inita, Denise, or Amber. As well as go with our last name, Stafford. I never realized how hard it is to come up with names! :) Every suggestion will be tossed around in my head, and they will be greatly appreciated! Thank you in advance <3

My soon to be brother in law, moved in with my fiance and I around 2 months ago. The aggreement was that he pay half of everything. He has no job. He sits around all day, eating and watching movies. He does nothing else. He will make a mess cooking and will not clean it up. He will leave his used dishes everywhere around my house. His room is filthy (his 2 year old son comes and stay with us every other week) and he won't clean it. He has the guest bathroom and doesn't clean it. He has only one arm but I have seen him do things that two armed people have problems with. He refuses to sign his SSI papers to help him out. I told my fiance I wanted his brother out of my house by November 15. That is when we are getting married. He has been babied his entire life, he is 23 years old. My fiance pities him and doesn't see what he doesn't do. Even when he gets money it goes straight to beer. Not to his son, not to help us out. Am I wrong for wanting him out of my house, my fiance thinks I am a rude ***** but I think I am in the right. I am going crazy, please help!

My chihuahua is two years old and he is both scared and aggressive to just about everyone else besides me. He isn't fixed. My step dad and my brother used to aggrivate him all the time until I finally got my own place and could bring him here. Now he snaps at children when he is cornered and tries to attack anyone who comes in my house. I can't get rid of him because I don't even want to imagine what he would do to someone else. If I got him fixed, would he be nicer or is it all psycholigical? I don't want to have to put him down, but I am going through court for my stepson and if he ever attack him, i will put him down with a bullet and a gun. That's all I can do. So please help me out because I raised him since he was born. He is my son. I love him with all my heart but I can't have him biting people.

My daddy wasn't really in my life until I turned 16, but that was for certain reasons that I don't want to get into. It was a bad time in his life and my mom didn't want me to be around him. But for 3 years, he has always been there for me although he lives in Mississippi and I don't get to see him hardly. But he does a lot of things I am not proud of and my mom has threatened to have the police at my wedding if he is there. Then there is my step dad who raised me kind of but I never really got along with him. Though, ever since I moved out, we've had a better relationship. I forgave him for how he treated me when i was younger and i mean he is still annoying but he is trying now. And last is my dear sweet Papaw. He is the one constant in my life and the one person I am terrified of letting down. He's the one the whole family looks up to. He is so important to me! But whoever I chose, someone (Either my daddy or my stepdad) is going to be mad and hurt. And i cant hurt the 3 most important men in my life. I mean my step dad is trying so hard to make up for everything and I know he really wants to walk me down the aisle, I'm my daddy's oldest daughter and I know it would mean the world to him, and I know my Papaw would be tickled pink if i asked him to. And Im usually the one who doesn't care what anyone thinks, I do things my own way. But this is the only thing that has me stumped. I want to do the right thing but IDK what that is right now. Can yall please help?