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All the ones I've seen have really tiny loops. I need some big enough for the tshirt fabric strips to fit through. Is it something that's sold seperately?

A few weeks ago I colored my hair for the very first time. I went from black to like a medium dark brown. I would like for it to be a lighter brown now. Do I have to bleach it, then put the color I want over it? Or do I just use hair color remover and try coloring it again? (Btw, I used the Revlon hair dolor.)

No matter if its a grocery store supervisor or a political dictator, these people always tend to be hostile and unreasonable. Why is that? I've mulled this over time and time again and I still cannot come up with a possible answer. Maybe some of you brainiacs can help me out with this one, lol.

Not only cries, but SOBS.

Every now and again i keep having these dreams in which one one of my shoes are taller than the other & im limping around trying to make them even. Like, they'll keep going back & forth from being even to being uneven again.

Then the other day, i dreamt that i was shopping in some raggedy beauty supply store & i was wearing some big, thick, dark, dusty looking overcoat thing. In the dream i kept walking in and out of the store, but when i was outside the store, i was wearing nothing but a big white t-shirt & my underwear. The ground was sloped & when i tried to walk i kept leaning forward about to fall & i had to grab onto some of those short pole-looking things that you see in parking lots sometimes. So, in order to try to avoid this, i just sat on the ground & slid down the sloped parking lot & it felt very smooth, yet there was nothing underneath my bottom helping me slide.

So, yeah, what do you think this all means?

A few weeks ago my boyfriend dumps me out of the clear blue & every time i try to get an explanation out of him he just tells me thesame thing- "I just want to see other people & there's no reason why." The reason im so hurt is because how can you tell a person every single day that you love them so much, then literally out of the clear blue you tell them that you dont want to be in a relationship anymore and that you fell out of love way back in January. The night he dumped me he said it's because he's not ready to settle down, but then a couple days ago he's talking on facebook about how he wants a family, which is the same thing he said to me when we were together. He also said he doesn't want a relationship, then last night he told me he's been talking to other girls & is considering being in one but not any time soon.

Maybe somebody can help me make sense of all this because i just dont get it. He claims it's nothing that i did or said. i just dont understand how a person can just throw you away like that after 3 years. I know our relationship was far from perfect but that never changed the way i felt about him. Every time i try talking to him to make sense of this whole thing he just gets pissed off. I think i at least deserve an explanation after all the emotional pure hell i've been through the past few weeks, but he wont even give me that. I think about him all the time, even though i dont want to, and i cry a lot about it. I'm sick of having to suffer like this and i just DO NOT KNOW how to get past this. My biggest fear is that i will never truly get over him and this situation & it will affect any future relationship i have & that he will have moved on while im still suffering. Well actually, he's already started to move on while my suffering is just beginning. I know it may seem silly since it's been 3 years & that's nothing compared to a lot of people, but i really loved him(still do) & i was convinced we would spend our lives together.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

I had this dream a while back when my boyfriend & i were still dating. We broke up about a week ago, now i'm starting to think the dream was a warning.

So, in the dream: It was nighttime & he and i were walking through what appeared to be a junkyard, holding hands. Then he decided to lay down on the ground in what appeared to be a very shallow ditch, & he was smiling & trying to convince me to lay down with him. There was this skeleton laying next to him that appeared to be alive because it had hair & blue eyes. That's about all i remember, but when i woke up i was really creeped out, and ever since then, i've been suspicious that it might mean something, especially now that he dumped me.

Whenever I have sex for like 20 minutes or longer I start to have this cramped feeling in my butt like I'm about to poop out a melon or like I have gas or something, but in actuality I don't have to poop at all. (by the way, not reffering to anal sex, just in case it sounds that way). The feeling always goes away within a few minutes. Just wondering if anyone knows what this is.

I'm trying to find out what it's called and who sells it, or even just something that's similar to it that I can use.

It's just a cotton knit tee- don't know if the type of fabric makes a difference, just thought i'd throw that in just in case.

The cartlage on the part of my ear that connects to my face near the entrance of my earhole hurts a little when I touch it & feels a little stiff. It just started today & it's only in one ear.

I heard something about a colorless or neutral face powder that can be used instead of regular foundation. I don't want to wear makeup but I want to use something that will help my oily skin without making my face look pale or clog my pores. Is there such a thing as this or am I just out of luck?

I have what feels like a tiny little bump on my vagina near my pantyline. I know it's not from sex because it's been there ever since years before I even started having sex. But when I look at it in the mirror, I see absolutely nothing, but I can still feel it whenever I touch that area. What is this and is it something I should be worried about?

Okay, so I've had a few relationships that started off pretty good, but the guys ended up being totally jerky. I know that I could easily get a boyfriend, but the problem is the type of guys who try to hit on me are just scrubs. They're usually dirty old men or horny teenage boys who mistake me for someone their age. I know it's not me because I respect myself & I don't dress like a slut or anything. It's so annoying because I just want to date someone who has some sense & can relate to something other than just how I look. I'm scared I won't be able to find someone because I don't really have a social life outside of work and school & I don't go to clubs or any of that crap. What do you suggest I do?

Last night at around 12-something in the morning my boyfriend got a text from a girl saying: Sorry I'm texting you so late, I was thinking about you. He was sleeping so I woke him up & asked him who it was & he was like- Oh, that's my homegirl (her name here). I asked him why would she be saying something like that, and on top of that at 12-something at night. He said he didn't know. Of course I asked him was anything going on between them & he said they're just friends. I kept pressing him about it & he started to get really upset & startted yelling at me saying "I'm not doing nothing with that *****, blah blah blah, telling me to go home if that's what I think. So I got his phone & called the girl's number back twice but nobody answered. When I was on the phone he snatched it away from me saying"Dont be sitting there calling my friends & just holding the phone, you're wasting my minutes!" I asked him why didn't he call her back & he said because he doesn't want to talk to her & that he's sleepy. I just want to know does it seem like he's guilty of something or did he just react that way because it was late & he was tired. I really can't tell because he pretty much reacts the same way to any argument we have about anything. So at that point I was convinced he was guilty of something & I told him I was leaving this morning & for good. The next morning came & I left & he didn't even try to stop me, but just started messing with his computer. What should I do?

Would it be wrong of me to spend more money on my boyfriend's gift? Here's the thing: All the things my boyfriend wants for Christmas are really expensive, so instead of buying an actual object, I'm thinking of getting him a gift card to this store in the mall he likes to shop at. They sell these really expensive headphones there that he's wanted for a while but was hesitant to spend that much money for them. So I was thinking I get a gift card for like 25 or 30 $$ so at least he won't have to pay the full amount. Now, my mom on the other hand, is kind of hard to shop for, so I always end up getting her gift cards for Christmas, but now that I found out that she likes those reed diffuser fragrances, I was gonna get her a really nice one for Christmas, but they cost a lot less than $30. I know it's the thought that counts, but I still feel kinda wierd spending less money on her. I just thought maybe she'd want something other than a gift card for once. What do you think?

It seems as if people are a lot more quick to excuse or forgive someone who cheats. Has it always been that way, or is it just me? I also notice how there are a lot of popular songs out not(names of artists or songs I won't say) about men who cheat on their girtlfriends and all they have to do is pretend to regret what they did & make a textbook apology & their girlfriends take them back with open arms. I just wanna know am I the only one who noticed, and is really annoyed, by this.