Blue

Hi :)

I have a bit of a problem with my sex life.

my girlfriend and I aren't having as much sex as we used to.

We've been together for 10 months and recently realized we're in love.

In the beginning we used to have amazing sex, but in the last 6 months it started dying.

I'm always instigating sex but she says "not now, later" and we have sex later (if neither one of us fall asleep) and its not as exciting, its quick and emotionless.

I feel suddenly so unattractive to her and have started loosing my confidence when dressing around her, or asking how I look.

she doesn't kiss me like she used to, or hold my hand, or show any passion. she just likes to cuddle while we sleep.

i want to talk to her about it but wanted to hear other opinions first.

(( and no she's not cheating on me. i'm certain))

about me:

21 of age. female. lesbian

Hi :)

I have a bit of a problem with my sex life.

my girlfriend and I aren't having as much sex as we used to.

We've been together for 10 months and recently realized we're in love.

In the beginning we used to have amazing sex, but in the last 6 months it started dying.

I'm always instigating sex but she says "not now, later" and we have sex later (if neither one of us fall asleep) and its not as exciting, its quick and emotionless.

I feel suddenly so unattractive to her and have started loosing my confidence when dressing around her, or asking how I look.

she doesn't kiss me like she used to, or hold my hand, or show any passion. she just likes to cuddle while we sleep.

i want to talk to her about it but wanted to hear other opinions first.

(( and no she's not cheating on me. i'm certain))

about me:

21 of age. female. lesbian

Hi :)

I have a bit of a problem with my sex life.

my girlfriend and I aren't having as much sex as we used to.

We've been together for 10 months and recently realized we're in love.

In the beginning we used to have amazing sex, but in the last 6 months it started dying.

I'm always instigating sex but she says "not now, later" and we have sex later (if neither one of us fall asleep) and its not as exciting, its quick and emotionless.

I feel suddenly so unattractive to her and have started loosing my confidence when dressing around her, or asking how I look.

she doesn't kiss me like she used to, or hold my hand, or show any passion. she just likes to cuddle while we sleep.

i want to talk to her about it but wanted to hear other opinions first.

(( and no she's not cheating on me. i'm certain))

about me:

21 of age. female. lesbian

*its long, im sorry, i just need to explain so you understand...

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months

our relationship is very tight cuz we consider eachother best friends and we already realise that we want to spend our lives together, we just have to get our lives settled before kids and marriage. we are still young aswell.

we do everything together and see eachother 6 or 5 days out of the week, so almost everyday.

he once told me that his life is much calmer now because he used to be always busy that he would only see his girlfriends every two weeks, or once a week.

with me its a whole lot different because we're always together, that's how it has always been since the beginning, and it was easier because we lived 10mins away. i moved 20mins away now but that still doesnt change how often we see eachother.

this week i hadnt seen him at all, and it wouldnt have bothered me but i was feeling a bit down and i needed him to just be there. i saw him on monday but i could hardly find him and when i did it was a 5 second thing because he had to leave quickly (transport stuff) he offered for me to come with and i said great, i just had to make a call to cancel what i was going to do. then all of a sudden he changes his mind and just says i should stay cuz he's going with his friend. i felt hurt for suddenly being pushed aside for someone else who has never mattered to him before.

the next day i try calling, messaging, emailing, but he doesn't reply to anything. wen i finally get a reply i could see that he didnt care at all. so i got mad and asked him why he's not there wen i need him, we had an argument.

the next day we sort of made up and i suggest we study together, he tells me his days plans and puts me in his schedule between 11am-1pm....to study??? hw does that make sense. i told him that i dont appreciate being stuffed into his busy schedule..he could have just said no.

the next day we were cool again, had small message conversations all day, it was fine. then i suggested we study together again for the last day before the exam. he says he cant because his friend is coming over to study. that there made me MAD! i yelled at him saying that he's dusting me off all the time and its not fair because i didnt do anything. he said i was being selfish and why was i stopping him from having a life! he then apologized and said i could join too and i made it clear to him that i am his girlfriend (almost life partner) and that i shouldnt have to be invited out of pitty!

i have never stopped him from having a life! eventhough we saw eachother everyday, it was never for soooo long unless he had nothing planned that day. i always understand wen he says he is busy or has plans but i dont like being pushed to the side and ignored all of a sudden, but he still calls and treats me like his girlfriend that he loves.

he's not a cheater and he's not cheating so dont say responses like that (i would 100% know)

just tell me if im being selfish or not. being too attached? wat is going on with him?...im so confused.

*its long, im sorry, i just need to explain so you understand...

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months

our relationship is very tight cuz we consider eachother best friends and we already realise that we want to spend our lives together, we just have to get our lives settled before kids and marriage. we are still young aswell.

we do everything together and see eachother 6 or 5 days out of the week, so almost everyday.

he once told me that his life is much calmer now because he used to be always busy that he would only see his girlfriends every two weeks, or once a week.

with me its a whole lot different because we're always together, that's how it has always been since the beginning, and it was easier because we lived 10mins away. i moved 20mins away now but that still doesnt change how often we see eachother.

this week i hadnt seen him at all, and it wouldnt have bothered me but i was feeling a bit down and i needed him to just be there. i saw him on monday but i could hardly find him and when i did it was a 5 second thing because he had to leave quickly (transport stuff) he offered for me to come with and i said great, i just had to make a call to cancel what i was going to do. then all of a sudden he changes his mind and just says i should stay cuz he's going with his friend. i felt hurt for suddenly being pushed aside for someone else who has never mattered to him before.

the next day i try calling, messaging, emailing, but he doesn't reply to anything. wen i finally get a reply i could see that he didnt care at all. so i got mad and asked him why he's not there wen i need him, we had an argument.

the next day we sort of made up and i suggest we study together, he tells me his days plans and puts me in his schedule between 11am-1pm....to study??? hw does that make sense. i told him that i dont appreciate being stuffed into his busy schedule..he could have just said no.

the next day we were cool again, had small message conversations all day, it was fine. then i suggested we study together again for the last day before the exam. he says he cant because his friend is coming over to study. that there made me MAD! i yelled at him saying that he's dusting me off all the time and its not fair because i didnt do anything. he said i was being selfish and why was i stopping him from having a life! he then apologized and said i could join too and i made it clear to him that i am his girlfriend (almost life partner) and that i shouldnt have to be invited out of pitty!

i have never stopped him from having a life! eventhough we saw eachother everyday, it was never for soooo long unless he had nothing planned that day. i always understand wen he says he is busy or has plans but i dont like being pushed to the side and ignored all of a sudden, but he still calls and treats me like his girlfriend that he loves.

he's not a cheater and he's not cheating so dont say responses like that (i would 100% know)

just tell me if im being selfish or not. being too attached? wat is going on with him?...im so confused.

*its long, im sorry, i just need to explain so you understand...

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months

our relationship is very tight cuz we consider eachother best friends and we already realise that we want to spend our lives together, we just have to get our lives settled before kids and marriage. we are still young aswell.

we do everything together and see eachother 6 or 5 days out of the week, so almost everyday.

he once told me that his life is much calmer now because he used to be always busy that he would only see his girlfriends every two weeks, or once a week.

with me its a whole lot different because we're always together, that's how it has always been since the beginning, and it was easier because we lived 10mins away. i moved 20mins away now but that still doesnt change how often we see eachother.

this week i hadnt seen him at all, and it wouldnt have bothered me but i was feeling a bit down and i needed him to just be there. i saw him on monday but i could hardly find him and when i did it was a 5 second thing because he had to leave quickly (transport stuff) he offered for me to come with and i said great, i just had to make a call to cancel what i was going to do. then all of a sudden he changes his mind and just says i should stay cuz he's going with his friend. i felt hurt for suddenly being pushed aside for someone else who has never mattered to him before.

the next day i try calling, messaging, emailing, but he doesn't reply to anything. wen i finally get a reply i could see that he didnt care at all. so i got mad and asked him why he's not there wen i need him, we had an argument.

the next day we sort of made up and i suggest we study together, he tells me his days plans and puts me in his schedule between 11am-1pm....to study??? hw does that make sense. i told him that i dont appreciate being stuffed into his busy schedule..he could have just said no.

the next day we were cool again, had small message conversations all day, it was fine. then i suggested we study together again for the last day before the exam. he says he cant because his friend is coming over to study. that there made me MAD! i yelled at him saying that he's dusting me off all the time and its not fair because i didnt do anything. he said i was being selfish and why was i stopping him from having a life! he then apologized and said i could join too and i made it clear to him that i am his girlfriend (almost life partner) and that i shouldnt have to be invited out of pitty!

i have never stopped him from having a life! eventhough we saw eachother everyday, it was never for soooo long unless he had nothing planned that day. i always understand wen he says he is busy or has plans but i dont like being pushed to the side and ignored all of a sudden, but he still calls and treats me like his girlfriend that he loves.

he's not a cheater and he's not cheating so dont say responses like that (i would 100% know)

just tell me if im being selfish or not. being too attached? wat is going on with him?...im so confused.

*its long, im sorry, i just need to explain so you understand...

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months

our relationship is very tight cuz we consider eachother best friends and we already realise that we want to spend our lives together, we just have to get our lives settled before kids and marriage. we are still young aswell.

we do everything together and see eachother 6 or 5 days out of the week, so almost everyday.

he once told me that his life is much calmer now because he used to be always busy that he would only see his girlfriends every two weeks, or once a week.

with me its a whole lot different because we're always together, that's how it has always been since the beginning, and it was easier because we lived 10mins away. i moved 20mins away now but that still doesnt change how often we see eachother.

this week i hadnt seen him at all, and it wouldnt have bothered me but i was feeling a bit down and i needed him to just be there. i saw him on monday but i could hardly find him and when i did it was a 5 second thing because he had to leave quickly (transport stuff) he offered for me to come with and i said great, i just had to make a call to cancel what i was going to do. then all of a sudden he changes his mind and just says i should stay cuz he's going with his friend. i felt hurt for suddenly being pushed aside for someone else who has never mattered to him before.

the next day i try calling, messaging, emailing, but he doesn't reply to anything. wen i finally get a reply i could see that he didnt care at all. so i got mad and asked him why he's not there wen i need him, we had an argument.

the next day we sort of made up and i suggest we study together, he tells me his days plans and puts me in his schedule between 11am-1pm....to study??? hw does that make sense. i told him that i dont appreciate being stuffed into his busy schedule..he could have just said no.

the next day we were cool again, had small message conversations all day, it was fine. then i suggested we study together again for the last day before the exam. he says he cant because his friend is coming over to study. that there made me MAD! i yelled at him saying that he's dusting me off all the time and its not fair because i didnt do anything. he said i was being selfish and why was i stopping him from having a life! he then apologized and said i could join too and i made it clear to him that i am his girlfriend (almost life partner) and that i shouldnt have to be invited out of pitty!

i have never stopped him from having a life! eventhough we saw eachother everyday, it was never for soooo long unless he had nothing planned that day. i always understand wen he says he is busy or has plans but i dont like being pushed to the side and ignored all of a sudden, but he still calls and treats me like his girlfriend that he loves.

he's not a cheater and he's not cheating so dont say responses like that (i would 100% know)

just tell me if im being selfish or not. being too attached? wat is going on with him?...im so confused.

*its long, im sorry, i just need to explain so you understand...

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months

our relationship is very tight cuz we consider eachother best friends and we already realise that we want to spend our lives together, we just have to get our lives settled before kids and marriage. we are still young aswell.

we do everything together and see eachother 6 or 5 days out of the week, so almost everyday.

he once told me that his life is much calmer now because he used to be always busy that he would only see his girlfriends every two weeks, or once a week.

with me its a whole lot different because we're always together, that's how it has always been since the beginning, and it was easier because we lived 10mins away. i moved 20mins away now but that still doesnt change how often we see eachother.

this week i hadnt seen him at all, and it wouldnt have bothered me but i was feeling a bit down and i needed him to just be there. i saw him on monday but i could hardly find him and when i did it was a 5 second thing because he had to leave quickly (transport stuff) he offered for me to come with and i said great, i just had to make a call to cancel what i was going to do. then all of a sudden he changes his mind and just says i should stay cuz he's going with his friend. i felt hurt for suddenly being pushed aside for someone else who has never mattered to him before.

the next day i try calling, messaging, emailing, but he doesn't reply to anything. wen i finally get a reply i could see that he didnt care at all. so i got mad and asked him why he's not there wen i need him, we had an argument.

the next day we sort of made up and i suggest we study together, he tells me his days plans and puts me in his schedule between 11am-1pm....to study??? hw does that make sense. i told him that i dont appreciate being stuffed into his busy schedule..he could have just said no.

the next day we were cool again, had small message conversations all day, it was fine. then i suggested we study together again for the last day before the exam. he says he cant because his friend is coming over to study. that there made me MAD! i yelled at him saying that he's dusting me off all the time and its not fair because i didnt do anything. he said i was being selfish and why was i stopping him from having a life! he then apologized and said i could join too and i made it clear to him that i am his girlfriend (almost life partner) and that i shouldnt have to be invited out of pitty!

i have never stopped him from having a life! eventhough we saw eachother everyday, it was never for soooo long unless he had nothing planned that day. i always understand wen he says he is busy or has plans but i dont like being pushed to the side and ignored all of a sudden, but he still calls and treats me like his girlfriend that he loves.

he's not a cheater and he's not cheating so dont say responses like that (i would 100% know)

just tell me if im being selfish or not. being too attached? wat is going on with him?...im so confused.

this is wat my boyfriend said:

"itz on the 30th and u dnt knw her but I waz in the same skool az her in grade 7-10, i dated her older sis.....y else wuld she want me az her date?....coz sh doznt have a date...i think. Besides our prom is 2 days b4 that"

We'r going to our prom on the 28th and he wants to go with his friend on the 30th....should i let him?

i told him that im not saying no or yes, but she should ask around first until he becomes the last choice nd she should call me to ask though.

wat should i do?

this is wat my boyfriend said:

"itz on the 30th and u dnt knw her but I waz in the same skool az her in grade 7-10, i dated her older sis.....y else wuld she want me az her date?....coz sh doznt have a date...i think. Besides our prom is 2 days b4 that"

We'r going to our prom on the 28th and he wants to go with his friend on the 30th....should i let him?

i told him that im not saying no or yes, but she should ask around first until he becomes the last choice nd she should call me to ask though.

wat should i do?

my boyfriend just told me that he gives a little peck kiss on the lips to two of his female friends when they say hello or goodbye (they have been friends for 9 years). my boyfriend is 19 and one girl is 15 and the other is 18. they are close and i understand that, but should i allow him to giv a little kiss to them ever? isn't that cheating?

i've made it clear to him that i dont like it..am i being unreasonable? he even told me that i cant come into his life and change a habit that's been happening for years and means nothing. i understood..but i dont like it.

what should i do? helppppp

I want to know how i can get better from a flu (cold) if i'm at home.

Its winter at the moment so its very cold outside.

I don't want to use medication that doctors recommend, i want to get better naturally.

So far i'm drinking tea with lemon and trying to keep warm.

Please help :(

I want to know how i can get better from a flu (cold) if i'm at home.

Its winter at the moment so its very cold outside.

I don't want to use medication that doctors recommend, i want to get better naturally.

So far i'm drinking tea with lemon and trying to keep warm.

Please help :(

I want to know how i can get better from a flu (cold) if i'm at home.

Its winter at the moment so its very cold outside.

I don't want to use medication that doctors recommend, i want to get better naturally.

So far i'm drinking tea with lemon and trying to keep warm.

Please help :(

i'm feeling so much pain

i hurt my bf twice and i was drunk both times.

first time: we went out for drinks with his cousin and later on that night, i kissed his cousin ( i don't remember this at all)

the second time: we were at a party and i kissed a girl, she's both our friend. ( we both did it out of curiosity)

i decided to stop drinking. its clear that i cant handle it.

he broke up with me the first time then we got back together, he broke up with me the second time and we got back together. after we got back together the second time we had a huge fight over the phone about how i broke his heart more than once and how he cant trust me. he told me things and damned me to hell.

i was so heartbroken. the pain was too much. it hurt me so much because i hurt him and he does not deserve it, and i lost him. i was alone in my apartment drowning in the pain, then i decided i'v had too much and attempted suicide. unfortunately i survived because the next time i woke up i was in an emergency room with tubes stuck into me and stuff. i recovered after 2 days. i told my family to tell him what happened. he came to see me. by the time he came i had already had the lectures from nurses and doctors and my family to never do something like that again. i promised i wouldnt and i came to terms that im not with him anymore, i decided to start being single and happy. so anyway.. he came to see me and saw that i was smiling and was ok. he told me the same thing every one did and told me he's sorry. during our conversation he said i was his girlfriend again and we kissed. everything was good again. i ddnt wake up as the same person, i had a new perspective to start accepting things in a positive way and to love him the way he deserved.

a week passed and we were ok. today he told me that he cant stop thinking about how i might hurt him in the future. i understood where he came from because of what i did before. we talked and now we're not together. he broke up with me in a calm way because he obviously didnt want me to react badly again.

i dont know what to do with myself. i feel so heartbroken, and im trying to act like im ok with my family around me. I've had thoughts of ending my life again because i really don't see a point in it. apart from him, I've always felt heartache... for no reason.. or for tiny things. there's a constant pain in my heart. i cant remember the last time i was actually happy. i pray for the pain to go away. i pray so that i don't love him anymore. i pray so that he heals from the pain I've caused him. but i cant leave everything to higher power.

what do i do? im tired of hurting. im tired of always thinking about him and nothing else!!! im tired of feeling like im on the edge of depression, as if im about to fall in and not find a way out.

i'm feeling so much pain

i hurt my bf twice and i was drunk both times.

first time: we went out for drinks with his cousin and later on that night, i kissed his cousin ( i don't remember this at all)

the second time: we were at a party and i kissed a girl, she's both our friend. ( we both did it out of curiosity)

i decided to stop drinking. its clear that i cant handle it.

he broke up with me the first time then we got back together, he broke up with me the second time and we got back together. after we got back together the second time we had a huge fight over the phone about how i broke his heart more than once and how he cant trust me. he told me things and damned me to hell.

i was so heartbroken. the pain was too much. it hurt me so much because i hurt him and he does not deserve it, and i lost him. i was alone in my apartment drowning in the pain, then i decided i'v had too much and attempted suicide. unfortunately i survived because the next time i woke up i was in an emergency room with tubes stuck into me and stuff. i recovered after 2 days. i told my family to tell him what happened. he came to see me. by the time he came i had already had the lectures from nurses and doctors and my family to never do something like that again. i promised i wouldnt and i came to terms that im not with him anymore, i decided to start being single and happy. so anyway.. he came to see me and saw that i was smiling and was ok. he told me the same thing every one did and told me he's sorry. during our conversation he said i was his girlfriend again and we kissed. everything was good again. i ddnt wake up as the same person, i had a new perspective to start accepting things in a positive way and to love him the way he deserved.

a week passed and we were ok. today he told me that he cant stop thinking about how i might hurt him in the future. i understood where he came from because of what i did before. we talked and now we're not together. he broke up with me in a calm way because he obviously didnt want me to react badly again.

i dont know what to do with myself. i feel so heartbroken, and im trying to act like im ok with my family around me. I've had thoughts of ending my life again because i really don't see a point in it. apart from him, I've always felt heartache... for no reason.. or for tiny things. there's a constant pain in my heart. i cant remember the last time i was actually happy. i pray for the pain to go away. i pray so that i don't love him anymore. i pray so that he heals from the pain I've caused him. but i cant leave everything to higher power.

what do i do? im tired of hurting. im tired of always thinking about him and nothing else!!! im tired of feeling like im on the edge of depression, as if im about to fall in and not find a way out.

i'm feeling so much pain

i hurt my bf twice and i was drunk both times.

first time: we went out for drinks with his cousin and later on that night, i kissed his cousin ( i don't remember this at all)

the second time: we were at a party and i kissed a girl, she's both our friend. ( we both did it out of curiosity)

i decided to stop drinking. its clear that i cant handle it.

he broke up with me the first time then we got back together, he broke up with me the second time and we got back together. after we got back together the second time we had a huge fight over the phone about how i broke his heart more than once and how he cant trust me. he told me things and damned me to hell.

i was so heartbroken. the pain was too much. it hurt me so much because i hurt him and he does not deserve it, and i lost him. i was alone in my apartment drowning in the pain, then i decided I've had too much and attempted suicide. unfortunately i survived because the next time i woke up i was in an emergency room with tubes stuck into me and stuff. i recovered after 2 days. i told my family to tell him what happened. he came to see me. by the time he came i had already had the lectures from nurses and doctors and my family to never do something like that again. i promised i wouldn't and i came to terms that im not with him anymore, i decided to start being single and happy. so anyway.. he came to see me and saw that i was smiling and was ok. he told me the same thing every one did and told me he's sorry. during our conversation he said i was his girlfriend again and we kissed. everything was good again. i didn't wake up as the same person, i had a new perspective to start accepting things in a positive way and to love him the way he deserved.

a week passed and we were ok. today he told me that he cant stop thinking about how i might hurt him in the future. i understood where he came from because of what i did before. we talked and now we're not together. he broke up with me in a calm way because he obviously didn't want me to react badly again.

i don't know what to do with myself. i feel so heartbroken, and im trying to act like im ok with my family around me. I've had thoughts of ending my life again because i really don't see a point in it. apart from him, I've always felt heartache... for no reason.. or for tiny things. there's a constant pain in my heart. i cant remember the last time i was actually happy. i pray for the pain to go away. i pray so that i don't love him anymore. i pray so that he heals from the pain I've caused him. but i cant leave everything to higher power.

what do i do? im tired of hurting. im tired of always thinking about him and nothing else!!! im tired of feeling like im on the edge of depression, as if im about to fall in and not find a way out.

i'm feeling so much pain

i hurt my bf twice and i was drunk both times.

first time: we went out for drinks with his cousin and later on that night, i kissed his cousin ( i don't remember this at all)

the second time: we were at a party and i kissed a girl, she's both our friend. ( we both did it out of curiosity)

i decided to stop drinking. its clear that i cant handle it.

he broke up with me the first time then we got back together, he broke up with me the second time and we got back together. after we got back together the second time we had a huge fight over the phone about how i broke his heart more than once and how he cant trust me. he told me things and damned me to hell.

i was so heartbroken. the pain was too much. it hurt me so much because i hurt him and he does not deserve it, and i lost him. i was alone in my apartment drowning in the pain, then i decided i'v had too much and attempted suicide. unfortunately i survived because the next time i woke up i was in an emergency room with tubes stuck into me and stuff. i recovered after 2 days. i told my family to tell him what happened. he came to see me. by the time he came i had already had the lectures from nurses and doctors and my family to never do something like that again. i promised i wouldn't and i came to terms that im not with him anymore, i decided to start being single and happy. so anyway.. he came to see me and saw that i was smiling and was ok. he told me the same thing every one did and told me he's sorry. during our conversation he said i was his girlfriend again and we kissed. everything was good again. i ddnt wake up as the same person, i had a new perspective to start accepting things in a positive way and to love him the way he deserved.

a week passed and we were ok. today he told me that he cant stop thinking about how i might hurt him in the future. i understood where he came from because of what i did before. we talked and now we're not together. he broke up with me in a calm way because he obviously didnt want me to react badly again.

i dont know what to do with myself. i feel so heartbroken, and im trying to act like im ok with my family around me. I've had thoughts of ending my life again because i really don't see a point in it. apart from him, I've always felt heartache... for no reason.. or for tiny things. there's a constant pain in my heart. i cant remember the last time i was actually happy. i pray for the pain to go away. i pray so that i don't love him anymore. i pray so that he heals from the pain I've caused him. but i cant leave everything to higher power.

what do i do? im tired of hurting. im tired of always thinking about him and nothing else!!! im tired of feeling like im on the edge of depression, as if im about to fall in and not find a way out.

I've been dating this guy for a month now, and he's great! i love his personality and the vibe he has around him, we're almost the same person and i love that about us. we are a very chilled couple (for example: we throw insults at each other, play fight and treat each other like friends). he's so easy to fall in love with, and i love him already, i can feel it, but its not deep yet.

i wouldnt say that i am a very sensitive person but i do get sensitive, im a little bit insecure(i've dealt with those problems professionally and overcame them) my boyfriends have always been the ones that made me feel confident and good because they were the ones i was always so honest and open with.

being open with this guy is not so easy though because he over analysis things, he's very analytical and thoughtful...the type of guy who knows what he wants, he's also stubborn.

we've already had a huge argument and broke up last week, but we patched it up and things were going well. i'll just add that a few days before we broke up, we had the best 3 days ever because we were at the school camp and we spent so much quality time together. well anyway...things are good now.

the problem i have is that he doesnt open up to me the way he should. he doesnt tell me things like when he goes to the hospital(im worried and would like to go through it together) and he doesnt tell me what he's doing when he decides to cancel our plans. he says i become a little to clingy and then i dont sometimes. i cry all the time wen he just decides to be cold with me or when he gets upset over something i said out of a joke or pure curiousity, i feel like im the bad one in our relationship and my heart hurts all the time. i dont want to lose him...being his friend would reaaallyy be the worse thing. he's goodlooking and can easily get another girl..he would and i don't kno if i could handle that.

its so wierd how he's got me so hooked to him! i actually broke up with my one year boyfriend wen i met him because i was tired of the relationship and this guy offered something great and new. it is great..i can be myself with him and have fun and intimacy all at the same time in just the right way or amount.

i love him..he loves me too(he told me days before i told him)

i dont want to lose him but im tired of feeling like my heart is always broken into pieces everyday. i am a lot more happier than upset, and when he makes me happy....i feel like i can do miracles with my joy.

what do i do? i have no idea...

please dont say "its your choice" or "do what feels right to you" ... i dnt want those conclusions :(

I've been dating this guy for a month now, and he's great! i love his personality and the vibe he has around him, we're almost the same person and i love that about us. we are a very chilled couple (for example: we throw insults at each other, play fight and treat each other like friends). he's so easy to fall in love with, and i love him already, i can feel it, but its not deep yet.

i wouldnt say that i am a very sensitive person but i do get sensitive, im a little bit insecure(i've dealt with those problems professionally and overcame them) my boyfriends have always been the ones that made me feel confident and good because they were the ones i was always so honest and open with.

being open with this guy is not so easy though because he over analysis things, he's very analytical and thoughtful...the type of guy who knows what he wants, he's also stubborn.

we've already had a huge argument and broke up last week, but we patched it up and things were going well. i'll just add that a few days before we broke up, we had the best 3 days ever because we were at the school camp and we spent so much quality time together. well anyway...things are good now.

the problem i have is that he doesnt open up to me the way he should. he doesnt tell me things like when he goes to the hospital(im worried and would like to go through it together) and he doesnt tell me what he's doing when he decides to cancel our plans. he says i become a little to clingy and then i dont sometimes. i cry all the time wen he just decides to be cold with me or when he gets upset over something i said out of a joke or pure curiousity, i feel like im the bad one in our relationship and my heart hurts all the time. i dont want to lose him...being his friend would reaaallyy be the worse thing. he's goodlooking and can easily get another girl..he would and i don't kno if i could handle that.

its so wierd how he's got me so hooked to him! i actually broke up with my one year boyfriend wen i met him because i was tired of the relationship and this guy offered something great and new. it is great..i can be myself with him and have fun and intimacy all at the same time in just the right way or amount.

i love him..he loves me too(he told me days before i told him)

i dont want to lose him but im tired of feeling like my heart is always broken into pieces everyday. i am a lot more happier than upset, and when he makes me happy....i feel like i can do miracles with my joy.

what do i do? i have no idea...

please dont say "its your choice" or "do what feels right to you" ... i dnt want those conclusions :(