Dr. Guy

Or is your spouse smart enough to use a throwaway email like I did.....er......would have if I had an account at that disgusting site?

An emphatic statement from an esteemed user,

"...IF YOU WANT MORE THAN THIS LIFE YOU HAVE TO PRAY FOR HELP...ITS NOT AUTOMATIC.."

Why isn't it automatic?

If an all knowing and powerful deity exists and you live your life according to the teaching but leave out the "Our Father" and "Forgive me This" or "Bless Me's" why the punishment?

Is the deity, who will presumably destroy the heathen someday lacking in enough esteem that doing what he said is not enough without the praise of deity?

I have been married for almost 40 years, so I have been out of the game for a while. What is the best way for a guy to find some side action?

I have a Masters Degree in sociology and am a Life Coach.

Just because I call myself Doctor does not mean I can write prescriptions.

Beside, its not legal in Ohio yet.

If you can't deal with the lack of sex and the nagging is cheating the only way to save the marriage?

Men like to be treated special as women do once you get married that stops so is cheating the only way to cure this?

Hasn't this become one of the most vexing conundrums of marriage.

You are married to a woman who is not interested in meeting your physical needs yet are prohibited from finding relief for those needs. This seems to be a fairly recent development in the social evolution.

There was once a time where males were able to pick one out of the herd and could drag her by the hair back to the cave without recourse.......

Now given a woman's new found equality the concept of fidelity has crept in. This seems to be a not so very veiled attempt to establish another level of control for women of a man's sexuality, which was previously not available to them.

Once established the control of a man's sexuality any deviation from that control mechanism is seem as undesirable.

One of the best ways to keep this control active is to label the activity as something bad, like cheating or infidelity.

We all know that a man's need to get his genetics widely dispersed is a natural evolutionary trait and the desire to keep a man's sexuality so narrowly defined and limited is counter to nature.

Isn't the obvious conclusion to this problem is to remove the negative label and call it what it is, SIDE ACTION and view it as a necessary condition to maintain marriage relationships.

It is the physical release that a Man needs to be able to exist in a life where society suggests fidelity.

Wouldn't married be so much better off were we to accept side action as a way to stay that way?

The best marriage therapy to balance SC before the weekend seems to be SPF.

Did you skip it today because it is tax day and you know you will be screwed anyway?

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It is SPF afterall.