lenai

I'm torn between finding myself and being with the one who has himself with me.

I mean, I'm in a relationship for 5 years now and we have a baby who is 1 year and 5 months old. Others might think that our relationship is a big OK, we hardly fight, we go out like friends, we do things together, we share secrets and finances.. etc. But who will have thought that for me, there's something is missing.

I intend to leave him but I am worrying about our baby. He always tell me that if ever I leave him, the baby stays with him and I wouldn't get to see her again. I don't know, I can never be with him if I am not feeling the same happiness as we had before.

A friend of mine who also happens to be a computer technician told me that mini laptops or notebooks are not advisable because they he has lots of friends who regret buying one due to their poor specs. Those laptops weren't doing their function well for quite some time after their first use.

Is this true?

I am 21 years old, single, a degree holder of Business Administration majors in Management and Banking and Finance and currently working as a branch cashier in an insurance company here in the Philippines... I wanna work abroad or just be there with any way there is... would anyone help????

A friend of my boyfriend who have worked as an entertainer in Japan told him that drinking 2 cans of San Miguel Beer Super Dry in can upon waking up (without eating breakfast, drinking water and even brushing teeth) would bring back my mentruation.. that's two-three months after having sex.. another way of not getting pregnant after having an unsafe sex... I've tried it last december (after not menstruating for almost 3 months) and i had my menstruation back by dec 29.. it lasted for a 5 days or a week i guess and yeah, my menstruation been normal after.. but by march, had unsafe sex again and until now.. i've never menstruated like the usual.. have drunk during the weekend mornings hoping that it wouldn't continue my pregnancy....

I need help! Please.. i cannot be pregnant... the last day i had menstruation was february 05, 2007 and still until now, there are no signs of incoming menstruation... i am gaining weight and am craving for a lot of foods... my sense of taste have changed and i really am fond of sleeping lately... i cannot be pregnant- there are lots of aspects to be worrying about- my career, my family- everything they are expecting of me will be turned down once i get pregnant.. help.. i don't want to be a mom at the age of 21.....

a friend of mine is almost 5 months pregnant but not with her bf.. it's with another man, she wants the baby aborted no matter what the consequences might be.. i told her already that it would be twice as risky as it is when giving birth because it would be her life and the child's if in case she had it aborted but still she wouldn't listen!!!! she's afraid that her parents would get mad and about her career- immorality is not tolerated in their company! ohh.. got nithing more to say.. i dunno what to say!!!!! feelin' really scared and bad about this prob!

Many of Filipinas here in the Philippines or even abroad are marrying foreigners and likewise, a lot of foreigners (of which are mostly Americans) love having a Filipina for a wife. (though by statistics, Filipinas marry Americans because they would want to go somewhere else other than their country itself and to get out of poverty- in short, to be financially stable with their American husbands and get rich abroad, and so far, almost all that the Americans choose are far beyond their ideal and dream girls). The question: Why??? (Can they just not stay here in the Philippines and help our economy rather???)

there are lots of teenagers nowadays that are having serious problems with early and unexpected pregnancies. what do you think are the main causes of this problem?