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I don't wanna be pregnant but I'm almost 3 months delayed!!!?

I need help! Please.. i cannot be pregnant... the last day i had menstruation was february 05, 2007 and still until now, there are no signs of incoming menstruation... i am gaining weight and am craving for a lot of foods... my sense of taste have changed and i really am fond of sleeping lately... i cannot be pregnant- there are lots of aspects to be worrying about- my career, my family- everything they are expecting of me will be turned down once i get pregnant.. help.. i don't want to be a mom at the age of 21.....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Honey, someone need to give you a good smack. You are in denial. What is wrong with you, you are old enough to be more responsible then that. "I don't want to be pregnant" is not going to make the baby go away. That's how babies end up in dumpsters, but you are not 14. You need to go to the doctor IMMEDIATELY. If you want to have an abortion you really don't have much time left. If you don't want to have an abortion you can give the baby up for adoption. Adoption is not what it used to be. You can have an open adoption where you maintain contact with our baby even if you don't raise her.

  • 1 decade ago

    First off you really need to get a pregnancy test. Putting off doing it doesn't make it go away. As far as becoming a mom at 21 it is not that bad. If you have a career already then hell you are doing way better than I was. I had my first child at 18 and my second at 22. I am just now getting back in school for nursing so I go to school full time and work part time and also take care of them both. Being a parent is the most rewarding job ever. But it is your body and your decision of what you do. I would go to your family and they may be shocked at first but will more than likley be the first to lend a hand.

  • 1 decade ago

    why havent you taken a pregnancy test yet? All your stressing about being pregnant could be delaying your period. Take a test, that way you will know the answer and then decide what to do from that point on. You cant make any right disicion untill you know a defenite answer. So what if you do end up being pregnant, Im 21 going on 22 and i have a beautiful 16 month old daughter. ITs not the end of your life or your world. Those symptoms sound like pregnancy but then again, it could be all in your head. Please, end your stress and take a test.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you don't want to be pregnant, use protection. Not saying you didn't because nothing is 100% effective...but I digress...

    If you are pregnant, it doesn't matter whether or not you want to be; either you are or you aren't. You're going to have to find out sooner or later, and better sooner than later, because: a) if you want to have an abortion--which is sad to use as a form of birth control--if you get too far along, no doctor will perform that abortion because it'd be illegal; and b) if you do decide to keep your baby, even if you plan to give it up for adoption, you need to be getting prenatal care, like, two months ago, in order to ensure the health of not just the baby, but of yourself.

    You're going to have to find out one way or another, so don't put it off any longer just because you will probably get the answer you don't want to hear. Not getting tested won't make it magically go away.

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  • 1 decade ago

    o well why dont you take a pregnancy test and deal with it. I didn't want to be a father at 22 but i stepped up and i love my daughter. And the mother was only18. All the things you are worried about will come true yeah it's hard but i wouldn't give up all the things i've gone through and dealt with.

    Take the test if you don't want the baby then you know what to do have it or not. but don't waste any more time cause the baby is growing and you are pretty far along. good luck and the guy has no decision in this. It's your body and your life.

    Good luck in the situation.

  • 4 years ago

    some people somewhat don't sense properly by using being pregnant. i'm drained lots and interior the start i could vomit like 10 circumstances an afternoon. SHe sounds all over the board together with her thoughts and needs to think of approximately each thing. that's no longer your little one in basic terms be supportive an hear to her. some specialist help in determining each thing like at a relatives making plans clinc could be powerful to her.

  • Cocoa
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    First of all, you need to take a pregnancy test now. The sooner you find out if you are or not, you can make some decisions about what you are going to do. If you are, you need to start getting prenatal treatment now also. If you are not, get some type of birth control so you won't have this problem again.

  • 1 decade ago

    You haven’t had your period since Feb 5th, almost 3 months now. Your gaining weight having food cravings You to need accept reality your with child. Either that are your suffering from a chemical pregnancy where a woman convinces herself that she is pregnant will have signs of pregnancy, cravings , no period etc.

  • Panda
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    go to the doctor, they'll test you for pregnancy anyway. while pregnancy is possible things like endometriosis or a thyroid condition can affect your menstrual cycle and cause the symptoms you described. Also worrying about being pregnant can cause psychological pregnancy in which you have these symptoms because you worry that you are pregnant. btw- being a mom at 21 didn't ruin my life.

  • Cipes
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You need to take a test! I understand how you feel but life doesn't go as planned, i think if you are pg don't worry about what others may think its your body. In the end you alone will have to live with whatever decision you make.

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