Becki

I usually have to go to the bathroom at night 2 - 3 times and during the day, 5 - 8 times. Lately at night I have to get up 6 times! And I am going frequently during the day as well. I am pretty sure I do not have a uti as I don't have any pain or anything. I have peed my pants because I didn't make it to the bathroom soon enough and I sometimes leak as well. I know it isn't normal, so if anyone has any ideas, please let me know. I am a 36 year old female and I have had 2 children.

Fever and headache on and off during the day and then all night. Feel super hot inside, most often at night. My joints hurt all over and my Carpal tunnel is really bad. I am 35 and female. I have doc appt. on Monday for a physical. If I am still sick, I will talk to him about it. But any thoughts about what it could be. I am also really tired. Super fatigued. I feel like i could sleep all day and all night, except i have to get up because if the pain. Hurts my muscles to carry anything. No one else in my family is sick.

My Mom's Birthday is coming up. My Mom barely talks to me for some reason that I do not know and have stopped trying to figure out.

Her friend, that is the same age as me and a real sh*t disturber, sent me a message asking if I wanted to chip in for a gift for my mom from her, my sister and me. I really feel that my Mom has chosen to shut me out of their lives, I don't know why I would want to chip in for a gift. Most recently, she told everyone else in our family that my cousin died because she was in a horrible car accident, but me. I found out because one of my cousins posted it in Facebook.

I don't want to give her a present, I want nothing to do with her. I need my space. How do I answer this message. I just want to be able to not have to think about them all the time and how they have shut me out. I am upset that I have even been asked this.

Is the reason that people had so many kids a long time ago because things were so well made and they didn't stop having kids until the hand me downs wore out?

It's a long story, but the jist of it is this. I never did any harm to anyone in my family. I had a shitty childhood, like a lot of people had, and I have gotten over that. The one thing that I am trying to get over is that my parents don't call or text me. I am married and we have two kids. My Cousin died yesterday morning, and I found out through Facebook. No one called to tell me. When my Dad had a heart attack, she didn't call to tell me until the next day. When my Grandma died I found out through text. The list goes on and on. My family and I moved about 7 hours away from where they live. I made a special trip there to see them at the beginning of August. Neither one of my parents has tried to contact me. We moved at the beginning of July. I have made attempts, but I am sick of getting hurt feelings so I have given up and decided I will not contact them. If they want to talk to me they know my number. How do I get over this feeling that they don't think I am good enough for them? It really hurts not having parents but what hurts worse is that they exist, and they just don't care about me. It makes me sad.

I am a woman and I just find that there are more women haters than there used to be.

Every morning at 6am,

Sometimes earlier, the people who live above me wake up and start stomping around. I am not kidding. They basically stomp as they walk. Once they leave around 7:30 am it's okay, but they don't always leave, they get home around 4pm and th stomping continues until about 11:30 at night. It is driving me bonkers, literally. I use medical cannabis that I smoke on my balcony as O don't want to stink up the place. I want to complain, but I am worried that they will complain about me in retaliation. Can I complain and if not, what the heck should I do? My Mental health is riding on this.

What do you see as a bigger picture than most?

Am I the only one who feels it? Things are changing and happening. So many revolts are happening at the same time. It just feels like we can not avoid it any longer. It feels like all the people have had enough. It feels like everything is going to go bezerk during the next 10 to 20 years. Do you feel it too?

My legs and feet swell. My feet fall asleep. My feet hurt all the time and it is getting worse. Sometimes they burn like they are on fire and I cannot find relief. I have a doc appointment comin up, but I was just wondering what you all think?