Chelsea

My friend has recently had a beautiful baby girl, shes around 2 months old now. However, my friend doesn't seem to be coping well at all, she never has the baby on her own, she lets her mum take her for days on end without no contact with the baby. She has said things such as '" I just want to sleep and never wake up" , she also admitted that she locked her and the baby in the bathroom with the lights off and just sat there for hours. She said her doctor has given her anti depressants but i'm not sure shes taking them. I'm not sure what to do or how i can help her? Obviously im concerened for the baby's welfare. Any advice?

I've been speaking to this guy i met on a online dating site, he ended up sending me pic of his penis and i was shocked by how small it was and i told him that he was the smallest i've ever seen. He said he is 3inches which is average sized and anything above that size is classed as over average or big. Is this true??

I understand there is a lot of corruption and poverty in african countries, but realistically they supply diamonds, gold, oil etc. They should be as rich as America, if not more! Was there ever a time in history where africa ruled the world?

i've always been a DD cup and since i can remember, i've recently been exercising a lot in the gym and now ive gone down to a C cup? I'm not overweight but were my boobs just made up of fat?

So i've been at my job for 8 months now and i know my boss has some sort of weird crush on me, i could tell from when he first interviewed me. But at first it wasn't so bad, it was harmless flirting etc. I work in the fashion industry so we deal with womens clothing day to day and sometimes he asks me to try on clothes privatley for him (so he can decided whether it's suitable to sell to the high street stores) but he has been making me try on very 'sexy' clothing and basically makes me model it for him and almost everytime he gets an erection from it. To make matters worse he has asked me to accompany him on a business trip, i'm really nervous about this. Is the sexual harrassment? Or am i over reacting?

When we argue he can get really agressive, although he has never physically hit me , he will come up to me and hit things close to me. For example, he could back me into a wall and punch the wall next to where my head is. Im not sure if it's actual abuse as he's not actually physically hurting me?

I keep waking up at least 3-4 times during the night with a panic/anxiety attack and i don't understand why? When i awaken, i get the feeling that something is horribly wrong and it makes me feel uneasy and worried to go back to sleep causing me to get very little sleep! It's been happening for about 3 weeks now.

Ok this is going to sound really petty and stupid , but my sanity is at stake here. So theres this really terrortorial blackbird that lives in my backgarden and its driving me absolutley crazy! Not only is it tweeting from the crack of dawn to literally 10pm every night its doing the same call over and over and over again. And it is SO loud and so close to my house, i try to ignore it but because i now recognise it's call, i hear it all the time and im starting to lose my mind. Can i call pest patrols or some bird organisation to get it removed from my garden? because i cant cope with it anymore.

I'm curious about this blackbird's behaviour who must live near my house, for the past week or so,everyday i see the bird in the same spot for hours on end just tweeting away. I wake up at 6am , go to work and come back and its in the same spot. I know its the same bird because it comes in my garden a lot. I'm just wondering why it's doing that for hours on end from the crack of dawn until late a night tweeting. It does occssionally fly off every now and then but it always comes back without fail. What is it doing??

I signed a contract for a job I no longer want, was meant to start today but I didn't show up , on the contract it says if a months notice is not given I invalidate my right to receive references... What does that mean?

Basically every night for the past week or so I become aware that I'm dreaming when I'm asleep but as soon as this happens I get put into danger such as If I was in a car it would be heading into a building full speed and I have no control over it and ill try to wake myself up but I can't open my eyes or move my body, it's like I'm trapped inside my own head and when I do finally wake up my heart will be hammering and I feel breathless ... Is there anyway to stop this? I dread going to sleep every night because of this

i split up with my ex last may and it took me quite a while to get over him but I eventually did and started to forget about him and move forward with my life he has recently been in contact with me and wen were speaking as friend having a normal conversation about what we have been up to etc, then we got on to the subject of relationships and I told him I've not been with anyone since him and he told me he's been with around 28 girls since me and hearing this news has left me in a state and I don't know why I feel so upset and devastated when i got over him ages ago really don't know how to make the feelings go away any advice?

I've recently got a new kitten, she's 4 months old really happy and playful but i can't find myself to trust her the way I would with a dog. for example I feel on edge when she's not in sight incase she decides to pounce on me unexpectedly , also when she's lay on my lap I can't fully relax incase she scratches me or bites my hand. she's unpredictable and I think that's why I don't trust her . any advice?

Is there any techniques or methods I can try to help deal with my fear of spiders? I absolutely hate them , they scare the s**t out of me. But I'm sick of being scared I can't even kill one, my eyes automatically scan rooms I enter for them and if I do see one I feel as if I'm having an anxiety attack with the rapid heartbeats etc. Also where does this fear come from? Could I have had a traumatic experience with one as a child that I don't remember?? Any tips would be great :)

I've just realised, who was driving the boat at the end if he killed everyone? Wouldn't they have crashed realistically

i have a st bernard and he just seems so depressed, hes always sighing and slouching on the floor his facial expression doesn't help either he just looks so sad no matter what i do to try and make him happy. he is 5 years old any advice?

There is a birds nest in my bush with baby birds in it and this magpie keeps invading the nest and stealing the baby birds, not sure how many there is but there is a good few as i hear them tweeting alot. ive tried to keep the magpie away as much as possible but will not be able to do that tomorrow as i have work. i want to move the baby birds but ive heard that if they are touched the mother will abandon them?

any advice?

Why do you go dogging?

what exactly happens?

how do you arrange to meet and where is it usually?

and what happens if you get caught?

very curious that is all :)

im sick of seeing stupid questions like

'do you think i'm pretty' or 'what colour should i die my hair'?

is there any intelligent question askers out there? that ask real question with meaning? and is there any intelligent question answerers? thats actually give you an answer that can help you?

i don't understand what it is? i was playing cod black ops for ps3 and a guy was on top of the map with unlimited ammo and couldn't die, he had a shot gun and was killing everyone with these big blasts... is that a glitch or a 'mod'?? why can't people just play normal instead of cheating all the time?