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I'm raising one of my own and notice the short comings of parents on a large scale. Things like basic manners to emotional instability tied to social media for example. So my question is what are the fundamental lessons that kids need to understand about life to equip them for the real world? Rattle them off,  list in order of priority, or just take a moment to tell me your number one. Maybe it's something that you had to learn the hard way. Thanks for your time and input. 

Have read various accounts of it being used but nothing about a physical relic being discovered/unearthed. 

Read this one earlier and wanted to see what others the community could contribute. 

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one.Confucius

I've never actually read any of them because it seems a waste of time and energy to single out a group because of differing beliefs.If you believe in God cool, if you don't cool. What's the big deal? Do we stop showing compassion and respect for someone who doesn't believe, pray, or worship the same God or no god at all? Enlighten me so I can understand what seems to be an endless provocation towards atheists on this platform. Is it really that serious?

Can you offer any insight or key factors to take into consideration in pursuit of self actualization? Maybe yahoo isn't the best place for resources on the topic but I have to use what's available.