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hello :) i am making a banner for work... actually im making several banners for work's convention.. i do all the flyers at 300 resolution and i was wondering if the banners need to be 300 as well.. i have seen people here at work make the resolution 3000... and i think thats ridiculous.. and it would totally crash my computer... but if thats needed.. ill just have to get on another computer....

these banners need to be 2 ft x 6 ft and i need to make 6 of them .... then ill be doing a smaller one 2 ft by 2 ft... .and then just a poster..... 12in x 18 in....

any and all help is greatly appreciated... thank you in advance :)

my husband and i just became legally separated... i am still living at our home and am going to move out may 1st....

in the separation papers... what it said about property... is.. what is the husbands... is the husbands... what is the wifes.. .is the wifes..... and what they got as a married couple... has been decided by them..... the thing is.. it didnt list anything except the car..... so during our marriage... the big items we bought .. .were the big LCD tv, sectional couch.. dining room table and chairs and our bedroom set....... none of these were listed by name... I have been a homemaker this whole marriage... (3 years) just taking care of our baby and him and the house... and i find out hes been cheating... he told me he wanted a divorce on our 3 year anniversary..... he currently is sleeping with a girl who was my friend for a few years... i asked her to be a part of my daughters life... and to act as an aunt... and now.. shes having sex with my husband... who tells me that they laugh about me thinking she was a friend... uhg.... it sucks so much :(.... anyway... i found out about other women hes been with... and that he would pretend to be at work and actually be at a girls house..... i wasnt told this by someone... i was told this by HIM..... .and learning all this... made me decide i dont want to leave with just my clothes and a few dishes.... i want to take the bed.... we got it while married... and i cant stand the thought of him and other girls using it.. .he was telling me how he plans on getting those huge pillers at avery corner of the bed.... (our plan) and i said... thanks for telling me... he said... why?... ohhh.. right..... so... he woudlnt be wanting to fix up the bedroom stuff if he werent planning to show it off..... i was wondering.... since its not mentioned by name... and its something we got while married.. and him as the bread winner.... can i take the bed legally? im pretty sure i can.... he will be left with everything else in the house......

any advice?

thank you in advance for any insight you can offer :)

~summer

i am getting screwed over in this divorce.... i am a stay at home mom.... i have no income.... i dont drive... my health problems are over running my life and my soon to be ex husband and i decided it would be best for our daughter to stay with him because i cant even pick her up ... let alone keep up with her..... this is killing me but... this is whats best for my little girl... i cant go to welfare and get assistance because i wont have custody of our daughter.... i am in process of getting disability... this was a last resort... i didnt want to go to that... but... i had to...

i cant afford a lawyer..... im not moved out of the house yet... my husband already has a girlfriend... he just ended everything a couple months ago... i have no choice but to be here at home.... my heart is broken and i have no idea what to do next... i need a lawyer... i dont know if i have any option for one.. .when i cant afford the retainer.... im just lost right now... my husband is planning on me leaving with just the clothes on my back.... i need to make sure i at least get my fair share of belongings... ... hes expecting me to move out... and just go to a place where i dont even have so much as a chair to sit on..... really... of the belongings... i just want the bed.... i know it sounds ... ridiculous... but i cant stand the thought of him being with someone else in that bed..... i know.. .petty.... but you have to understand... he is walking all over me.... he told me he wanted a divorce on our 3 year anniversary... he told me this a month after i was diagnosed with MS.... he is now with a so called friend of mine.... i have been stomped on and betrayed and i have never had my heart so thoroughly broken.... its bad enough i know i cant take care of my daughter because of my health... and i thought it was unselfish of me to tell him i thought she would be better with him because he could provide for her better than i could... and that his family all love her to death and i dont want to take her away from that.... and after all that he keeps hurting me time and time again.... i feel like i deserve to get something from this marriage where i have been treated like crap the entire time.... can someone please help me? is there a way i could get a lawyer? i live in nassau county NY.... he already has a lawyer... and i am totally unprotected.... i need help.. badly.... i have taken as much as i can take...... i just cant do this anymore.... i feel so... .done.... im shattered and exhausted... i need help...

my husband and i are getting divorced.. he insisted on filing for legal separation... i am a stay at home mom and have a horrible job history.... i also qualify for disability and am waiting for the case to be decided... i can not move out of our house because i have zero income and due to my injuries can not get a job to support myself.. .and the price of living is SO HIGH in New York that i am feeling rather stuck.... he wants me to move... i want to move... i just cant.. and have no choice about it right now.. .no i cant stay with friends and have no family to go to... at this point i have no options.. i do not drive and am not near public transit.. and if i were.. .i dont have money to pay for it... he even took the change from me because "i didnt earn it" never mind the 3 years of taking care of him and the house and our daughter as well....

the thing is... he is emotionally killing me... and hes already having sex with one of my friends.... who of course is not a friend after all.... I AM STILL LIVING HERE AT THE HOUSE.... he filed for separation.. . i got the papers in the mail and never opened them.. i couldn't bear to...... he was having sex with my so called friend before i got the papers.. .before he filed... and now he says we have to go to his lawyer tomorrow to sign papers to actually become legally separated... i thought we already WERE... and im wondering if i can possibly somehow get a lawyer.. .if i can claim that he committed adultry.... im not sure .. it just seems like he shoudlnt be doing that before the legal separation ... and before im moved out of the house.... i have to stay here to may because the my future roommate ended up needing to push the date to may.. my husband doesnt know this that i know of...... and im wondering if after the paperwork is signed.... will i HAVE to move out? i have no where to go... like is he just setting me up to get me to be forced to move out before i have a place to go?.. .i dont know what to do.. im so lost and so hurt.. i cant even think straight.. and im sure this is all jumbled together...... you just have to understand... im terrified... and i just got told i have to sign these papers tomorrow... I AM SO LOST .. .i just know im going to get screwed over... help!

so i am going through my second divorce in 15 years.... the first time i was told AFTER it was all done (within minutes) that if i wasnted my maiden name back.. i should have asked for it as part of the divorce process.... so this time... i dont want to make the same mistake.. but this time i just want to go by a last name of my choosing... not a last name ive ever had before... is this possible? or will i have to go through the courts the old fashioned way? id rather do it through the divorce... you know.. kill two birds with one stone i guess you could say....

my husband recently told me he wants a divorce... he makes all the money in the house and i stay at home to care for our little one and to take care of the household duties... i do not have an income.. i have horrible credit so i have no credit card.. i do not have access to the bank account... i am not even given emergency money... i don't drive and my only I.D. was stolen a few months ago... My husband knows he has the upper hand here... i know my best bet is to file for divorce before he does... i figure hes probably not in a rush because he knows i cant afford a lawyer.. but i have heard that i can get free help from the state... is this true? and how to i go about getting it...

if it helps i live in seaford new york (long island) i need help desperately.. im hoping i can somehow file first and be able to stay in our rented home and make HIM have to leave.. and not me... where i would of course not be able to take my little girl... my rent is $1,900 per month plus a ton of bills.... uhg... i dont know how i can manage this... but is there anyone who can tell me how to go about this... or at least the part where i can get a divorce attorney when i cant afford one.. please help.. my heart is broken and i cant bear to lose my daughter AND my home as well ... please please help

if you need to talk to me personally... my email is ipokemyself@aol.com i am just so desperate and broken..........

i am filing for disability.... but i cant move forward in the application because i do not have a bank account and i cant put the money into my husbands account... the reason is my own.... i need the money and he will use it for his own things...

i was wondering.. is there a bank account i can start online with out money and be able to start receiving money there through direct deposit? or do i have to go activate it my going into the bank to deposit money first...

a lot time ago i started an account with wamu... and they let me open it with no money.. .but i never got to complete it because i could not get there during business hours to deposit money...

any info any of you could offer would greatly be appreciated :)

thank you

p.s

if it helps... i life on long island NY

does anyone know where i can find the codes to use my built in stitch patterns on my sewing machine? all i want is a place on line that shows it.. thats it... im not planning on buying a new booklet.. thanks for any help :)

Marilyn Manson - Cryptorchid Lyrics

ive just always wondered what that is about....

ive been looking at online translators but have no luck... i need to know how to say it now how its written in Chinese... please help?

thank you :)

ive been looking all week long online for a corset pattern... a victorian... or edwardian... or one from 1903 -1908 .... i am also looking for waist cincher patterns online... i cant find any anywhere.. .of course im looking for free patterns.. i know they are out there.. i keep reading about them.. .but all the corset makers are being tight lipped.... and i want to get into the business of making these custom order...

can anyone help me?

any help is greatly appreciated :)

thank you :)

xoxoxo

my toddler is going through a phase where she doesnt want eat anything except a veggie puff snack... she needs to eat more.. .shes starting to lose weight and its scaring me... she DOES like to dip foods though... what healthy dippable combos can i feed my 19 month old? healthy enough to make a great meal for her and not potato chips in sour cream and onion dip... thank you for any help you can offer :)

i need to know the best places online to find all the info i need to know about tattooing.. that includes the best inks... the best types of machines... also the right measurements for mixing colors... also i need to know how to do black and grey and to get a good smoke and shadow effect... links to find out this info would help greatly.. ive just started tattooing and although i am good at the art aspect of it.. i could use the knowledge behind the art of tattooing... ive found some places and ive been all over bmezine.com but i still cant find all the info i am looking for...

also... im sure i could just search for this but while im typing this out i might as well ask this as well... how much is the test.... the one about cross contamination and sterilization cost?

any help in this area is very much appreciated.....

thank you :)

my husband told me he withdrew money from the ATM in downtown NYC... but i found a receipt and happened to look at it and noticed date and location of the withdrawl... it was in a totally different place.. in fact.. it wasnt even in the city.. it was on long island (valley stream).. about an hour from the city.....

i know it sounds like hes cheating.... and i asked him why the ATM receipt said the location was valley stream (this is where his ex lives) and he told me that hes noticed that sometimes if you use and ATM in one location.. it says its a totally different location because its owned by a different company and will show different online.... of course i think this is BS.... i would just like to know if he could possibly be right.... or am a fool for arguing the fact that theres the proof in my hand that he wasnt at work.. "working late" like he said he was....

i need to be able to track him and NOT have him know about it.. .so that means i cant install any apps on his phone.. plus his phone is company issued and has a password on it....

i just need to track my husband because he has shown signs of cheating... and i want to make sure i have my facts straight before i flip out on him.

and i cant go and buy some sort of spy gps tracker and slip it into his pocket or anything like that... i am a stay at home mom... i take care of baby and home and his needs..... i cant leave the house... he has the car... and the money...i have access to none of it....

my husband was gone really late last night.. didnt get home till after 11pm ... i was cleaning up his laundry today and cleaning out the pockets.. i found an atm receipt that said he was about an hour away from his job location... i asked him about it.. he said the atm he used must have been owned by the atm an hour away at a sunoco gas station... of course this sounds wrong.. and i cant trust him at all.. .this is why im wondering if i can track down the location of his blackberry bold with my blackberry curve... so that if hes gone to late... and i check his location.. and find out hes actually at work... i woudlnt have anything to worry about.. .and i wouldnt have to totally freak out on him about it and end up looking like an idiot.. and if i found out that he was actually in the OTHER location.. then i would at least have proof to back up my claims....

any help on tracking down the location of a blackberry curve would be VERY helpful

thank you in advance

i twisted my ankle really bad about 13 years ago.. when i twisted it, it made a REALLY loud pop... i could hobble around for a while and finally i could walk on it a week or two later.... since then my ankle has been weak.. it twists easily and for no reason now.. .... and a month and a half ago.. i stepped on some uneven pavement and twisted my ankle again.. it again did that really loud pop.. .it was such a bad bend that my ankle actually hit the pavement .. of course the pain was insane and tears involuntarily sprung to my eyes... this was at my birthday dinner and i tried to not have a problem with my ankle... a couple days after i still coudlnt walk on it.. it was swollen to the size of a baseball.... then after a couple weeks i could walk fine on it without limping anymore.. but it was still achy .. and a lot of swelling stayed.. the bruising as well..... . if i wrap it in ace bandage.. it hurts more and does this strange popping feeling.. like a tendon moving over my ankle... the swelling is now above my ankle in a knot.. and below and wrapped around to the other side.. i cant bend my foot to point my toes more than inch ... i cant bend it from side to side without a huge amount of pain... and i cant .. without a lot of pain and stiffness.. bend my ankle to point my toes to the ceiling....

i also have some pain shooting down to my toes closest to my ankle and also a pain that shoots up my leg to my calf and sometimes above my knee...

have any of you ever had this happen?

i AM going to the doctor.. but i have to wait for a day off... im curious if anyone knows would could possibly be going on with my ankle..

i have been married for a couple years and although i cook meals every day.... i cant figure out a menu for the week... im always running out of food because i cant plan ahead think of what i want to make... i need help thinking up a menu.... we DO eat meat but only beef, chicken and turkey... and bacon... nothing else from piggies.. just the bacon...

what we usually eat:

steak and baked potato

roast cooked in beer with onions, potatos and carrots added

breaded chicken strips with lemon, garlic butter sauce and pasta on the side

haystacks (this is made in layers Doritos on your plate first.. then refried beans on top of chips.. then lettuce on top of beans.. then cheddar cheese on top of lettuce and tomatos on top of cheese... have sour cream and salsa on the side)

baked chicken.... with again.. pasta on the side

ok so.. i dont even make all of this in a week.. we actually have the steak a few times per week as well as baked chicken a few times a week... but that list is just showing the only things i make... im so tired of making the same things and we need variety instead of meat and pasta .. or meat and potato.. its SO boring!

i am a good cook.. im just bad at figuring out WHAT to cook and how to plan it out a week in advance.. this is where i need help.. i need meal organization.....

oh.. i also only have to make supper... since hubby is gone at work until late at night.....

i would really hope that a really nice grandmother or a very helpful mother will help me with this... but any help is appreciated.. .

thank you so much in advance!

xo

a lot of my friends are making up to 4 or 5 continuances to this "how well do you know me?" quiz... on facebook ... but i cant see how to do it without deleting the current quiz :/ anyone want to help a girl out? :D

thank you ahead of time :)

my little girl started talking at 7 months... her first sentence at 8 months was. " hiii daaddyyyy" this came soon after her first word.. which was mama... i never knew if that should count as a first word.... she is now 1.5 years old and she says thank you and nite nite and "i need a hat" she says so many things that i cant even remember them all.....she points out and makes the sounds of animals she sees.. .she has been saying and pointing out her eyes, nose, mouth, teeth.. hair and head... and ive been trying to teach her to count to three.. but instead she says ... "eigh... niieeen? eeennn!!!" im just wondering.. is this all normal. .she is my 3rd baby.. .and i dont remember my other ones doing these things at this age.. and where can i go to find info on child advancements? \

thank you for any and all that help me in looking for this info :)

xoxoox