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Hello all. I have been living with my partner for a year now. We dated for 3 months before moving in. We were deeply in love with each other and he was absolutely crazy about me. We went on holidays to fiji etc. In September last year he went to uk for 3 months for work. We used to talk every day n never fought while he was away. Aa soon as he came back the fight started. He tried to break up in January but I somehow persuaded him but last week it was over n he made his final decision. I am totally heartbroken. His reasins are he is not attracted to me anymore only because he thinks that we are different. He said I am not motivated and don't have drive. I am lazy. I am too clingy. He doesn't like personality. Now let me tell you, am 28 and he is 34. We both work full time even though he has a better job. I don't really like my job and I told him I will start looking for another one but haven't really. He drives and I don't. He is also a clean freak and I have made an effort to live up close to his expectations which he noticed. Also I go to gym which he doesn't and its me who cooks for him everyday. I am totally confused. He will stay for the next 3 months then the lease will be over and he will move out. We are still sharing the same bed but sleeping on each side. Every day we just say hi that's all. What do I do. Please help. Its pure and true love for me.

Hello all. I have been living with my partner for a year now. We dated for 3 months before moving in. We were deeply in love with each other and he was absolutely crazy about me. We went on holidays to fiji etc. In September last year he went to uk for 3 months for work. We used to talk every day n never fought while he was away. Aa soon as he came back the fight started. He tried to break up in January but I somehow persuaded him but last week it was over n he made his final decision. I am totally heartbroken. His reasins are he is not attracted to me anymore only because he thinks that we are different. He said I am not motivated and don't have drive. I am lazy. I am too clingy. He doesn't like personality. Now let me tell you, am 28 and he is 34. We both work full time even though he has a better job. I don't really like my job and I told him I will start looking for another one but haven't really. He drives and I don't. He is also a clean freak and I have made an effort to live up close to his expectations which he noticed. Also I go to gym which he doesn't and its me who cooks for him everyday. I am totally confused. He will stay for the next 3 months then the lease will be over and he will move out. We are still sharing the same bed but sleeping on each side. Every day we just say hi that's all. What do I do. Please help. Its pure and true love for me.