Ben

About a month ago my girlfriend decided to do something that I had told her I didn't want her to do anyways and just be sorry about it later. I was mad at her for it but I hate being mad and making myself miserable and I just feel like being mad accomplishes nothing in a relationship. So instead of staying mad we talked about it and she apologized and said she would always talk to me about things even if she thought I would say no and wouldn't do anything behind my back. Yesterday my girlfriend bought a cat. We talked about it and decided we dont have enough money for a kitten now but we would save up for one and get it. However again she went behind my back and got it anyways and then told me sorry I got a kitten right after she paid for it. I finally got her to admit that she didn't say anything because she knew I would say no and she would rather be sorry later. I hate being mad at her but I don't know what else to do to make sure this never happens again.

So I have been dating this girl for almost 3 months and there is this girl that I go to school with that she doesnt like. I go to a school where I am not allowed to have a car and for a little while I was using her sisters car so that I could see her more. One day I let this girl borrow it to go exchange something at the store. I didnt tell my girlfriend about because I didnt think to and she found out and she was mad and understandably so. She thought that because I didnt tell her about it before she found out that I might be cheating on her. Then today me and this girl that I have a class with were assigned to work on a project this week and we did our parts of the project and it came up on facebook that we were doing this project and my girlfriend saw it and because I didnt tell her she is furious with me and thinks that I am cheating on her because I didnt tell her and it looks shady that I didnt tell her I was assigned to do this project with her. I havent ever been in this situation where a girl wanted to know all this and I havent ever had a girl think I was cheating on her and I would never cheat on anyone. Did I do anything wrong this time?

She has been cheated on by every guy she has ever cared about till me... Basically everyone she has known she has seen cheat. So its extremely hard for her to think anything else. I have never cheated on anyone in my life and I never will. I cant stand people who cheat, its selfish, cowardly and unfair to the person who you obviously dont even care enough about to tell its over to that they have to find out like that. Anyways something happened yesterday where she found something out because I had been talking to a more or less friend of mine lately I hadnt really talked to since we had been dating about mostly school stuff but she thought it was something else... When she did that she found out something that made her mad. She let me use her sisters car because I dont have one because Im not allowed to because of where I go to school. and this girl had asked me if she could go down the road to return something with the car and I said yea sure no problem. And my girlfriend thought that because I didnt tell her about that I was hiding it from her... That couldnt be farther from the truth. So it set her back a lot in trust with me. What is there that I can do to make her feel better/understand that she can trust me with anything. This girl is so amazing and Im crazy for her. And yea I know time is really the only for sure thing that will prove my committment to be faithful to her but what can I do initially to help that and what can I do to help it along...

I dated this girl for about a year. She was my first real genuine relationship and I was hers. But I ended up going out of state for school because I got a full ride to the Air Force Academy in Colorado and she stayed close to home and is at school at UT Austin. After I left she ended up breaking up with me because she said that the distance was just too much to bear. I know she was telling the truth because it has been a year and she hasnt had another boyfriend since. When we broke up she deleted me as a facebook friend because she said that seeing stuff about me made her miss me and made it that much harder. When I found out about it and asked her about it she said she was ready to be friends again. Now I talk to her about once a month or so mostly on facebook or text. It has been a year and I have never gotten over this girl. I miss her so much and the memories of the times we have spent together are at times huanting. What should I do about her?

We had our mattresses thrown out of our dorm rooms and I need some help for the perfect prank to get them back for this.

bought one outside of AT&T

Just wondering what was the turning point if you will that finally won you over to God?

If you say that you logically believe that God doesnt exixt how come we never hear you back that up with the logic you claim?

If God was fake why would he be so prominent in society, why would there be so many stories of encounters with God and miracles of his work, and why would so many people try so hard to prove that he is not there and fail every time (cause no one has proved that he doesn't exist)?

If you claim that you dont know everything and you dont know how the earth was created and how everything came into existence then how can you be so quick to say that God isnt real if you dont even know why.

Then how do you explain your existence and the world without saying that something created it if science says that matter can be neither created nor destroyed. Also have you ever thought about how it is that you yourself came to be and that you are able to be alive and thinking and breathing. So how? If you guys all dont believe it is true and provable then how is yours?

what I mean is at some point you all have tried to be christains right? and when you would prey to God or whatever you felt like he was ignoring you or didnt care about you right? So you dont believe because you think God isnt good to you because if he had answered your prayer then you would still believe right?

How come you guys have never really legitimately given God a chance? All I see for the most part in general is that you guys sit around on here and throw out questions to try and make christians look stupid or fall on their face. Like the question I just read of the 70% of people in jail are christians. Why cant you just give God a chance? What have you got to lose? Sorry to the few who are legitimately looking for help and answers.

I have been thinking about this lately but I can't seem to get my mind around it. There are many different religions in the world but out of all of the major ones (Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism, Islam ext.) seem to acknowledge Jesus in some way and credit him as being a great man? I mean if they so firmly believe that he is not the messiah then why do they go so far to give him so much credit as a prophet or great man? I don't know if there is something to this or not but it is something that I have really been thinking about but just can't seem to quite put my finger on it. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?