Redhead

Can anybody give me some advice my partner and I have a great sex life but we both want 'rougher sex' we enjoy spanking, hair pulling , choking, but feel there is more, I love biting his nipples but can't leave any marks on his body because of his job, can someone suggest any other pain inflicting ideas that won't leave marks?? I thought about biting his c@#k but worry it may end in tears!!

my step daughter(who is 8) is a nightmare when it comes to eating, every week when she visits us there we have trouble getting her to eat!! a couple of years ago she used to a varied and healhty diet but over the past year she refuses to eat any vegetables or fruit stating she doesn't like them anymore, she has gone off cheese,potatoes,sausage,chicken,fish, and will not even entertain soup,beans,pasta,rice! she is basically living on jam sandwichs and desserts!!! my partner and i have spoken to my step daughters mother who seems to just let her do whatever she wants for an easy life!! i have made some rules at home such as ;; if you don't eat your meal you don't get dessert, i always try and put new/exciting/different foods on the table at meal times and encourage all of the children( i have two boys aged 8 & 9) to try different things, i hoped that if she saw the boys trying different things it might spur her own to do the same.

this has started to cause arguements between my partner and i as my step daughter is starting to throw tantrums at the diner table!! my partner says we should just let her eat dessert and no meal but i think this is wrong as it can't be good for her to just eat dessert all the time and its unfair to my sons!

she has also started to constantly suck and chew on her hair,when we pick her up from school her hair is all matted and stuck together at the ends,she is asked to stop by her father but just ignores him or bursts into tears, i have suggested she made need to speak to someone or a doctor because i am really starting to worry about her not eating properly especially with her hair eating tendencies, but her school have said they've not seen her with her hair in her mouth, and although she openly chews/sucks her hair in front of them my partner and his ex refuse to address the issue.

could anybody please advise me on this??

a family member has gone over the credit limit on their credit card, the bank has now passed the case on to a debt collection agency, at the same time said family member has been awarded a settlement in a compensation case, will/can the debt collectors take the settlement money out of their bank account or is the bank account now something separate that they will not be able to touch? they want to use half of the money to go towards paying off the debt but use some of the money for driving lessons to improve their chance of getting a better job? i want to be ale to give them sound advice but have no idea about the these kind of things and the legal implications??

many thanks and kind regards

my pc wont turn on properly and the message appears on screen that it is in sleep mode? i haven't a clue what this means or how it has been set to sleep ?? can anybody please help???

i have recently moved into a property with a large garden but won't let my kids play in it as the previous owner let their dog use it as a toilet and i am worried they may catch something from the poop!!!!! is there any way i can make it clean for my children to play on??? i have tried cutting it weekly to try and lift some off the mess but there just seems layers of it under the grass

we have a jewel delta 300 that has been set up for about 2 years we do regular water changes and checks(all levels seem fine?) before the weekend the tanks stock was : 1 rummy nosed tetra,4 neon tetra, 3 clown loach,2 leopard corydora,4 albino corydora,1 albino chinese algae eater,1 algae eater 2 danios. we wanted some 'top feeders' so purchased 4 male guppies and 3 more rummy nosed tetra and a wood shrimp, within 2 days 2 guppies disappeared, the next day the shrimp was dead and today another guppy is missing( i would just like to point out we have had this problem in the past when we purchased guppies and we also seem to have the same problem with gourami!!!) the rummy nosed tetra we bought are fine!!! we can not figure out if the guppies are dying and then being eaten or just being eaten???? please help??

we are looking to buy a puppy for our family we have 2 boys aged 7 & 6 and a girl aged 6, our home has a large garden(that houses chickens)and at least 4 large parks and a river in the area, we do not want a small yappy dog but something that is good with children and chickens(we like fresh eggs in the morning!!) perhaps a dog that takes well to training??? does anybody have any suggestions??

my landlord has given me notice and i have to leave my rented property within weeks, i have the opportunity of a place with the local housing authority for myself and my two young children but do not have enough money to furnish and carpet the whole place immediately, i have been browsing this site and have seen 'community care grant ' mentioned often but am not sure what it is and how to apply?

many thanks and kind regards

i have been with my partner for two years, i love him deeply and we have been through so much together,but from the off we have had a turbulent relationship, he works shifts(2 weeks of days &2 weeks of nights) which leaves him tired and moody, i some times feel he treats me like a slave, i get up every morning at 5;30 either to greet him with breakfast as he comes off nights or make him breakfast and a packed lunch for days, i spend the day running errands for him and then make sure i rush straight home after picking my children up from school to make his tea, last year i got a job but had so much hassle from him i gave it up(things like :you think more of your job than me!! : your never here for me anymore) and lately he is saying i am lazy and should go out and get a job!!! i cant win either way!! it was my birthday and valentines day last weekend and he made such an effort(even though for the past 2 years he has caused an argument and not spoken to me for days)we had a great weekend together and it reminded me of how things used to be but true to form monday he started to say i was lazy and say some disrespectful things about my family!! , don't get me wrong we have had some great times together and he used to make me feel like the most important person in the world but lately that all seems like a distant memory, i want us to be together but right now i dont see a future in our relationship and it hurts me deeply

its for the 9mth old daughter of my boyfriends work colleague, there will be loads of people there i have never met before and my partner is likely to be the only person i know, i am not sure if my 2 piece white suit or my dusky pink vintage style suit is too much and i may be better with a dress??? i am also struggling with ideas for a present as everything i have seen appears to be 'run of the mill' and do not want the little girl to end up with 20 of the same item!!