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Like I said, I have not received ANYTHING other than forwarded mail. I live in a house, and everyone else is receiving their mail. I have done a claim, I have spoken with Post masters at 3 different locations, spoken with my carrier, I have put my name in the mail box, I have done it ALL. Things I am not receiving as things like my EBT card, my DMV ID, health insurance card, NOTHING is coming, and yes I HAVE MY ADDRESS CORRECT!! I don't know what to do at this point, it's been 5 months of this BS, and people who don't live here are getting their mail here, everyone else who lives here is getting their mail here. I have sent an email to the P.O headquarters. PLEASE any more suggestions would be great.

I was grabbed by the store owner last week, and I couldn t even make a report, even after going to the station. It took 24 hrs. Then I was told 3 days later it hadn t even been assigned to anyone. Today I got a call being asked to go to the department and have a photo line up done. Um the guy is a store owner, I have given the address, the name, everything, why don t they just go over there because I m sure it was on servalience. I still need to get my phone screen fixed, and the guy called me to tell me the parts are ready. My bf wants my old phone anyways so he said he d handle it. I don t want other women being assaulted either. Does anyone have a suggestion? I m in Bakersfield, CA.

I am working as a canvasser and it s my first time. There are a few things about my job that are questionable. For one thing she wants us all to walk alone. I refused and she tried to make me feel like a baby, but my BF also refused due to safety, and we now walk together. She thinks we should walk alone, but I m small and we are walking in "ghetto-ish" areas with dogs everywhere and actual gangsters. One of the other guys who works with us is a known gangster and has had trouble. I don t think he should be asked to go out into areas where his rivals live. Another thing is that she doesn t like when we put down that a house is gated. She wants us to open or climb over gates! We are paid for 5 hrs of work, and she wants us to get 15 conversations, which would be fine if we were actually working that long. We have wait around the office an then to drive 30 minutes out, and be back before a certain time so we only get an hour or two MAX. No one answers, homes are gated, and no one is home! Everyone has had problems and people make up the numbers because no one can honestly get that many. It s surprisingly stressful, and although I am honest, because other people fake their numbers, the people who don t get into trouble. What can I do to address the situation?

I am not a computer genius, however I can do the basics. I bought this computer for hella cheap, $150 two years ago, and had problems from day one. The One Drive has 30GB of space, and yet 27 of them are being used... By what? I am at a loss. I deleted Kasperskey, which made is go MUCH faster, and since only use the computer to write... That s it. I have deleted EVERYTHING I CAN delete, and like I said I only use 780MB of space. I can t even download safari or any other search engine. I am at a loss of what to do. I also thought my computer only had 2or 4GB, but when I check out the hard drive it has room for 30... What piece of this puzzle am I missing, and what can I do, other than to buy a new computer?

We are both 30, his mother died, his grandmother has dementia, and his father is all he has left. Unfortunatly, his father has previously called cops on him twice, got him arrested, and then stole his inheritance about two years ago. On Friday, his father asked him for photos of his ID, Birth Cert. And SS#. He already knows our address. He claimed to be getting life insurance, and wanted to use my partner as the benefactor. I know nothing about insurance, but my partner happily sent his father everything. The problem I see is, his father is unemployed, and has a bad past. I need some advice. My mother has said she wouldn t trust his father. SO, does the life insurance policy need all of these forms for the benefactor (apologise if that s not the right word)? Or is something else going on?

We've been in a relationship for 8 months now, he's 33! and the day before I found out I was PG, we had a discussion about our relationship and where it was going. He did tell me he doesn't love me which hurt and he liked how we were progressing which is a load of crap since I moved 2 hours away for financial reasons. When I told him I was PG he tried to pressure me for an abortion and I said no. If you want to walk away you can, I'm 28, not 16 and if you want to stick about that's your choice. He told me it was a very tempting option, but he doesn't want to look bad like a deadbeat dad, the kind he always thinks "just step it up." He later offered for me to move in, but I think it was a fake offer because I would need to pay half his rent which I can't afford... He CLEARLY doesn't want this and I've told him to walk away. I have family who are VERY supportive and I'd prefer to do this alone than with someone who doesn't love me or the baby, but he won't. Instead he demands to know all my plans and how IM going to do this. I should opt for other options and he's unhappy with my decisions. Not that it'll be okay, he'll step up. I really would just like him to leave because he's making things worse and more stressful. Has anyone else dealt with this? What can I do?

I m exhausted... I mean EXHAUSTED! Getting out of bed, taking a shower and putting on new clothes requires a nap for me. I currently only work part time, but can t pay my bills on my paycheck. My BF basically pays some of my bills it s terrible. He s having to look for a better paying job. I don t know how I m supposed to work or be able to pay my bills being this tired. I need advice from other pregnant women. Did you start your own business? I m thinking of going recycling but I m always so tired! It s really messed up the way society works. I don t think moms should HAVE to work , but until we all leave the workforce there s nothing we can do... So how did you do it?

I don't really know how I SHOULD be feeling about this. We are 28, and 33. We met online, and hit it off pretty well. We never had any discussions about weather either of us wants kids or marriage (Although It's pretty obvious what I want), and the few times I have hinted moving in even for just a few weeks to help me find a place (I'm going through some financial difficulties right now) He's made it PERFECTLY clear he's not interested in me moving in with him, so I ended up having to quit my job and move two hours away. He says he likes his space. No I don't think he's cheating. He lived with his ex gf, and says it didn't affect him negatively. Last night I finally asked him what his intentions were with me, what he wanted for himself in the future, and mentioned this is the first relationship when a man hasn't said he loved me by now, and this is what I got. "I don't want to tell a girl I love her when I don't, I don't want to move in with you anytime soon, and I like the relationship where it is and how it's progressing." Well I appreciated his honesty, but it hurt me. I felt the "I love you" after abut 5 months, and our relationship progression? I moved two hours away, and he ONLY sees me when I finally tell him I'm coming up, which ends up to be about every other week for a weekend. I don't see how that's progression. I really don't know what to think or say. I'm upset, don't want to have sex with him again, and don't really feel like talking to him. How would you feel?

We are in our late 20's and early 30's, met online and used to live in the same city. (I moved for financial reasons two hrs away but still go up to visit him). We have been together 7 months. During this time I have met his band friends, a few times each, but never his "Adult friends" who have "Adult jobs and lives" because, or so I thought, they lived far away. Today he messages me telling me his friend is in labour at the local hospital. I asked him "Don't they live in Monterey" (She is married to his friend) He says, "No, they live right down the street from me." I thought this was really weird. I can't find any info on this online, just questions like "I haven't met any of his friends" Which isn't the situation, I've met a few, but he never tells me he's meeting with his friends until after, and has never invited me to do so. I already have had concerns which I have brought to his attention about his ex gf, who he is also friends with on FB and she hearts all his posts. A few months ago she invited him on basically a date to a show. I only found out because she posted that she was sick online. I am very confused because he's a great guy, treats me well and his parents know of me, he has photos of me (He also has photos of him and his ex in very romantic situations) but once in a while things like this pop up and I feel weird about it. I just want to make sure I'm not overthinking things before I talk to him. I know "Always trust your gut." So what do you think?

Long story short I needed a place to move for fairly inexpensive while I pay off a bunch of debt now that I can. I currently have 3 part time jobs and a puppy. Needless to say I m always busy doing something. She s an older lady, no kids and divorced. She s nice, a friend of a friend and I don t pay much for rent. The problem is she makes food or brings it home and almost forces me to eat it. I told her many times I m trying to lose weight and no thank you. It doesn t work. Today her brother slept over and was really rude to me. He doesn t like my dogs name (that sucks for him) tried to crack a joke about me sleeping in (yea a half day off thanks) and then said he was going to take my dog for a walk with her dog who isn t aloud inside because the dog is vicious to other pets... Wtf? I told him no, and took her to May parents. Is it just me? I ve only been there theee weeks.

I m a 27 year old female and have tried just about every possible outlet for dating. I can t pick anyone for myself, and no one I know has offered their help. I m tired of dating and would rather just be married. My parents won t do anything, and yet everyone I have ever met says I m gorgeous. I would like to know where I can find a brick and mortar matchmaker service that offers this option (I don t know how I would search it in google, I hate tried and just come up with "I don t want an arranged marriage!" Or the TV show.). If anyone has any actual ideas or a real answer to this question please comment. i am in CA, but willing to move anywhere in the US except down south. I would also move to Europe or Australia. Any first world country, and am open to learning any language. Thank you!

From the age of 16-24 I ve gotten my nails done regularly with "tips" aka acrylic nails. I took a break for a while for financial reasons. Lately for some reason EVERYTIME I go to the nail salon they keep charging me for putting gel over my acrylic nails WITH OUT telling me. It looks EXACTLY the same as whatever crap they normally puts top and the only difference is you have to wait under a heating lamp. I have refused to pay for something a I didn t ask for, and it s really quite annoying this bait and switch crap. Has anyone else ever encountered this? What do you do?

I'm 27, and have had a handful of REALLY BAD relationships. I've been single now for 8 months, and only seem to draw the attention of said men. I'm a little quirky, like the outdoors, pretty but not like a model or something, and a genuinely nice person. I try to get along with everyone, and have a lot of interests and like to have fun. I don't go to bars, dress slutty or go after men, so why am I only attracting this type of guy? And by WAY too old I mean like in their 50's. I don't think I'm all that picky, I just want someone to have fun with and be friends with while being in a relationship. WHAT am I doing wrong?

Seriously? It s a dating website, what do they think WOMEN are on there for? Or am I just old Fashioned and the only person on a dating site ACTUALLY looking for a future?

I couldn't find ANYTHING online about this. I woke up about an hour ago hearing my father in the bathroom making strange cough like sounds. It didn't sound normal (he's got a smokers caugh it wasn't that) and almost sounded like a mix between burping caughing and the sound that happens before one throws up. It didn't come from his chest like a caugh does involving air more like a gag? He was in there for about 10 minutes CLEARLY over te toilet.

I asked if he was okay he said "I'm fine." Well I know he's not. His teeth have been rotting out of his skull for over 15 years, hes dehydrated according to his pee which he rarely flushes (it's dark orange), he's been losing weight (and not trying to), he's got esophagus issues he was born with, a two year old untreated hernia, eats poorly and smokes like a chimney. A few weeks ago I caught a stomach bug and threw up once. He caught it and was sick for a week. Mother finally asked if he wanted to go to the dr.s he said he was fine. I'm wondering if this strange sound could be linked to any of these things or is unrelated?

I rescued my cat as a kitten, and she has always been the Princess of the castle. She follows me everywhere, and likes to "talk" to everyone and sits up high to keep an eyes on the family. However, she will come up to me asking for some sort of affection, rubbing on me, looking up at me and sitting right next to me all the time (right now she is sitting in front of the heater with me, her body on top of my feet). I know she loves me but she doesn't seem to like to be pet ANYWHERE except her chin, neck and once or twice down her sided. She does like to be picked up hand held for a bit, but otherwise she just seems to want to be near me and cooed at or played with. Is there some reason she hates to be pet? She's the first long haired my family has had, the rest were short and loved to be pet, groomed etc. she on the other hand seems to hate it.

This happened to me last year. I go to irs.gov and click on their free tax return programs because I make jack ****. I fill out the forms and then at the very last minute it says I owe them $19.95 wtf? Last year I just did mine the old fashioned way on paper, but got back less than what the online site said I would, and don t want that to happen again. What does everyone else do, and why are they charging me if I clearly qualify. (I made under $10k)

My mother and sister are both considered slightly obese. We have all been eating better and I have been working out. I've lost some weight (I was never overweight) and I mentioned this to mother who gave me a terrible look "your losing MORE weight?" Well I'm not skinny and I'm not toned which is what I'm going for. She and I are the same height 5'0 and I'm a 3. She seems to think she'll never be and that it would be unhealthy for her to be any smaller than an 8! And she says she's a 10 but there is a lot of "muffin top" I completely disagree, but my sister also thinks the same thing about her self. I think it is unhealthy to be an 8 at 5'0! They both get upset when I tell them I'm working out and working on my weight loss. I just dont get it! Neither of them do any sort of working out, and yet they eat pretty healthy. Is there any explanation?

My mother and I are losing weight and she tells me her pants are too big, which is sort of true in the leg area, however she has more than a muffin top. It's like a huge belly over her pants. she's got imprints on her stomach where the button is, and you wouldn't even be able to see the tops of her jeans if you tried to. I'm not sure how she can say she is a 10. I don't "wear a size" unless there is absolutely ZERO muffin top, and am a little conserned because she says she wore an 8 in her wedding photos yet she literally looked half the size she is now. She's only 5'1 and tells me she will never wear a 5 again. I find this rediculace because I'm 5'0 and wear a 3 and still feel as though I have a lot to lose. Should I tell her the pants she wears look too small? Is she in denial?

This isn't about me. I'm trying to help my mom out here. Basically about 15 years ago my parents stopped having a relationship. They stayed married because my mother was undergoing becoming a pastor, and my dad seems to think things are fine. When he lost his job in 2011 she found out he had delinquent taxes for YEARS of about $300k. She only made about 1/2 what he did, but was forced to pay his unpaid taxes. Hes had to sell the house, and all her savings, meanwhile he took a trip to Japan! He has NEVER ONCE offered to help her pay any of it, and spent all his savings on crap. She has NO money now, and he doesn't work or help out, not even around the house. She was pushed into paying a grand to help him get into some sales job, which hasn't paid off (Not that she's seen any of the money) and he's now ****** up a car situation, owing hundreds of dollars because he spent it on crap instead of paying the registration. He has tickets and an expired CA DL of 12 years. Would a separation make it so my mom can finally be freed? She has worked HARD for YEARS even before they were married an it's all gone because of him.