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I have a jar of strawberry glaze from the store, but it's just a little too sweet for my taste. I want to put it on top of a cheesecake so I still need it to be thick. Are there any ways to dilute it?

Ok I've been seeing this guy for a month, and I've never been happier than when I'm with him. Only one problem, his best friend is a whiny attention seeking girl whose name he has tattooed on a part of his body. Before we started dating he told me that he was once in love with her but she never returned the feelings. Since he's said that, I can't believe that he's not still in love with her. It hurts me and I don't feel that I measure up to her, even if he tells me I'm the most important person in his life, I can't help thinking that I'm not his number 1. And when I discuss it with him all he can say is that he won't let her out of his life because they've been through too much. I don't want to be jealous, I just want to know that this relationship is safe. What should I do?

I used to work with a girl who I considered one of my best friends, she quit and then went out of town for a week. Which was fine, and then she came back and started getting upset that I was working so much and not spending time with her. She started sending me text messages about "the good times we used to have" like we were ages ago. And then on a night when I got off early, all I wanted to do was go home and see my daughter (I would like to add that I work in a very stressful environment and most of the time when she talks it's all about the drama in her life) and I told her that.

Somehow it started this "what did I do to you?" that I just didn't understand and I told her she didn't do anything, but then she started calling me really horrible things, and I fired back.

It ended with me saying that I was done with this and I turned off my phone. Now she keeps texting me that she wants to talk and she doesn't want it to end like this and I really don't know what to do.

Help!

I've only been on three dates with this guy and (honestly) they were pretty lame and I'll admit that I looked bored during them. I do work with him and he sees that with other guys I tend to laugh a lot and just have a blast, but these other guys are just friends and people I would never even consider dating. He gets angry when he sees this and when I explain to him that I'm not trying to impress the others so I act like a goof it only ends with him implying that I think he's stupid.

I really do like this guy, and I haven't had the best relationships in the past so I always feel extremely ackward with new guys, him included. I want to make this work, but I just don't know how.

Help...?