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Is this relationship doomed?

I've only been on three dates with this guy and (honestly) they were pretty lame and I'll admit that I looked bored during them. I do work with him and he sees that with other guys I tend to laugh a lot and just have a blast, but these other guys are just friends and people I would never even consider dating. He gets angry when he sees this and when I explain to him that I'm not trying to impress the others so I act like a goof it only ends with him implying that I think he's stupid.

I really do like this guy, and I haven't had the best relationships in the past so I always feel extremely ackward with new guys, him included. I want to make this work, but I just don't know how.

Help...?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ,It takes two to tango and for whatever reason, you two don't seem to hit it off.I also think his attitude is'nt good.Controling,jealous and self denial.Like it's all your fault.Honestly I'd look elsewhere

  • 1 decade ago

    This is a good example of why intraoffice dating is a bad idea. For additional support, even if from a comedy show, watch "The Office" (current and older shows.)

    Tell the guy that you aren't attracted to him (because you obviously aren't) and therefore would date only on a non-romantic basis (hanging out rather than hooking up.) Sure, you might hurt his feelings, but at least you will be honest with him.

    Good luck, yoiu might need it.

  • 1 decade ago

    u have 2 choice

    1, 10 minutes before he pick u up drink a cup of vodka to loosen up

    2, grow balls and have a good time, try to enjoy urself, scream out the window if u have to

  • 1 decade ago

    look you need to be yourself. if he doesnt like it then its his lost. U were bored, hello, thats a big sign. do urself a favor and move on.

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